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Jul 24, 2008 4:28 PM CST in need of some opinions
snoopy1
snoopy1snoopy1st george, Utah USA8 Threads 46 Posts
there a girl i like at the local supermarket im thinking of ask her out and i have come up with an idea of sending her a bouquet of flowers or roses asking her out would this be appropriate or should i ask out in person face to face
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Jul 24, 2008 4:30 PM CST in need of some opinions
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
snoopy1: there a girl i like at the local supermarket im thinking of ask her out and i have come up with an idea of sending her a bouquet of flowers or roses asking her out would this be appropriate or should i ask out in person face to face



Nothing ventured nothing gained. If she says no.......find a different store blushing
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Jul 24, 2008 4:32 PM CST in need of some opinions
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
Be brave, just ask.... bouquet
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Jul 24, 2008 4:35 PM CST in need of some opinions
chloe21
chloe21chloe21bolton, Greater Manchester, England UK2 Threads 73 Posts
snoopy1: there a girl i like at the local supermarket im thinking of ask her out and i have come up with an idea of sending her a bouquet of flowers or roses asking her out would this be appropriate or should i ask out in person face to face


would be nice if you did both blushing bouquet
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Jul 24, 2008 4:37 PM CST in need of some opinions
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
Do you really think we're the best people to ask???

laugh
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Jul 24, 2008 4:37 PM CST in need of some opinions
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
Do you at least joke with her while you're in the store if you do joke with her often then I would say go ahead with the flowers


Now on the other hand if you don't talk to her much or very little. Then approach her in person, because if your send flowers just out of the blue a woman will not know what to think of you and you could be preceived as a stalker type JMO either way good luck mancheers
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Jul 24, 2008 4:38 PM CST in need of some opinions
zdeadmanwalking
zdeadmanwalkingzdeadmanwalkingbowling green, Kentucky USA235 Threads 3,011 Posts
arabella: Be brave, just ask....


cheers what she said,you never know unless you ask
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Jul 24, 2008 4:38 PM CST in need of some opinions
Olsojente
OlsojenteOlsojenteOslo/Zadar, Oslo Norway51 Threads 5 Polls 5,070 Posts
arabella: Be brave, just ask....




thumbs up
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Jul 24, 2008 4:38 PM CST in need of some opinions
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
Jan1305: Do you really think we're the best people to ask???



Very good point>>>>.dunno
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Jul 24, 2008 4:38 PM CST in need of some opinions
Tater: Do you at least joke with her while you're in the store if you do joke with her often then I would say go ahead with the flowersNow on the other hand if you don't talk to her much or very little. Then approach her in person, because if your send flowers just out of the blue a woman will not know what to think of you and you could be preceived as a stalker type JMO either way good luck man


Good pointsthumbs up
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Jul 24, 2008 4:42 PM CST in need of some opinions
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
Tater: Very good point>>>>.


laugh

There was an element of seriousness about my post. There are some questions I would never come and ask here because I know I would rather trust the opinion of somebody not on a dating site.

Sorry if that offends anybody.
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Jul 24, 2008 4:44 PM CST in need of some opinions
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Shoot......when I'm at Krogers, I just start asking any woman standing in line. I figure the law of averages has to catch up! thumbs up
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Jul 24, 2008 4:46 PM CST in need of some opinions
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
Indyfella: Shoot......when I'm at Krogers, I just start asking any woman standing in line. I figure the law of averages has to catch up!



laugh laugh
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Jul 24, 2008 4:46 PM CST in need of some opinions
jampet
jampetjampetwexford, Wexford Ireland28 Threads 1 Polls 2,549 Posts
snoopy1: there a girl i like at the local supermarket im thinking of ask her out and i have come up with an idea of sending her a bouquet of flowers or roses asking her out would this be appropriate or should i ask out in person face to face


i suggest just going in and giving her one flower- a rose if you like, but anything- don't say anything too much.( or maybe- this is for you, you brighten up my day)...just walk away..then on the next visit,get chatting- ask her if she liked the flower, and based on her answer, take it from there- gives her a chance to think about it..

we don't like getting put on the spot- will probably give a 'no' answer, rather than risk looking foolish. Good luckhug
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Jul 24, 2008 4:48 PM CST in need of some opinions
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
jampet: i suggest just going in and giving her one flower- a rose if you like, but anything- don't say anything too much.( or maybe- this is for you, you brighten up my day)...just walk away..then on the next visit,get chatting- ask her if she liked the flower, and based on her answer, take it from there- gives her a chance to think about it..

we don't like getting put on the spot- will probably give a 'no' answer, rather than risk looking foolish. Good luck


This is a good point too.....thumbs up
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Jul 24, 2008 4:50 PM CST in need of some opinions
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
snoopy1: there a girl i like at the local supermarket im thinking of ask her out and i have come up with an idea of sending her a bouquet of flowers or roses asking her out would this be appropriate or should i ask out in person face to face


face to face .. she could have allergies .. dunno

nothing worse than a runny nosed date.. rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 24, 2008 4:53 PM CST in need of some opinions
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
Jan1305: There was an element of seriousness about my post. There are some questions I would never come and ask here because I know I would rather trust the opinion of somebody not on a dating site.

Sorry if that offends anybody.


no jan-its a valid point-- i made a thread about it once.
but oh well
you always sound so much nicer



wave
lovely to see you.
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Jul 24, 2008 4:55 PM CST in need of some opinions
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
mindfful: no jan-its a valid point-- i made a thread about it once.
but oh well
you always sound so much nicer

lovely to see you.



I agree, the only people that it would upset are people with no sense of humor to begin withthumbs up
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Jul 24, 2008 5:02 PM CST in need of some opinions
spiceygamble
spiceygamblespiceygambleNola, Louisiana USA36 Threads 3 Polls 4,493 Posts
*ummm... just a really good question.

Do you know her? I mean, do you know if she's even available?
Do you even know if she's into men?
Seriously, these are kinda good questions to start with... think about it.

.. but good luck. I wouldn't go a traditional route, myself. I like to make a moment fun. I once gave a guy a bottle of bubbles with a little note that asked if he would like to go sit in the park, blow bubbles & be a big kid.
It worked.


...I'm just say'n... you could do a little homework first.
wink thumbs up
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Jul 24, 2008 5:29 PM CST in need of some opinions
Krugon
KrugonKrugonTerre Haute, Indiana USA1 Threads 18 Posts
Jan1305: Do you really think we're the best people to ask???

Oh my god I laughed so loud at this I think the neighbors heard me! They are thins walls just so ya know. Appartment living gotta love it lol. It is a very valid point. Just hillariously stated.
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