Why Do People Contact You When Your Profile Clearly Says Not Looking? ( Archived) (34)

Nov 15, 2018 5:37 PM CST Why Do People Contact You When Your Profile Clearly Says Not Looking?
Kidwell_
Kidwell_Kidwell_South East GBA Province, Buenos Aires Argentina17 Threads 2 Polls 767 Posts
Many people just can't or won't read a profile.
S'ok though I stop replying to messages except if its one from my ex Terry. grin
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Nov 15, 2018 6:09 PM CST Why Do People Contact You When Your Profile Clearly Says Not Looking?
calmheartseeks
calmheartseekscalmheartseeksSomewhere, California USA7 Threads 1 Polls 505 Posts
Bear...laugh !
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Nov 15, 2018 6:10 PM CST Why Do People Contact You When Your Profile Clearly Says Not Looking?
calmheartseeks
calmheartseekscalmheartseeksSomewhere, California USA7 Threads 1 Polls 505 Posts
lol Molly...well I’m yelping...sorta. :)
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Nov 15, 2018 6:19 PM CST Why Do People Contact You When Your Profile Clearly Says Not Looking?
calmheartseeks
calmheartseekscalmheartseeksSomewhere, California USA7 Threads 1 Polls 505 Posts
Kid, so they don’t read the profile and send a message to no pic...

That makes sense, lol.

I think Sir T had it right.

I can sleep at night now.
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Nov 15, 2018 6:24 PM CST Why Do People Contact You When Your Profile Clearly Says Not Looking?
Kidwell_
Kidwell_Kidwell_South East GBA Province, Buenos Aires Argentina17 Threads 2 Polls 767 Posts
Sir_T: Truth is most of them dont even read your profile. They pick women out at random and send them the same generic message joping to catch someone by shotgunning.
Could this lead to what is known as a ''shotgun wedding''

laugh
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Nov 15, 2018 6:25 PM CST Why Do People Contact You When Your Profile Clearly Says Not Looking?
secludedStar
secludedStarsecludedStarUtah, USA25 Threads 2,288 Posts
calmheartseeks: Secluded, ok...I’ll add that to my profile as well...that I am not lost...just to clarify things.
You found the way out?!?!?!??!
give me the GPS coordinates please
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Nov 15, 2018 6:44 PM CST Why Do People Contact You When Your Profile Clearly Says Not Looking?
calmheartseeks
calmheartseekscalmheartseeksSomewhere, California USA7 Threads 1 Polls 505 Posts
Kidwell_: Could this lead to what is known as a ''shotgun wedding''
Good one. laugh
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Nov 15, 2018 9:17 PM CST Why Do People Contact You When Your Profile Clearly Says Not Looking?
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
Packersbabe1: Even when you do respond, and you say no like I do they still don’t comprehend the word no
its not what you say but how you say it , scammers seemingly comprehend what I mean . Funny enough they seem to skip around my profile mostly , it's why I don't think there are that many scammers , just that they have many profiles and keep renewing them and remember who not to try it on with .
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Nov 16, 2018 12:40 AM CST Why Do People Contact You When Your Profile Clearly Says Not Looking?
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
calmheartseeks: To top it off, their email then has only one to two sentences, ie “Hello, how are you doing today?”

I feel bad not responding, but I just don’t understanding this behavior.

You will say they didn’t read the profile, but it is in my profile header as well.



Others repeatedly view the profile...why?

Anyway, that’s my dilemma for the hour.
I know, my profile clearly says "do me now" and yet not one person has "done" me so far.....I´m scratching my headconfused
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Nov 16, 2018 12:55 AM CST Why Do People Contact You When Your Profile Clearly Says Not Looking?
charles_nz: I think the more relevant question would be:

Why have an active profile on a dating site if you are not looking???!!!!!!
what dating site?

This is a singles site
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Nov 16, 2018 1:25 AM CST Why Do People Contact You When Your Profile Clearly Says Not Looking?
Limun
LimunLimunAbidos, Central Serbia Serbia6 Threads 1 Polls 1,923 Posts
calmheartseeks: To top it off, their email then has only one to two sentences, ie
I feel bad not responding, but I just don’t understanding this behavior.
You will say they didn’t read the profile, but it is in my profile header as well.
Others repeatedly view the profile...why?

Anyway, that’s my dilemma for the hour.
“Hello, how are you doing today wasnt enough?”
fine, next time i`ll write you a novel ,followed by lots of pictures of me in speedos
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Nov 16, 2018 12:44 PM CST Why Do People Contact You When Your Profile Clearly Says Not Looking?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
charles_nz: I think the more relevant question would be:

Why have an active profile on a dating site if you are not looking???!!!!!!
I don't think is still considered a "dating" site. CS has been used more for connecting to people in other parts of the world to learn about their country or to just discuss world events, tell a joke, share a recipe, music, etc.
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Nov 16, 2018 12:47 PM CST Why Do People Contact You When Your Profile Clearly Says Not Looking?
marlindap
marlindapmarlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada585 Posts
it is true saying hello is not enough if someone is not putting in the effort when first meeting you they will not put any in later when it counts
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Nov 16, 2018 3:14 PM CST Why Do People Contact You When Your Profile Clearly Says Not Looking?
charles_nz
charles_nzcharles_nzChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand1,386 Posts
robplum: what dating site?

This is a singles site
This is a dating site.
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