Please List Clues of What You've Come Across That Have Saved Your Mind/Heart A Lot of Grief...... (38)
wow
well for me when things go awry
i have, in looking back as yo mention-
it was always my own doing
ignoring red flags
my big effort now is trusting myself more
also remembering
that rejection ends up being a protection more often than not
ive experienced that w/ jobs and many levels of relationships
like they say-hindsight is twenty twenty?
so sposedly we get wiser as we plod on
im hangin on to that hope
well for me when things go awry
i have, in looking back as yo mention-
it was always my own doing
ignoring red flags
my big effort now is trusting myself more
also remembering
that rejection ends up being a protection more often than not
ive experienced that w/ jobs and many levels of relationships
like they say-hindsight is twenty twenty?
so sposedly we get wiser as we plod on
im hangin on to that hope
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yeh, red flags are good-thinking back to a certain someone who has 2 on his body...he won't get a chance to add a third. I don't think he's a bad person at all, just not the right one for me....
Sometimes though, red flags aren't always visible....
sucks when that happens....
Sometimes though, red flags aren't always visible....
sucks when that happens....
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prncss4someone: When interacting on the web.
I spoke with someone for awhile, nothing but chit chat....he flowered me one day and he signed it with a different name had a fairly decent excuse, said that he got sick of his name and decided to use his middle name.... okay, fair enough....but then it made me look back.....he asked questions about me, seemingly interested in my life, but I knew very little about him, except basic stuff. The answers he gave me seemed kinda shady after I thought about it. I blocked him. Never figured out what his intentions really were, but it creeped me out. Trusting a guy intimately is not the same as trusting someone who plays as your friend. Lovers come and go, friends are not supposed to. I see that he has returned....
Anyone have anything that they would like to share?
I spoke with someone for awhile, nothing but chit chat....he flowered me one day and he signed it with a different name had a fairly decent excuse, said that he got sick of his name and decided to use his middle name.... okay, fair enough....but then it made me look back.....he asked questions about me, seemingly interested in my life, but I knew very little about him, except basic stuff. The answers he gave me seemed kinda shady after I thought about it. I blocked him. Never figured out what his intentions really were, but it creeped me out. Trusting a guy intimately is not the same as trusting someone who plays as your friend. Lovers come and go, friends are not supposed to. I see that he has returned....
Anyone have anything that they would like to share?
LISTEN to your instincts/gut feeling
LISTEN to the voice in your head that tells you "things don't add up" ... whatever the reason, who cares???!!!!!!
LISTEN to the signs/facts that SHOW something isn't quite right
"Get out of there" (the friendship, relationship, situation, whatever) ... Don't look back!!!!!!
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FLOOOOOWER!!!
i love your new name
way to affirm!
i love your new name
way to affirm!
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mindfful: FLOOOOOWER!!!
i love your new name
way to affirm!
i love your new name
way to affirm!
Hey babe!!!! Thank you!!!
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thought that have saved me grief
Mastubation is better than marriage!!
Keeping my whole paycheck is better than sharing it!
Murder is better tha divorce. And less painful. Oh sure, I'll go to jail for it..BUT........
underwear on the living room floor is perfectly O.K.
And......my dog is truly my best friend
Mastubation is better than marriage!!
Keeping my whole paycheck is better than sharing it!
Murder is better tha divorce. And less painful. Oh sure, I'll go to jail for it..BUT........
underwear on the living room floor is perfectly O.K.
And......my dog is truly my best friend
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It's funny, cause I always know when is NOT gonna work, sometimes I don't listen to myself, but it has never been too late.
Words, attitudes...LIES....no better clues than those...
Words, attitudes...LIES....no better clues than those...
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HINT FOR CREATIVE PUKING............................................................................
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whaaa?
anyway...
anyway...
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anjel: hey u!
Hi Anjel!------ This thread is Archived ------
prncss4someone: HINT FOR CREATIVE PUKING............................................................................
Ok I get it!
Don't be so obtuse next time!
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Jan1305: Ok I get it!
Don't be so obtuse next time!
Don't be so obtuse next time!
sorry,
didn't know what else to do........... promise, no more heaving
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Cost/benefit analysis.
Look to the returns on your investment in time/money/emotion. If the returns don't at least EQUAL the payout, then they're a passive dependant person, and they will suck you dry if you let them. Nobody needs friends like this, let alone lovers.
Look to the returns on your investment in time/money/emotion. If the returns don't at least EQUAL the payout, then they're a passive dependant person, and they will suck you dry if you let them. Nobody needs friends like this, let alone lovers.
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prncss4someone: When interacting on the web.
