I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out. ( Archived) (36)

Nov 11, 2017 1:49 PM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
We arrived late at the restaurant, but was allocated an outside table of many.

My friend had the seafood platter

My eldest son had prawns and muscles

While I had Muscles, Sole and Spinach ..

We enjoyed ever bit of it.

How often do u get out ?

grin
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Nov 11, 2017 2:08 PM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
One2note: Forget the food, did he get his "leg over"at the end of the night?


No, we were picked up from home, ate and had nothing to pay. Then he bought me a really expensive Protean, took us home and left about an hour later.

Luckily he's decent, which is more than what I can say about u.
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Nov 11, 2017 2:22 PM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
One2note: I can imagine , he saw you in the flesh & decided against any sort of s*xual advances.


Like with all men, he tried his luck, got rejected, could not believe It, and just keep trying.
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Nov 11, 2017 2:30 PM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
One2note: So how does that make him decent?


I know him from work and thus am aware of the negative and positive inclinations.
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Nov 11, 2017 2:38 PM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
One2note: Is there a chance, this all happened in your head & your imagination is running away with you?


Typical u.

Look up transference ?
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Nov 11, 2017 5:22 PM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
One2note: Is there a chance, this all happened in your head & your imagination is running away with you?


Bingo - you called on the full card !

doh
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Nov 12, 2017 5:25 AM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
HexagonKeySet: Bingo - you called on the full card !


U really r useless, living in ur mind, believing everyone is as twisted as u 2.

Luckily I first have to like someone and u 2 haven't a chance anywhere.

U 2 just display the scrap on this website !!!
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Nov 12, 2017 6:21 AM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
I fancied seafood, a few times this week,, i had it 3 times at home,
then got invited out by my gentleman friend to his house, where he cooked
me some very tasty fish , ,, yummy .wow wine
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Nov 12, 2017 6:35 AM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
annaroach: I fancied seafood, a few times this week,, i had it 3 times at home,
then got invited out by my gentleman friend to his house, where he cooked
me some very tasty fish , ,, yummy .


U c I'm not so lucky (gentleman friend) but do have a chef son in-house.
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Nov 12, 2017 7:43 AM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Bogart_1960: we're omnivores. Our system can handle a lot of stuff., but Breatharians are on to something, for sure

out everyday.


Meat is not really my scene !
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Nov 13, 2017 12:10 AM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Let me get this straight...

A work colleague has tried it on with you a number of times, but you've rejected him because you don't like him.

You then ask him to take you and your son out because you fancy seafood, he picks you up, pays for your dinner, buys you an expensive gift and then drops you back home.

Have I got that right?
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Nov 13, 2017 12:27 AM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
jac_the_gripper: Let me get this straight...

A work colleague has tried it on with you a number of times, but you've rejected him because you don't like him.

You then ask him to take you and your son out because you fancy seafood, he picks you up, pays for your dinner, buys you an expensive gift and then drops you back home.

Have I got that right?


I was thinking the very same thing when I read it but was afraid to ask!!!!!

I hope to god we r wrong..it's too early for my blood to start boiling.
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Nov 13, 2017 12:34 AM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
You should have hooked into the champagne and desert, seeing as he was paying. And your son should have had the lobster, and a few top shelf scotches mixed with coke.
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Nov 13, 2017 12:38 AM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
So. One makes a nasty assumption and the rest follows.

Sheep
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Nov 13, 2017 12:41 AM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
Aww c'mon snooks, you know I'm only joking. teddybear
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Nov 13, 2017 12:46 AM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
serene56: Not nearly enough

Sounds like you had a lovely evening girl


Thanx Serene

Yes we all did
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Nov 13, 2017 12:50 AM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
Deedee123x: I was thinking the very same thing when I read it but was afraid to ask!!!!!

I hope to god we r wrong..it's too early for my blood to start boiling.

With ladies on this, personally I think terrible behaviour.
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Nov 13, 2017 1:24 AM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
What nasty assumptions do you assume people have made, Snooks?

I asked you if I'd got the sequence of events correct from the information you have given in this thread.

If I have got the sequence of events correct, I suspect your work colleague likes you rather a lot.

I'm wondering if you think you've made it clear that you're only interested in friendship, but he thinks something else, like you want to take things slowly.

It comes across to me that you're perhaps unwittingly giving him mixed messages - I don't ask people I don't like to take me out to dinner, or accept expensive gifts from them. I don't ask that of my friends.

I might ask a friend if they want to go hill walking, and if my friend drives, I make the food, flasks and pay the car parking fees so it's kinda...fair.

I'm thinking that your work colleague wants to see you happy, will do anything you ask to spend time with you and may end up feeling horribly hurt and used by you.

I'm not saying you're doing this deliberately, but it looks to me like some rather essential social cues are being missed by you.
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Nov 13, 2017 1:30 AM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
jac_the_gripper: What nasty assumptions do you assume people have made, Snooks?

I asked you if I'd got the sequence of events correct from the information you have given in this thread.

If I have got the sequence of events correct, I suspect your work colleague likes you rather a lot.

I'm wondering if you think you've made it clear that you're only interested in friendship, but he thinks something else, like you want to take things slowly.

It comes across to me that you're perhaps unwittingly giving him mixed messages - I don't ask people I don't like to take me out to dinner, or accept expensive gifts from them. I don't ask that of my friends.

I might ask a friend if they want to go hill walking, and if my friend drives, I make the food, flasks and pay the car parking fees so it's kinda...fair.

I'm thinking that your work colleague wants to see you happy, will do anything you ask to spend time with you and may end up feeling horribly hurt and used by you.

I'm not saying you're doing this deliberately, but it looks to me like some rather essential social cues are being missed by you.




Let's hope the guy in question has sufficient balls to figure that out for himself conversing
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Nov 13, 2017 11:21 AM CST I fancied Seafood so asked a friend to take us out.
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Deedee123x: Maybe i just ask what he gets out of the deal then...if that's not too personal a question??
On Saturday night he brought us back to my house.

Now he's been eyeing some items in my house,

And he asked if I used them and being me,

I said Take them, we r not using them.

If anyone lost big time, it was My Household.

I hope U r happy now.

I hold up very well under x examination,

As We have very high morals and standards.

Please tell the person U were aping as well ?
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