Why is the woman the one that has to relocate? ( Archived) (68)

Mar 1, 2015 2:04 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
Charlie2016
Charlie2016Charlie2016Ontario, Canada3 Threads 1 Polls 48 Posts
What is wrong with men using their passports?
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Mar 1, 2015 2:05 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
Charlie2016: What is wrong with men using their passports?


Mine is all up to date and been used many times. ;-}
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Mar 1, 2015 2:15 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
I wasn't aware of that... Are you talking from experience or is this a general thing.
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Mar 1, 2015 2:15 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
If you live in a perpetual holiday place,why relocate????
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Mar 1, 2015 2:25 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
Charlie2016: What is wrong with men using their passports?


Nothing wrong with men using their passports. I think you question should be more specific. What is wrong with your man who you are interested in using his passport?

Probably you don't give a toss about all the other men who are interested in relocating..... so it would be nice not to generalise about it, but be more specific about it.

In my case I traveled to China to date my wife, she wanted to move to Australia, so she decided to move. One day, I would like to move to China.

It really depends on both partners in a relationship and what they decide.

If it is such a big deal for you, then I don't think you really want the kind of relationship that I have with my wife. Because in this kind of relationship, it is about the other person, as much as it is about ourselves....

Cheers,
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Mar 1, 2015 2:31 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
Charlie2016
Charlie2016Charlie2016Ontario, Canada3 Threads 1 Polls 48 Posts
chris27292729: If you live in a perpetual holiday place,why relocate????



But your perpetual holiday place is broke. $$$





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Mar 1, 2015 2:34 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
Charlie2016
Charlie2016Charlie2016Ontario, Canada3 Threads 1 Polls 48 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Charlie2016..

I wasn't aware of that... Are you talking from experience or is this a general thing.



Let's just say it's a general thing, I have noticed how the first thought is to have the woman relocate to the man's homeland. Why? I mean have HIM do all the moving. Have HM leave his family.
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Mar 1, 2015 2:38 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Then ask those,as why coming in a subshine country for holiday.
What ""Broke"" has to do with your own topic????


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Charlie2016: But your perpetual holiday place is broke. $$$
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Mar 1, 2015 2:43 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
Charlie2016
Charlie2016Charlie2016Ontario, Canada3 Threads 1 Polls 48 Posts
chris27292729: Then ask those,as why coming in a subshine country for holiday.
What ""Broke"" has to do with your own topic????



It has a lot to do with the topic, some will say: -yes, come to .......(country's name) For a better life and more choices, but they never stop to ask if you actually wanna leave your country for theirs. Just because his country is better economically it doesn't mean we should live there.
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Mar 1, 2015 2:48 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
You are OK with your extreme cold comditions,
and am OK with my perpetual sunshine,even if am ""Broke"".
Charlie2016: It has a lot to do with the topic, some will say: -yes, come to .......(country's name) For a better life and more choices, but they never stop to ask if you actually wanna leave your country for theirs. Just because his country is better economically it doesn't mean we should live there.
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Mar 1, 2015 2:52 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Charlie2016: It has a lot to do with the topic, some will say: -yes, come to .......(country's name) For a better life and more choices, but they never stop to ask if you actually wanna leave your country for theirs. Just because his country is better economically it doesn't mean we should live there.


That is true. Not everybody, neither male nor female wants to move from their country, no matter what the economic or political situation.

However, if you get into an LDR and want it to continue into real life, one has to make the sacrifice.

That is why I don't do LDRs. I don't want to move, and wouldn't expect anybody to move for me.
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Mar 1, 2015 2:53 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
Charlie2016
Charlie2016Charlie2016Ontario, Canada3 Threads 1 Polls 48 Posts
chris27292729: You are OK with your extreme cold comditions,
and am OK with my perpetual sunshine,even if am ""Broke"".



A FISH MAY LOVE A BIRD, BUT WHERE WOULD THEY LIVE?
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Mar 1, 2015 2:54 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
mollybaby: That is true. Not everybody, neither male nor female wants to move from their country, no matter what the economic or political situation.

However, if you get into an LDR and want it to continue into real life, one has to make the sacrifice.

That is why I don't do LDRs. I don't want to move, and wouldn't expect anybody to move for me.


Darn it! And all these times, i was thinking to relocate for you, wimmin!doh rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 1, 2015 2:56 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
noeleena
noeleenanoeleenawaimate, Canterbury New Zealand2 Threads 251 Posts
Hi,

From what I see and know is many men have their work and don't wont to move so , A bit different in our case.s Mom and I moved because of having to and after that I worked for the Govt and moved so Mom came with me 5 moves ,

Jos and I also moved a lot and with 3 children around the south isl of NZ all up 17 moves yes we brought and sold then moved if Jos wonted to move we just got on with it and went .

Now I can live in Austraila full time if / when I decide to so no issues there,

A passport yes and you need more than just that in another country

Now your ? why do women have to move because the men wont, some any way well, in our case,s we decided to gether .

As I dought very much wether ill have a partner ( yes I live by my self ). it,ll be up to myself now what or where I go,

Would I move for some one else Hmmmm ??? doubt i.ll have to .

...noeleena...
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Mar 1, 2015 2:57 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
mnowsa: Darn it! And all these times, i was thinking to relocate for you, wimmin!


Nopelaugh

No LDR, no relocation. ..simple grin
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Mar 1, 2015 3:03 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
mollybaby: That is true. Not everybody, neither male nor female wants to move from their country, no matter what the economic or political situation.

However, if you get into an LDR and want it to continue into real life, one has to make the sacrifice.

That is why I don't do LDRs. I don't want to move, and wouldn't expect anybody to move for me.
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Mar 1, 2015 3:07 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
yay yay yay
Charlie2016: A FISH MAY LOVE A BIRD, BUT WHERE WOULD THEY LIVE?

Any suggestions???
doh doh doh
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Mar 1, 2015 3:40 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
QueenUtopia
QueenUtopiaQueenUtopiaHalmstad, Halland Sweden165 Posts
Why not have two places, they are already there so why take one away. Why just not alternate, or if one want to have some own time with friends from home country just stay alone for a few weeks or whatever. Cant see the need for anyone to relocate. Keep both places. Sometimes "broke" countries have very beautiful locations and views also very wonderful people, I met some when I was in Chris country lol. Guess what, the view, the sun, the wonderful people didnt cost any extra so think "broke" countries can be as good as any. It is what you make of it. Just my opinion of course.
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Mar 1, 2015 3:50 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Queenutopia..

Most people don't have the time off work to alternate from one location to another, unless you have a very understanding employer.
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Mar 1, 2015 3:54 AM CST Why is the woman the one that has to relocate?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Charlie2016: What is wrong with men using their passports?


If you don't want to move, you have to try to meet someone locally, simples.
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