Why do average looking guy's like myself alway's get looked at as a later option. Their are women that 5 years ago wouldnt give me a second look. Now later in life when they have gotten done wrong and heart broken. The average guy with a good heart all of a sudden is now an option. Why not give the average guy with a good heart a shot before they get their heart broken. Guess what im sayin is the avg guy's with good heart's. typically end up getting women with baggage. Because the women half to get hurt before they notice the average guy who knows how to treat a women.
Narrlythingz: Why do average looking guy's like myself alway's get looked at as a later option. Their are women that 5 years ago wouldnt give me a second look. Now later in life when they have gotten done wrong and heart broken. The average guy with a good heart all of a sudden is now an option. Why not give the average guy with a good heart a shot before they get their heart broken. Guess what im sayin is the avg guy's with good heart's. typically end up getting women with baggage. Because the women half to get hurt before they notice the average guy who knows how to treat a women.
Narrlythingz: Why do average looking guy's like myself alway's get looked at as a later option. Their are women that 5 years ago wouldnt give me a second look. Now later in life when they have gotten done wrong and heart broken. The average guy with a good heart all of a sudden is now an option. Why not give the average guy with a good heart a shot before they get their heart broken. Guess what im sayin is the avg guy's with good heart's. typically end up getting women with baggage. Because the women half to get hurt before they notice the average guy who knows how to treat a women.
Sadly I think you have made some good points.
The answer I have NFI to be honest. If I had all the answers I wouldnt be sitting here.
the same way as men will not choose the 'homely ' girl- i know women are the same, but it's the same issue- we all think we know what is best until slapped in the face with the truth, so pick yourself up, and deal with it- id that is all you are offered, then take what is offered. aren't you doing the same thing- rejecting what is on offer because you think you can do better??- isn't that what the prety young things were doing when you were 20? sorry to be harsh but....
Narrlythingz: Why do average looking guy's like myself alway's get looked at as a later option. Their are women that 5 years ago wouldnt give me a second look. Now later in life when they have gotten done wrong and heart broken. The average guy with a good heart all of a sudden is now an option. Why not give the average guy with a good heart a shot before they get their heart broken. Guess what im sayin is the avg guy's with good heart's. typically end up getting women with baggage. Because the women half to get hurt before they notice the average guy who knows how to treat a women.
Unfortunately, people seem to be attracted to the packaging, as an item in a classy container on a store shelf; it sells. For many different reasons, as we grow older, we tend to understand that what's in the fancy container may not be worth the price. We then attempt to bargain hunt, looking for that discounted diamond or re-packaged goody at half off.
Narrlythingz: Why do average looking guy's like myself alway's get looked at as a later option. Their are women that 5 years ago wouldnt give me a second look. Now later in life when they have gotten done wrong and heart broken. The average guy with a good heart all of a sudden is now an option. Why not give the average guy with a good heart a shot before they get their heart broken. Guess what im sayin is the avg guy's with good heart's. typically end up getting women with baggage. Because the women half to get hurt before they notice the average guy who knows how to treat a women.
Well unfotunitely the same reason some guys do the same thing, ego and lust.....
Throughout existence an average man with a sizable amount of liquor and a nice pad will never have a broken heart.............I think Socrates said that
jampet: the same way as men will not choose the 'homely ' girl- i know women are the same, but it's the same issue- we all think we know what is best until slapped in the face with the truth, so pick yourself up, and deal with it- id that is all you are offered, then take what is offered. aren't you doing the same thing- rejecting what is on offer because you think you can do better??- isn't that what the prety young things were doing when you were 20? sorry to be harsh but....
Narrlythingz: Why do average looking guy's like myself alway's get looked at as a later option. Their are women that 5 years ago wouldnt give me a second look. Now later in life when they have gotten done wrong and heart broken. The average guy with a good heart all of a sudden is now an option. Why not give the average guy with a good heart a shot before they get their heart broken. Guess what im sayin is the avg guy's with good heart's. typically end up getting women with baggage. Because the women half to get hurt before they notice the average guy who knows how to treat a women.
Well, one problem is that average-looking guys don't always have good hearts (and may not in fact have, on average, better hearts then good-looking guys).
It really comes down to judgment and character issues, I think. Women who have good judgment and character stand a better chance of finding a good man regardless of his looks.
nope i havent been slapped down. i have always treated ppl by whats on the inside. and a physical upgrade isnt necessaily doing better not trying to be harsh but... if that is yur thinking yur wrong
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