Men and Women see things differently ( Archived) (75)

Mar 20, 2015 6:16 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
Needy types men and women might overlook certain traits about their lovers but that's the needy passive type.



Women will move heaven and earth for a loved one as woman is Mother Earth the nurturer but make no mistake most women will forget nothing,


It's all.


writing
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Mar 20, 2015 6:18 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
peachmelba: Needy types men and women might overlook certain traits about their lovers but that's the needy passive type.
Women will move heaven and earth for a loved one as woman is Mother Earth the nurturer but make no mistake most women will forget nothing,It's all.





Or is that Mother Nature I should have typed,lol,


Talking of which I missed the eclipse.

blues
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Mar 20, 2015 6:38 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
Harryonline
HarryonlineHarryonlineLondon, Greater London, England UK4 Threads 639 Posts
felixis99: poor Harry....those naughty girls....corrupting our young and finest


Its proof that in this big wide world, madness has no bounds
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Mar 20, 2015 6:41 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Obstinance_Works: Providing that she's emotionally uninvolved then her best guess about a person or situation is better than the mans.

Girls provide useful insights, not when they themselves care about something as all will become clouded by emotional irrationality, but when she is interested for your sake. There's not a man out there who couldn't take some sound advice from a woman who doesn't care what he's talking about.


"Behind every great man is a great woman"

And this is how that works. This is how women support a man into becoming more than he would have been without her. He may be the total expert of his field and his wife an untrained amateur, yet he'd do very well to listen to her all the same. His knowledgeable certainties will miss things that her best guesses do not.
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Mar 20, 2015 6:47 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
Harryonline: Its proof that in this big wide world, madness has no bounds


well that is true, at least, of your inbox worldhug laugh



(now what's the really good stuff he's not telling?)hmmm
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Mar 20, 2015 6:49 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
Obstinance_Works: "Behind every great man is a great woman"

And this is how that works. This is how women support a man into becoming more than he would have been without her. He may be the total expert of his field and his wife an untrained amateur, yet he'd do very well to listen to her all the same. His knowledgeable certainties will miss things that her best guesses do not.






Well alot of the time a woman is in total syncrinicity with her man because she knows what he is even thinking before he has said it ,

So there really is no need for him to answer and her guess is usually the right one,


Now allow me the last word while I make me a cuppa and get ready to leave the building .


laugh
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Mar 20, 2015 7:43 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
vodla3
vodla3vodla3Rockhampton, Queensland Australia282 Posts
Which gender is more perceptive generally? Which is a better judge of character?
Personally, I think men are. They are also more black and white. They don't over-think things. But then sometimes, I would see a female, either online on in real life and think,

' God, if I were a man, I wouldn't touch her with a 10-foot-pole! She would make your life hell with nagging, moaning and negativity"

And then I would see men nearly falling over themselves to attract her!

And that makes me re-evaluate about their good judgement.

Ah,dear,some women think,imagining n believe,that they have a pe**s instead of cavity.I believe that all women should try to feel contentment when they got a pe**s in theirs perforation !
Well, that's what they r designed for.Unfortunately not all of them follow the great NATURAL-DESIGN.
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Mar 20, 2015 8:24 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
Nothing more prouder than a peacock .


pointing .


Ah yes there is ??what is it.
















Another peacock.


laugh .
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Mar 20, 2015 8:28 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
sweeper: i think iam a good judge of people in general dont like or never had liked
women that i thought would bring me down whit there negativity even if they looked like a super model maybe my other brain is wired wrong
n leave seat up in bathroom,lol.size doesnt matter,too.lol.
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Mar 20, 2015 8:45 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
mollybaby: Which gender is more perceptive generally? Which is a better judge of character?
Personally, I think men are. They are also more black and white. They don't over-think things. But then sometimes, I would see a female, either online on in real life and think,

' God, if I were a man, I wouldn't touch her with a 10-foot-pole! She would make your life hell with nagging, moaning and negativity"

And then I would see men nearly falling over themselves to attract her!

And that makes me re-evaluate about their good judgement.

Maybe men are only good judges of men? And their other 'brain' often takes over when a woman is the subject?Thoughts?


Yeah, men are pretty basic creatures a lot of the time, a good set of mammary glands can make the greatest thinker into a fool.

In the words of "Donkey" out of Shrek "Wake up and smell the pheromones"... Sometimes the pheromones take over for a while.

Sometimes personality comes into play, and hormones, and culture, and upbringing, and all sorts of stuff.

Sometimes we just have to go through a whole lot of wrong ones to learn who are the right ones.

When making many discoveries, the discoverers often went through a lot of failures, and misses.

Sometimes, that is the same with relationships.

It depends on the dreams (aka desires, lusts, and unrealistic expectations) that can also lead a person into a wrong attraction.

