Why Do People Contact You When Your Profile Clearly Says Not Looking? (34)
I think the more relevant question would be:
Why have an active profile on a dating site if you are not looking???!!!!!!
Why have an active profile on a dating site if you are not looking???!!!!!!
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This has been said many times before, but the answer is I enjoy the community, the blogs and the forums.
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Learn then to enjoy people contacting you as well. They are part of the deal.
Problem solved.
Problem solved.
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If You are Not looking..
WOuldn't that imply
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You're Waiting to be found
WOuldn't that imply
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You're Waiting to be found
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Secluded, ok...I’ll add that to my profile as well...that I am not lost...just to clarify things. 
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Truth is most of them dont even read your profile. They pick women out at random and send them the same generic message joping to catch someone by shotgunning.
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Even when you do respond, and you say no like I do they still don’t comprehend the word no
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charles_nz: I think the more relevant question would be:
Why have an active profile on a dating site if you are not looking???!!!!!!
Because we are given that option...Why have an active profile on a dating site if you are not looking???!!!!!!
As well as being married.
That's why!
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Sir_T: Truth is most of them dont even read your profile. They pick women out at random and send them the same generic message joping to catch someone by shotgunning.
Exactely!
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daniela777: Because we are given that option...
As well as being married.
That's why!
I can't really understand why someone would put a profile on a dating site then complain about getting messages........As well as being married.
That's why!
I'd expect you to be more unhappy if you did not get messages......
Still, you can't please all of the people all of the time........
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Packersbabe1: Even when you do respond, and you say no like I do they still don’t comprehend the word no
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daniela777: It's a waste of time responding!
Sure is,
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charles_nz: I can't really understand why someone would put a profile on a dating site then complain about getting messages........
I'd expect you to be more unhappy if you did not get messages......
Still, you can't please all of the people all of the time........
I don't complain about the messages ...or the likes..I'd expect you to be more unhappy if you did not get messages......
Still, you can't please all of the people all of the time........
On the contrary...they add to the fun.
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I am not annoyed by sincere messages..I appreciate them as anyone would....but these really are not when they ignore what I said on the profile.
Many also get angry at perceived rejection if you don’t return the feeling.
Just easier to not get involved in such conversations, esp when they start off with “Hello dear...how are you...” and that’s basically it.
Many also get angry at perceived rejection if you don’t return the feeling.
Just easier to not get involved in such conversations, esp when they start off with “Hello dear...how are you...” and that’s basically it.
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I continue to get mails from men who are too young for me that is why I'm not looking.If I was I'd being searching for someone in the real world.
I recall some months back when a man in his 50's became all rude and nasty within the blogs cause I told him I wasn't interested in him.He had also made some nasty remarks to me about me in another bloggers blog topic.
Some women bloggers had made the assumption that I had the intention of becoming involved with that particular man which was far from the truth.
I had to enter a particular blog topic and let them all know that I didn't wish to become involved with that man.
I recall some months back when a man in his 50's became all rude and nasty within the blogs cause I told him I wasn't interested in him.He had also made some nasty remarks to me about me in another bloggers blog topic.
Some women bloggers had made the assumption that I had the intention of becoming involved with that particular man which was far from the truth.
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sir T, the shotgun method...ok, now I don’t feel so bad...thanks.
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I know Bear... unfortunately, responding can become problematic. 
This cougar thing has really gotten out of hand, hasnt it?
This cougar thing has really gotten out of hand, hasnt it?
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calmheartseeks: sir T, the shotgun method...ok, now I don’t feel so bad...thanks.
He is right .Although I would equate it with a machine gun in an amateur's hand. It shoots continuously at no particular target and hopes that somebody yelps when hit
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calmheartseeks: I know Bear... unfortunately, responding can become problematic.
This cougar thing has really gotten out of hand, hasnt it?
Now I may growl at times but I don't see myself as being a cougar.This cougar thing has really gotten out of hand, hasnt it?
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I feel bad not responding, but I just don’t understanding this behavior.
You will say they didn’t read the profile, but it is in my profile header as well.
Others repeatedly view the profile...why?
Anyway, that’s my dilemma for the hour.