I spoke with someone for awhile, nothing but chit chat....he flowered me one day and he signed it with a different name had a fairly decent excuse, said that he got sick of his name and decided to use his middle name.... okay, fair enough....but then it made me look back.....he asked questions about me, seemingly interested in my life, but I knew very little about him, except basic stuff. The answers he gave me seemed kinda shady after I thought about it. I blocked him. Never figured out what his intentions really were, but it creeped me out. Trusting a guy intimately is not the same as trusting someone who plays as your friend. Lovers come and go, friends are not supposed to. I see that he has returned....
Anyone have anything that they would like to share?
I spoke with someone for awhile, nothing but chit chat....he flowered me one day and he signed it with a different name had a fairly decent excuse, said that he got sick of his name and decided to use his middle name.... okay, fair enough....but then it made me look back.....he asked questions about me, seemingly interested in my life, but I knew very little about him, except basic stuff. The answers he gave me seemed kinda shady after I thought about it. I blocked him. Never figured out what his intentions really were, but it creeped me out. Trusting a guy intimately is not the same as trusting someone who plays as your friend. Lovers come and go, friends are not supposed to. I see that he has returned....
Anyone have anything that they would like to share?
Yes!!! Just very recently. I even went and met the malaka
1. He changed his name - said it was his middle name
2. He changed his PROFFESSION from writer to artist / painter
3. He said he had children on his profile and then said he had none when we met for a coffee
4. He was living in Greece and was listed amongst the French singles
5. He wasn't even as tall as he said!!!
6. He looked nothing like his picture.
7. He put enormous (misplaced) emotional pressure on me within days of meeting me just that once.
8. Said he was looking for a friend. Kept saying..... well, whatever..... he was NOT.
Is the world so totally packed tight with sh!8 headed guys or what????
Sorry
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Oh, and Hi Princess!!
Good to meet you
Good to meet you
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breezee: Yes!!! Just very recently. I even went and met the malaka
1. He changed his name - said it was his middle name
2. He changed his PROFFESSION from writer to artist / painter
3. He said he had children on his profile and then said he had none when we met for a coffee
4. He was living in Greece and was listed amongst the French singles
5. He wasn't even as tall as he said!!!
6. He looked nothing like his picture.
7. He put enormous (misplaced) emotional pressure on me within days of meeting me just that once.
8. Said he was looking for a friend. Kept saying..... well, whatever..... he was NOT.
Is the world so totally packed tight with sh!8 headed guys or what????
Sorry
1. He changed his name - said it was his middle name
2. He changed his PROFFESSION from writer to artist / painter
3. He said he had children on his profile and then said he had none when we met for a coffee
4. He was living in Greece and was listed amongst the French singles
5. He wasn't even as tall as he said!!!
6. He looked nothing like his picture.
7. He put enormous (misplaced) emotional pressure on me within days of meeting me just that once.
8. Said he was looking for a friend. Kept saying..... well, whatever..... he was NOT.
Is the world so totally packed tight with sh!8 headed guys or what????
Sorry
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breezee: Yes!!! Just very recently. I even went and met the malaka
1. He changed his name - said it was his middle name
2. He changed his PROFFESSION from writer to artist / painter
3. He said he had children on his profile and then said he had none when we met for a coffee
4. He was living in Greece and was listed amongst the French singles
5. He wasn't even as tall as he said!!!
6. He looked nothing like his picture.
7. He put enormous (misplaced) emotional pressure on me within days of meeting me just that once.
8. Said he was looking for a friend. Kept saying..... well, whatever..... he was NOT.
Is the world so totally packed tight with sh!8 headed guys or what????
Whew!!!! I thought you were talking about me for a moment there..
Sorry
1. He changed his name - said it was his middle name
2. He changed his PROFFESSION from writer to artist / painter
3. He said he had children on his profile and then said he had none when we met for a coffee
4. He was living in Greece and was listed amongst the French singles
5. He wasn't even as tall as he said!!!
6. He looked nothing like his picture.
7. He put enormous (misplaced) emotional pressure on me within days of meeting me just that once.
8. Said he was looking for a friend. Kept saying..... well, whatever..... he was NOT.
Is the world so totally packed tight with sh!8 headed guys or what????
Whew!!!! I thought you were talking about me for a moment there..
Sorry
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Sparky55: Sparky laughs....
I seriously don't think you would hurt a fly would you sparkles?
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shipoker55: thought that have saved me griefMastubation is better than marriage!!
Keeping my whole paycheck is better than sharing it!
Murder is better tha divorce. And less painful. Oh sure, I'll go to jail for it..BUT........
underwear on the living room floor is perfectly O.K.
And......my dog is truly my best friend
Keeping my whole paycheck is better than sharing it!
Murder is better tha divorce. And less painful. Oh sure, I'll go to jail for it..BUT........
underwear on the living room floor is perfectly O.K.
And......my dog is truly my best friend
hahaha
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I spoke with someone for awhile, nothing but chit chat....he flowered me one day and he signed it with a different name
Anyone have anything that they would like to share?