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Jul 14, 2008 2:39 PM CST what should i do?
blndhrdgrl
blndhrdgrlblndhrdgrlvirginia beach, Virginia USA2 Threads 4 Posts
Ok so me and my ex are no longer togeather because of his work. The thing is that we still like eachother and he told me that he woould go back out with me if he could. And he still takes to me lie were dating and he still says that hes happy when he is with me even thought were not tegeather anymore. So i gess what im tring to say is if he askes me back out should i say yea again? I need yalls opinion.
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Jul 14, 2008 2:40 PM CST what should i do?
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
no one can answer this but you!!
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Jul 14, 2008 2:41 PM CST what should i do?
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
nah, date the blonde guy, he has a better attitude.

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Jul 14, 2008 2:41 PM CST what should i do?
blndhrdgrl
blndhrdgrlblndhrdgrlvirginia beach, Virginia USA2 Threads 4 Posts
yeah in know i was just asking to see what everyone thinks
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Jul 14, 2008 2:42 PM CST what should i do?
blndhrdgrl
blndhrdgrlblndhrdgrlvirginia beach, Virginia USA2 Threads 4 Posts
he is blond
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Jul 14, 2008 2:42 PM CST what should i do?
blissfull
blissfullblissfullANGOLA, Indiana USA3 Threads 96 Posts
shipoker55: no one can answer this but you!!


i say what he said
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Jul 14, 2008 2:42 PM CST what should i do?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
I agree with ship..

Go with the Flow
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Jul 14, 2008 2:43 PM CST what should i do?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
blndhrdgrl: Ok so me and my ex are no longer togeather because of his work. The thing is that we still like eachother and he told me that he woould go back out with me if he could. And he still takes to me lie were dating and he still says that hes happy when he is with me even thought were not tegeather anymore. So i gess what im tring to say is if he askes me back out should i say yea again? I need yalls opinion.

wave Just try and keep it friendly, best of luck in your decision.
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Jul 14, 2008 2:44 PM CST what should i do?
Ennaille
EnnailleEnnailleLeeds, West Yorkshire, England UK4 Threads 167 Posts
If there is love nothing comes in the way for two people to be together...


I would move on. But you are the only one who can decide what to do

All the best

xhandshake
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Jul 14, 2008 2:45 PM CST what should i do?
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
blndhrdgrl: he is blond


James blond? giggle
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Jul 14, 2008 2:45 PM CST what should i do?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
blndhrdgrl: Ok so me and my ex are no longer togeather because of his work. The thing is that we still like eachother and he told me that he woould go back out with me if he could. And he still takes to me lie were dating and he still says that hes happy when he is with me even thought were not tegeather anymore. So i gess what im tring to say is if he askes me back out should i say yea again? I need yalls opinion.


Opinions are like A&&holes, we all have one & most stink..

What would "YOU" choose to do?wink
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Jul 14, 2008 2:45 PM CST what should i do?
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
You say you are apart because of his work. If he is still working at the same place how would this be better this time.
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Jul 14, 2008 5:11 PM CST what should i do?
Shanmariee
ShanmarieeShanmarieeSpokane, Washington USA9 Threads 396 Posts
I guess it kinda depends on if this is your first break or have you two broken up before? First break, follow your 6th sense, your gut instinct. Sometimes meditation helps one think things through more rationally. You might want to try it.

If you have broken already a couple times or more, then I'd say let him go for once and for all for this is or can (even only after one break) become an unhealthy pattern.

But like others say, do what you feel you must or want. It's your life.
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Jul 14, 2008 5:42 PM CST what should i do?
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Ennaille: If there is love nothing comes in the way for two people to be together...I would move on. But you are the only one who can decide what to do

All the best

x


I couldn't have said that better myself, but would like to add to it, True Love, Will Alwasy, Find A Way... if it doesn't it's Not True Love..jmo
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Jul 14, 2008 5:48 PM CST what should i do?
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
What they said. Just see what happens and trust your gut, heart or head--you pick.

I hope it works out the way you want.
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Jul 14, 2008 5:50 PM CST what should i do?
I agree with Shipteddybear yay sad flower
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Jul 14, 2008 5:51 PM CST what should i do?
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
shipoker55: no one can answer this but you!!


You are an intelligent man Ship. cheers

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Jul 14, 2008 5:52 PM CST what should i do?
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
CjTenorSax: I agree with Ship



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Kudos to you.thumbs up
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Jul 14, 2008 6:47 PM CST what should i do?
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
kissmedeeply: I agree with ship..

Go with the Flow
I agree, but never forget what made him your ex to start with. JMOhug
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Jul 14, 2008 7:28 PM CST what should i do?
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
Arlene101: I agree, but never forget what made him your ex to start with. JMO


True. There is nothing wrong with spending time together as friends first and then if something develops then great. If not, you still have the friendship. The question you have to ask yourself is if you do get back with him, would things be like they are before or would they change for the better?
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