Ok so me and my ex are no longer togeather because of his work. The thing is that we still like eachother and he told me that he woould go back out with me if he could. And he still takes to me lie were dating and he still says that hes happy when he is with me even thought were not tegeather anymore. So i gess what im tring to say is if he askes me back out should i say yea again? I need yalls opinion.
livinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland5,879 posts
blndhrdgrl: Ok so me and my ex are no longer togeather because of his work. The thing is that we still like eachother and he told me that he woould go back out with me if he could. And he still takes to me lie were dating and he still says that hes happy when he is with me even thought were not tegeather anymore. So i gess what im tring to say is if he askes me back out should i say yea again? I need yalls opinion.
Just try and keep it friendly, best of luck in your decision.
blndhrdgrl: Ok so me and my ex are no longer togeather because of his work. The thing is that we still like eachother and he told me that he woould go back out with me if he could. And he still takes to me lie were dating and he still says that hes happy when he is with me even thought were not tegeather anymore. So i gess what im tring to say is if he askes me back out should i say yea again? I need yalls opinion.
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I guess it kinda depends on if this is your first break or have you two broken up before? First break, follow your 6th sense, your gut instinct. Sometimes meditation helps one think things through more rationally. You might want to try it.
If you have broken already a couple times or more, then I'd say let him go for once and for all for this is or can (even only after one break) become an unhealthy pattern.
But like others say, do what you feel you must or want. It's your life.
Ennaille: If there is love nothing comes in the way for two people to be together...I would move on. But you are the only one who can decide what to do
All the best
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I couldn't have said that better myself, but would like to add to it, True Love, Will Alwasy, Find A Way... if it doesn't it's Not True Love..jmo
Arlene101: I agree, but never forget what made him your ex to start with. JMO
True. There is nothing wrong with spending time together as friends first and then if something develops then great. If not, you still have the friendship. The question you have to ask yourself is if you do get back with him, would things be like they are before or would they change for the better?
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