of course they are....that's what normally initially attracts someone....however im not ruling out being attracted by someone's personality and them becoming more attractive because of that either....it all depends on the person....offline tho when just meeting someone for the first time you don't know their personality yet so the first attraction is by looks.....the personality and character is gonna say if you want more or not.....
I don't think anyone wishes to wake up next to someone they met the night before, and they are scared from what they see.
It's like the old saying.............beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Not everyone can be blessed with "Model quality good looks."
Anyone who puts so much emphasis on a person's attractiveness, such as the " coffee man " or Lucy Lawless ( I think it was her who played Wonder Woman); each of whom are truly fine looking specimens of the human race.
BUT, what happens if, God forbid, that person to whom you were sooo attracted by their looks, is horribly disfigured in a car accident or a fire, and therefore no longer the 10+ that they were previously ? Do you now decide that you don't want to be associated with them?
In the past, maybe more than once; I have described myself to a woman as " compared to me, they would call Frankenstein handsome." However, little kids and puppies seem to like me, so perhaps the women who I have dated in my earlier years saw those same qualities, and that is why they blessed me with their affection.
LOOKS......are only one quality of what can make a truly beautiful person.
...BUT, what happens if, God forbid, that person to whom you were sooo attracted by their looks, is horribly disfigured in a car accident or a fire, and therefore no longer the 10+ that they were previously ? Do you now decide that you don't want to be associated with them? ...
At that stage you would live the entire person and looks aren't important.
But, when you meet a person for the first time, physical attraction is one of the measures used.
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