Mutual "Like" but no response after emailing several times. What's wrong with you people? (36)

Dec 12, 2023 2:26 PM CST Mutual "Like" but no response after emailing several times. What's wrong with you people?
Happygolucky4u: "What's wrong with you people" we want even go there
I do want to address the subject of online dating and expectations. I personally think online dating is the killer of dating. People all of a sudden get these high expectations and no one person can fill those expectations. There is all of a sudden complete loss of sight. There are so many choices a lot of people will get that deer in the head light stance. They are scared to move forward and they freeze in the land of the what if. What if I meet the person and it is a disastor, what if someone better is on here, what if. Now we have found one we both like each other and exchange emails. We don't know each other. We can't see each other through body language. It is like walking through a mine field. What can one write to someone without turning them away. Write to much then they might run. Write to less they see you as not interested and run. Ask to call or text to soon and then they worry you are moving to fast, scammer, player etc. and some take it as a game to feed their egos. These are the ones I feel bad for, they will forever be dating their computers most likely unable to have a healthy relationship. I would like to make a suggestion. Stay on here look around. People have met and had wonderful relationships from this site. Also go out in the tactile world. We have groups in our area that are listed on meetup. I have not joined any of the single groups on there but I have joined some of the other groups and enjoyed meeting different people from all different parts of life . I have my friends yet I also enjoy meeting new people. I have found some groups, you can meet single people, married people, different races, all educational back grounds. I joined one we met for dinner once a month and usually around thirty or more would show up and we would do dinner and drinks. I watched some relationships slowly begin. If you have a good host you should never feel awkward or strange going. If not "nothing ventured, nothing gained". Deep breaths see on line for what it is and try to enjoy what time you spend here. Best wishes on finding what you are looking for
So much of what you say is unfortunately true.
Dec 12, 2023 3:06 PM CST Mutual "Like" but no response after emailing several times. What's wrong with you people?
As you read it in your dyslexic manner, it's like this.

The site does not police itself otherwise scam profiles would not appear.

Many of the scam profiles made on this site are from one man only based in Senegal.
Dec 12, 2023 3:36 PM CST Mutual "Like" but no response after emailing several times. What's wrong with you people?
CarlosCaspe: As you read it in your dyslexic manner, it's like this.

The site does not police itself otherwise scam profiles would not appear.

Many of the scam profiles made on this site are from one man only based in Senegal.
Who are you referring to as dyslexic?


You profess to be knowledgeable about internet dating... hopefully Carlos Caspe isn't your real name.

Tell us what means would CS or any other free dating site need to implement that would stop scammers from reappearing? I'm asking for a friend...

You say a man in Senegal is responsible creating many of the scam profiles here. How or where can you possibly obtain such information?
Dec 12, 2023 5:58 PM CST Mutual "Like" but no response after emailing several times. What's wrong with you people?
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,761 Posts
rohaan: Put 'em up, put 'em up.....
laugh Let’s go
wave
Dec 12, 2023 6:37 PM CST Mutual "Like" but no response after emailing several times. What's wrong with you people?
Wrinkleylove
WrinkleyloveWrinkleyloveNear Murray Bridge, South Australia Australia48 Threads 80 Posts
American16: Serious question: Why did you come on a site, say you "mutually like" someone here, then not respond when you're emailed. Seriously, why bother be on this site? Why are you on here, if you like the person, have everything almost perfectly match, like them, then dont respond? Why are you on here?
Can you not work it out by yourself or is the last question rhetorical?
I worked out very early on I was not on that type of site even if it is Branded that way.
Think of this as a blog site. If they were serious about us interacting outside of posting comments, they would have installed an instant chat program.
Take the site for what it is, rather than want you expect it to be and your blood pressure will remain un-elevated over something you have not any control over. W.
Dec 16, 2023 2:29 PM CST Mutual "Like" but no response after emailing several times. What's wrong with you people?
Just some wanderings--not every "like" is going to be followed by a note or letter. Not every "nice to meet you" comes with a free drink. People respond the way they want to. It used to really annoy me when someone wouldn't at least answer a note, etc...but after re-thinking, etc...well, it's just people, and you know, to be fair, I might seem nice, gentlemanly, but I'm not always going to accommodate just because the other person feels it should be so......live and let live...handshake
Dec 16, 2023 2:50 PM CST Mutual "Like" but no response after emailing several times. What's wrong with you people?
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
American16: Serious question: Why did you come on a site, say you "mutually like" someone here, then not respond when you're emailed. Seriously, why bother be on this site? Why are you on here, if you like the person, have everything almost perfectly match, like them, then dont respond? Why are you on here?
This site if for us, who firmly decided to remain single. Posting on the fora makes you undatable for next 3 years.

