All2some: Mostly everyone on this site wants a picture or details of what the person looks like. So mostly the question is are looks important when looking for love? Must a physical attraction be part of the relationship or is knowing a person the important part? Wish I knew the answer.
You know the answer for you. Nobody else can tell you if you need to be physically attracted to a partner or not.
I can't imagine starting a relationship with someone I found physically unattractive. Of course the personality is the most important thing, but that doesn't mean that you should have to date someone you don't fancy. Sure, we are all going to get older and lose our looks, but that doesn't mean we have to date someone we don't find attractive now. Physical features are part of the initial attraction between people.
All2some: Mostly everyone on this site wants a picture or details of what the person looks like.
A photo of someone gives you not just an idea about someone's look, but also about his lifestyle, if someone is well groomed or sloppy, sometimes charisma etc.
All2some: So mostly the question is are looks important when looking for love? Must a physical attraction be part of the relationship or is knowing a person the important part? Wish I knew the answer.
I haven't been with someone classically handsome, but someone that was attractive to me. I prefer a guy with a similar lifestyle and that looks after himself (though not into pretty boys). "Good looks" will not make up for a lack of character for me.
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I'm gonna have so much fun in a few months when I get my bus pass and start asking for OAP discounts in places!