I always try to answer every email or other message but when I get something from someone with a simple "I would like to talk to you" then I check out their profile and there is basically nothing there I am at loss and just want to ignore them. But I was brought up writing thank you notes so it is in my nature to respond. If you are of this same mindset when would you consider not responding?
I always try to answer every email or other message but when I get something from someone with a simple "I would like to talk to you" then I check out their profile and there is basically nothing there I am at loss and just want to ignore them. But I was brought up writing thank you notes so it is in my nature to respond. If you are of this same mindset when would you consider not responding
moon_billa786: I always try to answer every email or other message but when I get something from someone with a simple "I would like to talk to you" then I check out their profile and there is basically nothing there I am at loss and just want to ignore them. But I was brought up writing thank you notes so it is in my nature to respond. If you are of this same mindset when would you consider not responding
firstllight: I always try to answer every email or other message but when I get something from someone with a simple "I would like to talk to you" then I check out their profile and there is basically nothing there I am at loss and just want to ignore them. But I was brought up writing thank you notes so it is in my nature to respond. If you are of this same mindset when would you consider not responding?
Tell me something I can respond to other than asking for info and giving me nothing; then, perhaps we can have some sort of dialogue
I started out answering every email, message & flower sent, but must shamefully admit that I don't anymore, I'll take a quick look and if there is no potential I don't bother, except for ones that have been really nice and I don't want to hurt their feelings, so I say thank you but... you want children I don't...etc
i used to respond to everything, even if it was to say thanks but no thanks and give a polite reason, but i then found they often wrote an abusive response, so now i don't always respond
firstllight: I always try to answer every email or other message but when I get something from someone with a simple "I would like to talk to you" then I check out their profile and there is basically nothing there I am at loss and just want to ignore them. But I was brought up writing thank you notes so it is in my nature to respond. If you are of this same mindset when would you consider not responding?
It's simple stuff, really. When I get one of "those" emails, I just suggest that they join us in the forums to meet people, and wish them luck.
I don't answer all e-mails especially from young men in their 20's. I don't see why they would be e-mailing me in the first place as it is somethings like I think you look hot.
morganlee: i used to respond to everything, even if it was to say thanks but no thanks and give a polite reason, but i then found they often wrote an abusive response, so now i don't always respond
I used to do the same thing morgan...and got many nasty responses..so I tend to respond less now, found is better to ignore them...
firstllight: I always try to answer every email or other message but when I get something from someone with a simple "I would like to talk to you" then I check out their profile and there is basically nothing there I am at loss and just want to ignore them. But I was brought up writing thank you notes so it is in my nature to respond. If you are of this same mindset when would you consider not responding?
I just block them and don't reply, I've no time to waste communicating with boring people who have nothing to say for themselves.
They bore me just thinking about them.
I'd rather write to these 2 instead --> they seem fun
firstllight: I always try to answer every email or other message but when I get something from someone with a simple "I would like to talk to you" then I check out their profile and there is basically nothing there I am at loss and just want to ignore them. But I was brought up writing thank you notes so it is in my nature to respond. If you are of this same mindset when would you consider not responding?
I just delete most of them myself, I am not interested in 24-27 year old girls from overseas. especially when they type in english worse than I do. But some of my emails out must seem a bit strange, even if not looking to hook up, I dont mind writing a gal just to tell them that they are beautiful, funny, smart or whatever. but I try to make it clear that it is only for the compliment, make someone feel better. But in those short messages I do not expect an answer back.
besides,, the hot ladies are right here in the forums!
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If you are of this same mindset when would you consider not responding?