Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore? ( Archived) (23)

Oct 25, 2007 9:23 AM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
Dawn50
Dawn50Dawn50Ottawa Valley, Ontario Canada182 Threads 1,338 Posts
Yep...............And I should have listen to my inner voice, I choose to ignore and married him

That was the last time I ignored my doubts!



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Oct 25, 2007 9:25 AM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
classicrockgirl
classicrockgirlclassicrockgirlInverness, Florida USA12 Threads 2,414 Posts
Yes twice. One I married the other I lived with for a year. Shold of listened to my instincts on both of them. Ah such is life, live and learn.
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Oct 25, 2007 9:27 AM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Nope never ..... or maybe only once I gave a chance to my guts to be untruthful



I do have a very strong connection with my guts Oh! WOW! yeah! We are the one conversing laugh
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Oct 25, 2007 9:32 AM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
Yes....and I was married to him for 26 yrs., have 2 beautiful kids to show for it. Sooo all in all...it was worth the hell for the 2 children I have....BUT never again will I ignore that inner voice...scold uh oh wave hug
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Oct 25, 2007 10:14 AM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Yes in all of my previous relationships...Hence the reasons they are ex's...BUT had I listened early enough to my gut...I certainly wouldn't have been in them as long as I was...Nor would I ever have gotten married!!!!!!!!!





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Oct 25, 2007 11:06 AM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Yeah many times.. but I'd like to think wouldn't any more.
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Oct 25, 2007 11:08 AM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Ah, but what were your instincts telling you?
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Oct 25, 2007 11:12 AM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
As I asked Classic, I wonder what your inner voice was telling you?

Inner voices can also tell you about yourself. Mine was whispering, "You know, maybe you're wrong in some of your attitudes." Later, it began to speak more loudly, though still politely: "Is it possible that you're behaving in a jerk-like fashion?" And finally, in a loud, cawing voice: "What an a**hole!"

That's when I had to, very reluctantly, start paying attention. I finally purchased a very expensive pair of earplugs.
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Oct 25, 2007 11:36 AM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
Unmatchable
UnmatchableUnmatchableMartinsville, USA22 Threads 790 Posts
Everyone, myself included, has said the same thing... "I'll never ignore my instincts again!", but yet we always do don't we. Doubts and indecisveness, at least to a small degree, are a part of any relationship. As much as we don't like it, God just isn't going to come down and hang a sign on someone that says "THIS IS THE ONE!". It's always going to be trial and error, there isn't any other way.

Reality...mumbling
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Oct 25, 2007 11:47 AM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
DadofDucks
DadofDucksDadofDucksWentzville, Missouri USA9 Threads 2,123 Posts
I think Ill change my profile name to that....

"THIS IS THE ONE!"

Cant hurt...
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Oct 25, 2007 11:54 AM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
Unmatchable
UnmatchableUnmatchableMartinsville, USA22 Threads 790 Posts
Hehehe... go for it lol, that'd be awesome. thumbs up
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Oct 25, 2007 12:03 PM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
nightlady
nightladynightladyalbemarle, USA28 Threads 873 Posts
I have had doubts in every relationship I have been in and choose to ignore them. I have lived to regret not listening to those doubts. Especially in this relationship I am in.
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Oct 25, 2007 2:03 PM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
traveler46
traveler46traveler46yuma, Arizona USA4 Threads 18 Posts
First gotta have a relationshiplaugh ::laugh:
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Oct 25, 2007 2:11 PM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
i have identified many red flags as a pretty pink

yet they were still just faded red...

every day is a new opportunity

frankly that scares the bejesus out of me
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Oct 25, 2007 2:18 PM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
Ahhh but you may was well just have invested in a cheap pair of earplugs as they are concealed by your crash helmet conversing



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Oct 25, 2007 2:21 PM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
I mean, no one would notice if you had plastic ones instead of those flashy liberace type that you insisted on buying.

Anyway, back to main topic question for me.... YES, I have often ignored my inner voice (my goddess within) But, I do think I have learned from my mistakes and take more notice now thumbs up
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Oct 25, 2007 2:25 PM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
firstllight
firstllightfirstllightStrasburg, Virginia USA6 Threads 1 Polls 815 Posts
I keep on ignoring them, one of my biggest flaws is to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. However when a red flag whams me over the head I try to take heed. dunno
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Oct 25, 2007 2:56 PM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
spiceygamble
spiceygamblespiceygambleNola, Louisiana USA36 Threads 3 Polls 4,493 Posts
We all have moments when we are faced with reading those red flags or giving a new person a chance.
So often, we try to see the best in people & end up overlooking warning signs.
It's a delicate balance ...
be dismayed or be open minded.

To each their own.
:)
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Oct 25, 2007 2:57 PM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
foreveryoung1
foreveryoung1foreveryoung1cartagena, Murcia Spain2 Threads 1 Polls 2,984 Posts
yes of course, and then we all get hurt, but you want to believe so badly.
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Oct 25, 2007 2:58 PM CST Have u had doubts about a relationship but choose to ignore?
a_l_e_x
a_l_e_xa_l_e_xlondon, Greater London, England UK62 Threads 1,813 Posts
only ever had 2 relationships in my life and those where a complete dissaster
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