It takes a fair sense of insight, wisdom to see past the exterior and into the interior. Most blokes are not real good at that intuitive stuff.

Yeah, often the 'other brain' has a really big influence, even if some men say that it doesn't, they really are not be absolutely true. It is the way we were made....

Gender differences go right down to the fact that even our brains are wired differently.

That is why I always mockingly smile when I hear all the political guff about equality. There is fact that men and women are not equal. This fact bears fruit in that women are better than men in certain areas of life, and men are better than women in other areas of life.

It is that these differences and the acknowledgement of these things should be embraced, and honoured, not futilely try to be squashed to make each gender the same. Men and women will never be the same.

The happiest relationships that I have been in and that I have witnessed have accepted that each has strengths different to the other and in these relationships they have allowed and benefited from each gender's different strengths to balance out the other gender's weaker points.

It is when we acknowledge and accept these differences, that we can begin to not whinge about the other. Sure we can be annoyed, but if we keep that knowledge in the forefront of our thinking, those annoyances seem to diminish in the level of importance that some place on them.

JMO.
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Mar 20, 2015 11:40 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
mollybaby: Which gender is more perceptive generally? Which is a better judge of character?
Personally, I think men are. They are also more black and white. They don't over-think things. But then sometimes, I would see a female, either online on in real life and think,

' God, if I were a man, I wouldn't touch her with a 10-foot-pole! She would make your life hell with nagging, moaning and negativity"

And then I would see men nearly falling over themselves to attract her!

And that makes me re-evaluate about their good judgement.

Maybe men are only good judges of men? And their other 'brain' often takes over when a woman is the subject?Thoughts?

Of course we do see things differently, since we are different not only from men to woman but from each to another.

The time : 300 BC
“As for the differences between husband and wife, Aristotle says that these "always" consisted in external appearances, in speeches, and in honors. Aristotle advocated that, should a husband lose money and his reputation, a wife was to refrain from complaint and to attribute this to sickness, ignorance or accidental errors. He thought that, sometimes but not always, males were leaders, or, both the male and the female have the deliberative capacity of the soul, but he thought that in the female it lacked authority…”

The time: 2015
Any one can be who ever she or he wants to be (not in all countries though) and that includes how people see things, how people see his/her world, "How men see women". However, there is not just one pattern to man or to women on how to see things.

Although if a man thinks to stay away from a woman, he better follows it.


laugh
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Mar 20, 2015 5:42 PM CST Men and Women see things differently
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
mollybaby: Which gender is more perceptive generally? Which is a better judge of character?
Personally, I think men are. They are also more black and white. They don't over-think things. But then sometimes, I would see a female, either online on in real life and think,

' God, if I were a man, I wouldn't touch her with a 10-foot-pole! She would make your life hell with nagging, moaning and negativity"

And then I would see men nearly falling over themselves to attract her!

And that makes me re-evaluate about their good judgement.

Maybe men are only good judges of men? And their other 'brain' often takes over when a woman is the subject?Thoughts?



I think men and women are generally better judges of their own gender.
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Mar 21, 2015 8:17 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
dancingsanta
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Mar 21, 2015 8:18 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Obstinance_Works: Providing that she's emotionally uninvolved then her best guess about a person or situation is better than the mans.

Girls provide useful insights, not when they themselves care about something as all will become clouded by emotional irrationality, but when she is interested for your sake. There's not a man out there who couldn't take some sound advice from a woman who doesn't care what he's talking about.



Obs, would I be right in thinking that you have the highest regard for good women.

And the highest contempt for bad women?
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Mar 21, 2015 8:20 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Hi Berry! hug


It is a most gorgeous Spring day here.

The birds are singing, the sun is shining, and all is good in the world! cheering
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Mar 21, 2015 8:27 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
mollybaby: Hi Berry! It is a most gorgeous Spring day here.

The birds are singing, the sun is shining, and all is good in the world!


Hi Molly hug

Glad to hear wave

Excuse me. I'm just being an annoying so and so tonight....laugh
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Mar 21, 2015 8:31 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
peachmelba: That's why people who are councilers and actually experienced what they are counciling about have experienced it for themselves,



Learned empathy through one's own life experiences....wine
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Mar 21, 2015 8:43 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
BerrySmoothie: Do you know a few Molly?



A lot.

I used to work with them
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Mar 21, 2015 8:46 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
mollybaby: A lot.

I used to work with them





Interesting so did I but never found that to be true in my case,


I suppose you get the ones regardless who have no empathy,



As I said councilers that have had the experiences to their clients make the best ones,
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Mar 21, 2015 8:46 AM CST Men and Women see things differently
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
mollybaby: A lot.

I used to work with them


Oh, I see.

That's your view then.

There happens to be lots of crazies in all vocations of life.

...so a few slipped through the net in your experiences....sad flower
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