I want the man that I can give my life for in a heartbeat without thinking, and would fight 10 men with my teeth and love and wild fury in the defense of him, because he is that damn good of a man whether he dies fighting for me or not. I want the guy that makes me aware every moment that I pray that I am ready to get between him and any force on earth because to die for him horribly is better than to live a moment without him. I want the one that I fight God and man and nature and all of hell for without ever thinking about it no matter how the odds are stacked because as HE GUARDS MY HEART AND SOUL EVERY MOMENT WITH WHO HE IS I WILL GUARD HIM EVEry MOMENt WIth EVERY PART OF ME. THATs what I want. Yes, I know, dream on. But I would rather do anything to find and have this one man, damn the consequences, laws, rules, social structures or any other thing than live without it, and I am constantly aware that every moment that I am not looking for that match, is one moment more that I am not WITH that match.
Wow, quite a baring of the soul. Many peeps are afraid to do that nowadays.
Your story rings of a bygone era when the cavemen would club their mate over the head, then drag them home and live happily ever after, without any more need for the club.
You mentioned in your post two previous encounter with the men of your dreams. What happened? Even this fantasy, it seems, did not last for long, in reality.
Many men, including myself dream of the type of woman you are. But if we truly found her would we know what to do with her? True love, they say, will last until either one of us is separated by death.
I guess all the factors would probably be found, in real life, in Bill Clinton?
...I got a far as,..*I know what I want....*......then thought.....huha/huha/huha........*good luck finding such a man...???????*.......even god could,nt fill that spot......
DedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia5,492 posts
truheart1941: ...I got a far as,..*I know what I want....*......then thought.....huha/huha/huha........*good luck finding such a man...???????*.......even god could,nt fill that spot......
in all seriousness though, I think what "women" want is going to vary from person to person. I simply want a man who is my best friend (with that extra little spark). otherwise I am fairly happy being single. I think the fewer expectations we have on one another as people, the better the chances....so I know that were the shoe on the other foot, the OPs long list would be waaaay too much for me - too many expectations
As far as what happened with the 2 companions I've found who fit said list, one of them fit most of it for a year and a half until he cheated then lied to my face about it, and the other I still see. I'm poly amorous and this is not a secret in my life.
danieljosh: seems a fair comment how could you find someone who into box that completely suits someone else going to be a strain
Everyone is different and their own person and I think you have to see how things are going and if you can get on with someone. I think if someone has to many requirements, it's all about themselves and what they want, and not what 2 people can become as a couple.
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