Serious question: Why did you come on a site, say you "mutually like" someone here, then not respond when you're emailed. Seriously, why bother be on this site? Why are you on here, if you like the person, have everything almost perfectly match, like them, then dont respond? Why are you on here?
I had another situation yday- I sent a mail to one online. Green ball. Then she replied in say 5min asking where I was from originally (I guess she had in mind my above average english for foreigners) so I said "here born and bred" and a few lines more. She never opened that mail.... hours later she was still green but the mail remained unopened... in the end I just blocked here and removed the 3 mails, two mine and one hers.
So expect quite a few weird episodes here mister, ..but uppy on the horsy back now .. u go..
"Aha aha before I thought your profile was fake... now I'm sure."
This is how stupid some people are. My profile is not fake in any way shape or form, and she thinks she knows something and is smart. One of the dumbest women I've ever come across in my life. So stupid, I don't know how she even got on here to make a profile. Its the friggin twilight zone.
dont feel like it brother. If the person is this stupid, I cant deal with it. I need an intelligent woman. This woman just lost a chance to have someone she liked. At her age, and mine, this is ridiculous. People, take things more seriously. if you "like" someone on here, make the effort to know this person BEFORE you throw them off a cliff.
Don't give up thou- if you're moveable or fit for import u can stumble upon some goodies inbetween and often in places u never thought about before. Aserbajan, Belarus, South America, Africa and more. Asia too. Anhows- best 2ya.
Welcome to the interwebz!! Where you can be anything you want to be, even just an AW looking for an ego stroke.
The 419-types are looking to capitalize on the fantasy and looking for a newbie, who has not yet been inundated with frauds. They’re pretty easy to spot. If it seems too good to be true… it is!
Since on here only for forums, etc, I look at the likes I get, but do not reply. I see it as rude to like back when I have no interest. And I never like anyone myself. Of course I am old so have manners. If I get a message, I reply. Usually say only here for forums, blogs and pen pals on here. It is rude to totally ignore anyone. I do sometimes depending on how over the top the message say..read my PROFILE!. What kills me are the ones who come back with they did. Uh..and I dont spell it out enough? Or you can't comprehend English? Or think you are so special it doesnt count? Argh!
I look at any Like or Message I get here! However,I never return Likes,and only answer Messages from people here who I "Know" somewhat from the Forums!
American16: Serious question: Why did you come on a site, say you "mutually like" someone here, then not respond when you're emailed. Seriously, why bother be on this site? Why are you on here, if you like the person, have everything almost perfectly match, like them, then dont respond? Why are you on here?
Why are you asking us? This should be towards the people who did that to you.. Why Just Why?
American16: Serious question: Why did you come on a site, say you "mutually like" someone here, then not respond when you're emailed. Seriously, why bother be on this site? Why are you on here, if you like the person, have everything almost perfectly match, like them, then dont respond? Why are you on here?
"What's wrong with you people" we want even go there I do want to address the subject of online dating and expectations. I personally think online dating is the killer of dating. People all of a sudden get these high expectations and no one person can fill those expectations. There is all of a sudden complete loss of sight. There are so many choices a lot of people will get that deer in the head light stance. They are scared to move forward and they freeze in the land of the what if. What if I meet the person and it is a disastor, what if someone better is on here, what if. Now we have found one we both like each other and exchange emails. We don't know each other. We can't see each other through body language. It is like walking through a mine field. What can one write to someone without turning them away. Write to much then they might run. Write to less they see you as not interested and run. Ask to call or text to soon and then they worry you are moving to fast, scammer, player etc. and some take it as a game to feed their egos. These are the ones I feel bad for, they will forever be dating their computers most likely unable to have a healthy relationship. I would like to make a suggestion. Stay on here look around. People have met and had wonderful relationships from this site. Also go out in the tactile world. We have groups in our area that are listed on meetup. I have not joined any of the single groups on there but I have joined some of the other groups and enjoyed meeting different people from all different parts of life . I have my friends yet I also enjoy meeting new people. I have found some groups, you can meet single people, married people, different races, all educational back grounds. I joined one we met for dinner once a month and usually around thirty or more would show up and we would do dinner and drinks. I watched some relationships slowly begin. If you have a good host you should never feel awkward or strange going. If not "nothing ventured, nothing gained". Deep breaths see on line for what it is and try to enjoy what time you spend here. Best wishes on finding what you are looking for
Welcome to the interwebz!! Where you can be anything you want to be, even just an AW looking for an ego stroke.
The 419-types are looking to capitalize on the fantasy and looking for a newbie, who has not yet been inundated with frauds. They’re pretty easy to spot. If it seems too good to be true… it is!
CarlosCaspe: ....scammers here are so easy to spot, my question is why the site admin never does anything about them.
Obviously, you don't know the facts.
CS could get hit with 10 fake profiles in one day. When reported, they are usually gone by the next day, sometimes within a few hours of being reported. So you never get to see what really goes on behind the scenes. 5 per day is 150 a month. If admin never did anything (as you say) this would be a scammers paradise... it's really not.
If they are so easy to spot (as you say) then avoid them. Problem solved.
CS could get hit with 10 fake profiles in one day. When reported, they are usually gone by the next day, sometimes within a few hours of being reported. So you never get to see what really goes on behind the scenes. 5 per day is 150 a month. If admin never did anything (as you say) this would be a scammers paradise... it's really not.
If they are so easy to spot (as you say) then avoid them. Problem solved.
Hurray and Halleluia. Thanks a zillion for this post
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