Jealousy ( Archived) (54)

Nov 9, 2019 3:15 PM CST Jealousy
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
Years ago when I had a boyfriend who would look at all the skinny blond women when we were at a gathering. I knew he was watching them because he made it clear what turned him on. It bothered me because I was insecure with my own looks. I wasn't jealous. I was just mad as hell that he was staring at other women when he thought I didn't see it.

If I was with someone now who chose to look at other women with desire I'd make it easy for him to interact with those women because I would be out of his life.

On the other hand, if I was at a gathering with a man that I loved and I truly knew that he loved me and I saw him joking around with other women having a good time it wouldn't bother me because I knew he was going home with me and not them.

Jealousy can be avoided if you trust him/her. That isn't easy to do.
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Nov 9, 2019 3:18 PM CST Jealousy
lakewoodrat
lakewoodratlakewoodratminneapolis, Minnesota USA138 Posts
oic. sounds pretty cool that nan did that for ya. you have beautiful hair! mine is very thick and wavy, hard to manage sometimes if I don't wash and brush it enough! lol

oh, the things us manly-man menz do to keep ourselves in such lovely looking shape! rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 9, 2019 3:19 PM CST Jealousy
lakewoodrat
lakewoodratlakewoodratminneapolis, Minnesota USA138 Posts
Mercedes_00: My sister has very fine hair can't grow past her shoulders and if there's a wind all you see is scalp..All I can think of is my nan every school holidays I stayed with her my sister didn't as I was the favourite one..Anyway my nan would take me to the hairdresser where they would trim and give me heat treatments as well as other treatments through my hair..I can't think of anything else.
shoot I forgot to click "yes" my last comment. it was for you, Merce
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Nov 9, 2019 3:27 PM CST Jealousy
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,479 Posts
lakewoodrat: oic. sounds pretty cool that nan did that for ya. you have beautiful hair! mine is very thick and wavy, hard to manage sometimes if I don't wash and brush it enough! lol

oh, the things us manly-man menz do to keep ourselves in such lovely looking shape!
laugh

I wash my mane once a week but I wash my fringe what you call bangers everyday
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Nov 9, 2019 3:27 PM CST Jealousy
secretagent09: Years ago when I had a boyfriend who would look at all the skinny blond women when we were at a gathering. I knew he was watching them because he made it clear what turned him on. It bothered me because I was insecure with my own looks. I wasn't jealous. I was just mad as hell that he was staring at other women when he thought I didn't see it.

If I was with someone now who chose to look at other women with desire I'd make it easy for him to interact with those women because I would be out of his life.

On the other hand, if I was at a gathering with a man that I loved and I truly knew that he loved me and I saw him joking around with other women having a good time it wouldn't bother me because I knew he was going home with me and not them.

Jealousy can be avoided if you trust him/her. That isn't easy to do.
That was my whole point about Trusting....
And I agree that is not easy to do...wine
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Nov 9, 2019 3:28 PM CST Jealousy
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,479 Posts
HotrodLarrys: That was my whole point about Trusting....
And I agree that is not easy to do...
Stay single or simply don't get emotionally involved
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Nov 9, 2019 3:33 PM CST Jealousy
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
michaelright: Well I didn't forget I simply didn't know, that's weird too......
Come and see for yourself when you come to Spain.wink teddybear
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Nov 9, 2019 3:35 PM CST Jealousy
Mercedes_00: Stay single or simply don't get emotionally involved
Hell that's just as hard Sweetie! LOLrolling on the floor laughing tongue cheers
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Nov 9, 2019 3:38 PM CST Jealousy
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
Mercedes_00: Stay single or simply don't get emotionally involved
Alternatively...have a friend with benefits.
Then when he is with You..you know he's all YOURS...for that moment in time.dunno
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Nov 9, 2019 3:41 PM CST Jealousy
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
jac_the_gripper: A little coconut oil (the liquid type) in it when it's wet helps it grow and stops it from splitting.

