Too many people looking at another country are just after a sugar mate. Or money or free ride/ticket. If real, the differences in culture cause issues. Along with each persons property, job, family and legal status. Odds are if they are regional or local, they share more of their upbringing, schooling, ideas and things in common.
Orzzz: I never look at profiles. But, sometimes a few show up on the bottom of a page. I look at them and so many of them seem to say what they think a gal wants to hear. And all the same. They are kind, loving, cuddling, etc. Looking for the love of their life. Guys and maybe gals, need to be real. Tell about themselves not the trite text of their hunt. People on date sights know no one is looking for a Charles Manson or a wife beater. No one seeks a loser or user. So instead of writing the boring how great you are and that perfect mate you want..write about YOU.
Cannot tell a man to rewrite his profile as he feels a female should compliment him on his profile and tell him how great he is. Most are serial daters anyway and are not interested in a woman as all about them yet we have to accept them that way as a male.
YES, agree, and a lack of empathy, patience, compassion...Also, a dependable person, loyal that you can count on...People are NOT as friendly as they were. They care less for their neighbors, or even see them. I moved in this place on the 29th of April and this is the 8th of Sept. and I still have not met my neighbor to the right left of me yet... Hummm... Wish it was not this way!!! looking for LOVE and a good man and can't find one. My mind is 45 and the rest of me is 25...nevermind my real age b/c it does not seem to matter. The MIND rules... Remember? Mind over matter hahaha!!! Wandakate in the mountains of North Carolina.
truheart1941brentwood, Essex, England UK25,171 posts
no one on here .will ever be sucessful on here...when people relize. this site is for keyboard warriors only. learn not to open your heart up....this only feeds the keybord warriors, to pouncs on you.........just saying
truheart1941: no one on here .will ever be sucessful on here...when people relize. this site is for keyboard warriors only. learn not to open your heart up....this only feeds the keybord warriors, to pouncs on you.........just saying
truheart1941: no one on here .will ever be sucessful on here...when people relize. this site is for keyboard warriors only. learn not to open your heart up....this only feeds the keybord warriors, to pouncs on you.........just saying
truheart1941brentwood, Essex, England UK25,171 posts
pedro27: the internet was more fun back in the 1940s tru
......many a true word said in jest...pedro,...........going back people were much nicer..........after the war,,,,,1940,s parents spoiled their children.....now adults.....themselves........their atitude/empathy needs a lot to be desired.............
truheart1941: ......many a true word said in jest...pedro,...........going back people were much nicer..........after the war,,,,,1940,s parents spoiled their children.....now adults.....themselves........their atitude/empathy needs a lot to be desired.............
once a good heart always a good heart tru, was only joking bro
amal9: Whey we don't get lucky and find our partners in this portal
Unfortunately, you only get what you paid for in life. Creating a free dating site is a noble cause. However there are professional matchmakers who charge clients $1000s. They have plenty of clients because they introduce clients to quality matches. It's unfortunate for the poor average person on free dating sites as when you get something free it's of no value so you act accordingly. In many cases the owners make no money or just sell unrelated advertising. To make money; create a good single site and aim a specialty singles market; have a well tried matchmaking system and you will always have clients and earn good money. If you do not understand human nature then employ someone who does to help you create a quality dating site. Or become a marketing affiliate for an existing single business. Using a free dating site is better than doing nothing but be prepared to learn and take advise from other genuine members.
amal9: Whey we don't get lucky and find our partners in this portal
I have met a few women on various dating sites, such as this one, but they usually turn out to be a liar, cheater, scammer, thief, car wrecker or addicted to some kind of chemical or gambling.
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Odds are if they are regional or local, they share more of their upbringing, schooling, ideas and things in common.