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Jul 23, 2021 1:48 AM CST Ladies
Why do you wear these things? Like seriously, that must be hell on the feet sigh

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Jul 23, 2021 1:51 AM CST Ladies
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
Track16: Why do you wear these things? Like seriously, that must be hell on the feet
Those types are yes...the older we get the less we want to wear them...but alot now come with a platform support which lessens the heel length while still giving the height....lol

I'd wear the platform heel types now..now way would I be able for those ones above.
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Jul 23, 2021 3:25 AM CST Ladies
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
Track16: Why do you wear these things? Like seriously, that must be hell on the feet
I never met anyone in the real life wearing this kind of torture tools, only in Hollywood films. The question ought to be: why does Hollywood promote it? Any chance it's a part of patriarchy and misogyny?
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Jul 23, 2021 3:26 AM CST Ladies
Track16: Why do you wear these things? Like seriously, that must be hell on the feet
they are very dangerous especially when women back kick like a filly,,
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Jul 23, 2021 3:35 AM CST Ladies
I always think it's ironic that women nearly always state on their profile that a man must be taller than they are.....and yet wearing high heels makes themselves taller!confused
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Jul 23, 2021 3:55 AM CST Ladies
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
snowlynx: I always think it's ironic that women nearly always state on their profile that a man must be taller than they are.....and yet wearing high heels makes themselves taller!
Height is positively correlated with earnings. There is a few explanations why it's so (dominance, leadership, competence, sometimes only visual, but still...) and I even stumbled on a guide for women "How to make yourself look taller" (made in USA, of course).
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Jul 23, 2021 4:16 AM CST Ladies
Tulefell: Height is positively correlated with earnings. There is a few explanations why it's so (dominance, leadership, competence, sometimes only visual, but still...) and I even stumbled on a guide for women "How to make yourself look taller" (made in USA, of course).
Those explanations make sense alright. I often think that logically it's men not women who should wear high heels, (assuming that a male version of the high heel could be made) because women deem it important in a man but men couldn't care less about it in a woman.
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Jul 23, 2021 4:23 AM CST Ladies
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
snowlynx: Those explanations make sense alright. I often think that logically it's men not women who should wear high heels, (assuming that a male version of the high heel could be made) because women deem it important in a man but men couldn't care less about it in a woman.
Men do care quite a lot when a woman is taller, than them :)

And it was men, who led the way:



"High-heeled shoes were first worn by Persian soldiers in 10th century to elevate their feet, giving them stability while shooting their bows and arrows. Since then, men heels symbolise high social stature, military power and fashionable taste. "
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Jul 23, 2021 5:06 AM CST Ladies
Tulefell: Men do care quite a lot when a woman is taller, than them :)

And it was men, who led the way:



"High-heeled shoes were first worn by Persian soldiers in 10th century to elevate their feet, giving them stability while shooting their bows and arrows. Since then, men heels symbolise high social stature, military power and fashionable taste. "
Interesting points Tule but I can't agree with you about men caring if a woman is taller than them. Maybe if a man is unusually short he might but it's not my experience.
Certainly height comes nowhere near good looks in terms of how a man feels about a woman.
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Jul 23, 2021 5:08 AM CST Ladies
Who's X-ray is this ? laugh
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Jul 23, 2021 5:25 AM CST Ladies
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
snowlynx: Interesting points Tule but I can't agree with you about men caring if a woman is taller than them. Maybe if a man is unusually short he might but it's not my experience.
Certainly height comes nowhere near good looks in terms of how a man feels about a woman.
Hi Snowy

Would you agree that there's something about power and the attractiveness of that where a woman is much taller than a man..I mean a good head and almost shoulders above a man...is there this thing that the man likes the power a woman gives off when she's taller.
I asked this question before on here ages ago and didn't get any answers lol
Just that I know a couple where he is literally looking at her collar bone...now they seem happy but does it give him a sense of power to have a woman taller or ??
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Jul 23, 2021 5:28 AM CST Ladies
Polio can be seen giggle rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 23, 2021 5:39 AM CST Ladies
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK3,125 Posts
Track16: Why do you wear these things? Like seriously, that must be hell on the feet
Looking at the shoes, then yes, I imagine they would be agony to wear, but a well designed, well made pair are surprisingly comfortable if they fit properly..