That's an old photo on my profile. My hair is quite a bit longer now and I struggle to braid to the ends.
Hi Jac wave

Do you think the coconut oil would work on hair that is exceptionally thin and brittle? I attribute the thin hair to several kinds of medication and the fact that I lost my hormones when I went through menopause. My hair grows but new hair doesn't grow in. Got any suggestions. I don't want to smell like a coconut cake laugh
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Nov 9, 2019 3:42 PM CST Jealousy
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,479 Posts
daniela777: Alternatively...have a friend with benefits.
Then when he is with You..you know he's all YOURS...for that moment in time.
I will pass..I attract men who like to scold me..I think to myself I have a bloody father FFS laugh
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Nov 9, 2019 3:42 PM CST Jealousy
lakewoodrat
lakewoodratlakewoodratminneapolis, Minnesota USA138 Posts
jac_the_gripper: A little coconut oil (the liquid type) in it when it's wet helps it grow and stops it from splitting.

That's an old photo on my profile. My hair is quite a bit longer now and I struggle to braid to the ends.
ty for the coconut oil tip, gripperz, I'll try it, and your hair is really beautiful too! thumbs up
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Nov 9, 2019 3:44 PM CST Jealousy
lakewoodrat
lakewoodratlakewoodratminneapolis, Minnesota USA138 Posts
Mercedes_00: I wash my mane once a week but I wash my fringe what you call bangers everyday
let me know the next time you wash it, I'll come right over to help! lol
seriously though, I used to love washing my gf's hair, and she kinda liked it too...ssshhh! wink thumbs up
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Nov 9, 2019 3:45 PM CST Jealousy
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,479 Posts
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I took this pic today for itchy..Mine is a tad longer as I'm leaning forward
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Nov 9, 2019 3:46 PM CST Jealousy
What happens if I put coconut oil on my Coconut?professor grin
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Nov 9, 2019 3:51 PM CST Jealousy
lakewoodrat
lakewoodratlakewoodratminneapolis, Minnesota USA138 Posts
ooby_dooby: Jealousy is a destructive emotion which can lead to the breakup of a relationship if it gets out of hand or is ignored. I think everybody has a jealous streak to some degree, some are stronger than others. Has Jealousy put a strain on your relationship at times? It has mine in the passed. I think a woman's Jealousy is more powerful than a mans.
Great pic, Merce, kinda looks likex ya just might have some great leggz too, hey! lol heart beating

If ya don't mindz me saying so... bouquet
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Nov 9, 2019 4:11 PM CST Jealousy
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
jac_the_gripper: I suspect that's because you've been on the receiving end of jealousy from a woman who had more of a jealousy issue than you as a man.

There are men and women with jealousy issues.

Jealousy isn't powerful in either gender..
short version. wave




laugh
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Nov 9, 2019 4:59 PM CST Jealousy
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
ooby_dooby: Jealousy is a destructive emotion which can lead to the breakup of a relationship if it gets out of hand or is ignored. I think everybody has a jealous streak to some degree, some are stronger than others. Has Jealousy put a strain on your relationship at times? It has mine in the passed. I think a woman's Jealousy is more powerful than a mans.
I haven't been jealous, because I haven't been with a partner that gave me reasons to be. I only have been with someone I trust and wouldn't hang around someone I couldn't - I know that wouldn't make me feel good.

I don't like being jealous.

In regards to any other people - I like be happy for other people's fortune and if I want something, I work for it - and not being jealous of someone else's life.
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Nov 9, 2019 5:24 PM CST Jealousy
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
HotrodLarrys: What happens if I put coconut oil on my Coconut?
keep taking the pillslaugh beer
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Nov 9, 2019 5:27 PM CST Jealousy
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Mercedes_00: I took this pic today for itchy..Mine is a tad longer as I'm leaning forward
Nice photo but why are you wearing shoes Mercedes ? wave
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