What Will You Overlook?? ( Archived) (58)

Nov 25, 2007 6:34 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
For those of us who are still in the "dating pool"...we have come to realize that the "perfect" person does not really exist....

But as well we have learned over time to "tolerate" certain behaviours that at one time we would not have accepted as a quality we want in our mate....(am i right here?)

What things do you find you will NOT compromise on? And what are some of the things you are willing to accept that at one time you would not have believed you would?
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Nov 25, 2007 6:35 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
DinaD
DinaDDinaDKingsport, Tennessee USA11 Threads 735 Posts
Wikked, were you ever a member of MPlayer?..you remind me of someone I knew there.
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Nov 25, 2007 6:36 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
I've got low standards, but they still must be too high. lol

Similiar values tend to be most important to me. There's others, but I'm sure they'll be hit on by someone else~
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Nov 25, 2007 6:37 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
Disrespect
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Nov 25, 2007 6:38 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
I would compromise to the hilt for the woman I was supremely attracted to and in love with, no questions at all.wine
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Nov 25, 2007 6:40 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
hrt4lse
hrt4lsehrt4lseRedding, California USA13 Threads 1,233 Posts
Used to be that I wanted someone who didn't smoke or drink at all. I'm still standing firm on the no smoking....but I'm willing to accept someone who drinks a little (as long as they aren't an alcoholic or get raging drunk all the time). And my definition of "a little" would be like a glass of wine with dinner, or "A" beer after work if it was a really hard day...or "A" beer if we go out to a club. Anything more than that gets to where I'll be driving, and if the pesonality starts to change and it becomes something that happens on a regular basis, then it would be a relationship that I rethink.
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Nov 25, 2007 6:41 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
Finding someone that will accept me for who I am is a pretty big challenge right now.


You have been missed. Good to get the brain working.
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Nov 25, 2007 6:42 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Hi Dina...

No i wasn't...and i'm not sure what MPlayer is...

Hopefully that "someone" you liked??...
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Nov 25, 2007 6:44 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Foot note:

I've probably come to the conclusion that I may be less tolerant of "stuff" over time. When you've been single for a long time, there's not much you've haven't seen. When things becomes a repeat of the past, usually I bail out. Just the way it is...not ever sure that I care to change that aspect of myself. I figure if I've made it this far, I can make it the rest of the way on my own. ~sigh
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Nov 25, 2007 6:44 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Thanks Dave...hug

Was talking to some of the friends i had on here and listening to what's been happening in the past several months that i was MIA...lol
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Nov 25, 2007 6:45 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
DinaD
DinaDDinaDKingsport, Tennessee USA11 Threads 735 Posts
Yes, lol she was a friend of mine named wikked kisses ..from canada lol
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Nov 25, 2007 6:45 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
WhiteAsh
WhiteAshWhiteAshTurtle Lake, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 688 Posts
Thinks I will not compromise on are unwillingness to have an income,drinking alcohol to get drunk continuously,cheating,lying,being a crab all the time and not putting out.
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Nov 25, 2007 6:47 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
rivame
rivamerivamemelbourne, Victoria Australia54 Threads 3 Polls 4,601 Posts
Wikked welcome back..wine

As you spend more time in the world you definately gain more patience...

but i suffer fools less gladly.....

Lying and cheating are the two things on my list of no nos..mumbling
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Nov 25, 2007 6:49 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
Dang. I fit the bill right up to the last one and then I crashed and burned.
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Nov 25, 2007 6:50 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
I will overlook minor bad habits, such as leaving the toilet seat up, throwing his dirty laundry around, cussing, smoking and drinking, as long as he isn't alcoholic; I will not tolerate lies or any hanky panky behind my backlaugh wine
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Nov 25, 2007 6:55 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
I'll over look alot of things but not Disrespect or lying.
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Nov 25, 2007 6:56 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
I won't tolerate disappointment.blues
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Nov 25, 2007 6:56 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
controlling women
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Nov 25, 2007 6:58 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
You drive a hard bargain.....best of luck though applause
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Nov 25, 2007 7:03 PM CST What Will You Overlook??
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
You haven't answered your own question.
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