Crikey, I've just realised that the last time I wore those kind of shoes was xmas 2019...
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Jul 23, 2021 5:52 AM CST Ladies
deedee123xo: Hi Snowy

Would you agree that there's something about power and the attractiveness of that where a woman is much taller than a man..I mean a good head and almost shoulders above a man...is there this thing that the man likes the power a woman gives off when she's taller.
I asked this question before on here ages ago and didn't get any answers lol
Just that I know a couple where he is literally looking at her collar bone...now they seem happy but does it give him a sense of power to have a woman taller or ??
Hi Dee,
Must admit I never thought about it like that....yeah, I could see how it could give him that sense alright.
Interesting area of human nature isn't it?
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Jul 23, 2021 6:04 AM CST Ladies
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
snowlynx: Hi Dee,
Must admit I never thought about it like that....yeah, I could see how it could give him that sense alright.
Interesting area of human nature isn't it?
Have no judgement on whether the man or woman is taller...but I guess like everything else you are more used to seeing the man taller than the woman...just wondered about it as all...First time seeing a marriage where she is so much taller....she is definately her boss as most women are haha...but just something that always struck me about it.
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Jul 23, 2021 6:43 AM CST Ladies
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Note the similarities in shape with the X-ray...

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...and how it debilitates women.
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Jul 23, 2021 7:02 AM CST Ladies
Tanzila
TanzilaTanzilaCity Of Joy, West Bengal India77 Threads 47 Polls 554 Posts
Noooo wayyyyy !!! shock
Forget about the hight or looks...
In the long run the kind of serious issues it will bring upon the body , I care more about that conversing

Some times ago , I met a man online ... His first criteria for a woman was , "Either she has to be tall enough to match with his hight (almost 6') or she has to wear high heels to look taller than she naturally is... And also he finds woman saxier with high heels" !!! wow
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Jul 23, 2021 7:21 AM CST Ladies
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK3,125 Posts
jac_the_gripper: Note the similarities in shape with the X-ray...



...and how it debilitates women.
That looks like Japanese women's feet and the effect of having their feet broken in order to make them smaller.. .God even just thinking about what those poor girls were put through at such a young age makes me go cold...I'll never understand how one human being can be so so cruel to another, especially to a child that has no way to defend itself...it's inhumane, it's a cruel torture and it's utterly abhorrent...

Women choosing to wear high heels that will eventually damage their own feet is a totally different matter.
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Jul 23, 2021 10:05 AM CST Ladies
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
blathin: That looks like Japanese women's feet and the effect of having their feet broken in order to make them smaller.. .God even just thinking about what those poor girls were put through at such a young age makes me go cold...I'll never understand how one human being can be so so cruel to another, especially to a child that has no way to defend itself...it's inhumane, it's a cruel torture and it's utterly abhorrent...

Women choosing to wear high heels that will eventually damage their own feet is a totally different matter.
Chinese foot binding, yes, but you missed the point(s) I was making.

There is a difference between mutilating a child and an adult being coerced by societal norms, or having the freedom to choose, I agree, but I don't think they are entirely distinct practises.

The foot binding appears grotesque to the eye now: it looks misshapen, painful, unhealthy, debilitating and inelegant, but there are similarities with high-heel wearing: The area of the ground covered by the foot is dramatically shortened makig the bfoot appear smaller, the parts of the foot which touch the ground are the heel and phalanges and the metatarsals and tarsals are pushed into a vertical position creating a bulky heel area. Both practises reduce mobility and cause long-term health issues for the sake of perceived beauty and refinement, or status.

Given the similarities, what is it about this foot (mis)shape that is/has been appealing in more than one culture and time? And why only for women?
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Jul 23, 2021 12:19 PM CST Ladies
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK3,125 Posts
jac_the_gripper: Chinese foot binding, yes, but you missed the point(s) I was making.

There is a difference between mutilating a child and an adult being coerced by societal norms, or having the freedom to choose, I agree, but I don't think they are entirely distinct practises.

The foot binding appears grotesque to the eye now: it looks misshapen, painful, unhealthy, debilitating and inelegant, but there are similarities with high-heel wearing: The area of the ground covered by the foot is dramatically shortened makig the bfoot appear smaller, the parts of the foot which touch the ground are the heel and phalanges and the metatarsals and tarsals are pushed into a vertical position creating a bulky heel area. Both practises reduce mobility and cause long-term health issues for the sake of perceived beauty and refinement, or status.

Given the similarities, what is it about this foot (mis)shape that is/has been appealing in more than one culture and time? And why only for women?
Jac, the point you (didn't) make wasn't really the point. The OP was just asking women why they would choose to wear such high heels because they look like hell to wear..That's all.

I'm not sure why you needed to go to such an extreme either. There's absolutely no comparison between the Japanese breaking a child's foot in two (without anesthetic I might add) and a grown woman deciding to wear a pair of shoes that "might" do a little damage or might not.
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