Say Anything ( Archived) (837)

I agree

You said it sister!

I thought she was a bloke

Are you Blind

Well I know what sent you blind

Sometimes I wonder who really owns CS.

I posted yesterday in the Cyber bullying thread because I couldn´t stand it that the one person said „Well said“ to the other person, and the well said thing was, including even the personal appearing words, only word for word copied from the internet. Which sense does it make to communicate through copied and pasted words of others, I asked myself and posted the links that belonged to the copied things. But that didn´t mean anything because it was misunderstood. Ah, I can´t help it.

I really tried hard to understand the whole thing. In my microcosmos here at home I am glad that I cared for that my daughter has a backbone, can defend herself and also others and recognizes if intelligence and also emotional intelligence is there in someone or not. She can differentiate between right and wrong like me, and when there happens something really wrong, she opens her mouth like I do.

The only time here on CS that I saw bullying was a few days ago. Someone insulted another person again and again and then, in the same post, cited even which insults a second person had allegedly said about that person. If that is not bullying ... After I read that I thought a few hours about it, then I tried to send a personal message. That was not possible because of the settings. Then I wrote to the moderators and asked them to talk with that person because it was wrong what that person did and way too much and out of control.
I am aware of that fact that always is mentioned that we can go away from a thread when we don´t want to read something or don´t like somebody. But I can not even say that I don´t like the person that insulted the other person. I don´t know that person. I only know that I went away, but that didn´t help. Everywhere was that negative behaviour of that person to find. So, the bullying because of which I wrote to the moderators was the icing of the cake for me. I would have felt stupid if I would have not reported that person. What happened there was the worst I have read here, and if we all would have been in one room, I would have gone to the (only) bully (here), had said my opinion and would have asked a few questions to see if any understanding is there or if good social mechanisms are there or not. I am afraid some of them are not there.

Actually this theme is only a loud thought. This is only about how extremely disturbed I felt personally by that person and about my wish to push that negative person away. Nobody else is involved in this.I like this place because of so many people and have not the intention to leave it. It is not my life, but I wish often I would know people like Michaelright, Mollybaby, Unlaoised, Arargorn, Serene, KNenagh, Golden42, Bspoken4, MikeD12, Lookin4missright and Fifitrixibelle and of course Truheart in person who give this site such a good atmosphere. No one of them has ever been a bully. They are intelligent in their minds and hearts and so dear and funny.

In my ideal world there would not be superiority or inferiority between people. And in that world everybody would have an open mind because then it is easier to talk and there would not be fear and emotional stupidity.

This is the first time in my entire life that I reported or squealed on someone (that was by the way yesterday or the day before, I don´t remember), but as I said it would have felt wrong to do it not. But I think it will not have any effect anyway.

It is not possible to insult me here or anywhere. I have the most important thing accomplished in my life already, and that is that my child feels loved and has an open, intelligent mind and an open heart. If I would not be agnostic, I would think I got on purpose the most beautiful present in the whole world

Spot on, Og