Sorry, man.
Dec 16, 2023 6:56 PM CST Mutual "Like" but no response after emailing several times. What's wrong with you people?
Tulefell: This site if for us, who firmly decided to remain single. Posting on the fora makes you undatable for next 3 years.

Sorry, man.
Love this response. thumbs up thumbs up
Dec 19, 2023 5:31 PM CST Mutual "Like" but no response after emailing several times. What's wrong with you people?
She is or was here to feel better.
See if she is still in the market.
What sort of guys she could still get.
What deffent sort of us have to offer.
And who see can use..maybe too...untill she found a better one.
All the wrong things femisisem does to most woman/

Be happy bro...she was one of the many not-good-for you-woman.
Dec 31, 2023 9:16 AM CST Mutual "Like" but no response after emailing several times. What's wrong with you people?
American16
American16American16DEERFIELD BEACH, Florida USA1 Threads 6 Posts
nothing I wrote was "in a dyslexic manner" stupid idiot. doh
Jan 3, 2024 6:58 PM CST Mutual "Like" but no response after emailing several times. What's wrong with you people?
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,761 Posts
American16: Serious question: Why did you come on a site, say you "mutually like" someone here, then not respond when you're emailed. Seriously, why bother be on this site? Why are you on here, if you like the person, have everything almost perfectly match, like them, then dont respond? Why are you on here?


They don’t have to respond to your email
even if they click on like, and you upset for no reason
they didn’t answer you just move on, you’re ranting
like a three year old, you’re older so you should know better, and try not to run your pressure up in the process
Jan 5, 2024 8:21 AM CST Mutual "Like" but no response after emailing several times. What's wrong with you people?
Packersbabe1: They don’t have to respond to your email
even if they click on like, and you upset for no reason
they didn’t answer you just move on, you’re ranting
like a three year old, you’re older so you should know better, and try not to run your pressure up in the process
You are right Packers..
If the woman is interested, she will definitely reply to your message.
It's that easy, so don't assume anything else.
Perhaps Talk to someone less desirable is just a waste of time.No need to sending mass messages hoping she will open it and read. scold just move on.
it means that she is not for you .

And as a woman, sure I get a lot of thumbs down dissagree on every comment on the forum laugh
thumbs up
Jan 5, 2024 12:31 PM CST Mutual "Like" but no response after emailing several times. What's wrong with you people?
Its really up to people to do whatever ever they want to do. No one is obligated to do anything they don't want to.
Jan 5, 2024 5:24 PM CST Mutual "Like" but no response after emailing several times. What's wrong with you people?
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,761 Posts
whitelily1: You are right Packers..
If the woman is interested, she will definitely reply to your message.
It's that easy, so don't assume anything else.
Perhaps Talk to someone less desirable is just a waste of time.No need to sending mass messages hoping she will open it and read. just move on.
it means that she is not for you .

And as a woman, sure I get a lot of thumbs down dissagree on every comment on the forum


Absolutely, I got likes right now and I don’t respond
cause I’m no interested, yup I think a lot of people get thumbs down, I just keep posting cause somebody ain’t
got nothing better to do
Jan 5, 2024 5:52 PM CST Mutual "Like" but no response after emailing several times. What's wrong with you people?
Massive red flags for those who throw their doll out of the pram over this.
Jan 13, 2024 4:56 AM CST Mutual "Like" but no response after emailing several times. What's wrong with you people?
Respond or not.... everyones choice
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