tonydegler: I am just wondering. Why is it so hard to find a good woman on this dating website? Most woman now a days just want friends with benefits. What happen to a serious committed relationship?
Isn't it the same question for women? Why is it so hard to find a good man on this site. I think so many male are looking for a foolish woman, the moment they find out you are not ready to waste your time, they will change run away like cowards. I enjoy that though.
tonydegler: I am just wondering. Why is it so hard to find a good woman on this dating website? Most woman now a days just want friends with benefits. What happen to a serious committed relationship?
Most likely because YOU have an expanded, exaggerated and impossible set of criteria in respect of what you suppose makes a woman a 'good woman' and that's in conflict with the similar set of criteria held by many women as to what makes a man a 'good man'.
Add to that there's " unlimited choice " and women (especially) have a tendency to always think there's someone better just rounbd the corner.
Think of it like a restaurant menu ... on all those TV 'rescue shows' one of, if not THE very first thing that the SuperChef does is to cut back on the number of dishes. Makes iy easy for the kitchen staff AND it also makes it easier for the customer TO CHOOSE.
The date site industry makes torrents of money by turning unaware highly cheerful optimists into deeply cynical pessimists !
" The chances of anything coming from Mars
Are a billion to one they say ... "
The chances of anything coming from THIS are even smaller :-)
And for the those people, who are here all day every day, it allows them to kid themselves
tonydegler: I am just wondering. Why is it so hard to find a good woman on this dating website? Most woman now a days just want friends with benefits. What happen to a serious committed relationship?
you get what you focus on. there are many women on this site seeking serious committed relationships...perhaps you are attracting to yourself those women that fit your views..?
change your thinking, and your results may change.
( ....change your perception....change your reality...)
jono7: you get what you focus on. there are many women on this site seeking serious committed relationships...perhaps you are attracting to yourself those women that fit your views..?
change your thinking, and your results may change.
( ....change your perception....change your reality...)
Can I double check you spelling ?
Did you really mean p e r c e p t i o n /
It's just that many (most even maybe) on here change there reality by changing their p r e s c r i p t i o n !
tonydegler: I am just wondering. Why is it so hard to find a good woman on this dating website? Most woman now a days just want friends with benefits. What happen to a serious committed relationship?
Considering this thread was posted by you back in June 2016 and we haven't seen hide nor hair of you since, I'm hoping it means your absence is due to having found someone and if you have, problem solved. There's a good chance you won't even be reading this or any of the other comments but for the benefit of others, I think I'll just post this that could pertain to both men and women....
-------------------------WOMEN/MEN ------------------------- are like APPLES ----------------------on trees. The BEST ones ---------------------are at the TOP of the tree. ----------------MOST men/women DON'T want to reach -------------------for the GOOD ONES because they -----------------are AFRAID of falling and getting HURT. ----------------- Instead they pick the ROTTEN apples ------------------from the ground that aren't as GOOD, -----------------but are EASY. The apples on TOP think -----------------something is wrong with THEM when in ------------------reality, they're AMAZING. They just ----------------have to wait for the RIGHT man/woman to ---------------------come along, THE ONE who is ---------------------------BRAVE enough to -------------------------------CLIMB all --------------------------------the way -------------------------------to the TOP ------------------------------of the TREE...
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Or simply no idea
I think we have taken this as far as it can go