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thewall2: Why would anybody stay with anbody that cheated on them.....that's PATHETIC.
Easy said than done when feelings are involved. Easy to point a finger when u r not in the situation urself. I've done that myself and now I understand there is nothing Pathetic about it.
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CjTenorSax: Listen to me! THAT was not your fault. He has no right to lay hands on another human. If he was that angry he should have taken a walk. Do not be ashamed-you will be giving him a further hold over you if you let this make you ashamed. I know what it is like from personal experience. You need to remember though, HE assaulted you not the other way. HE IS THE ONE WHO SHOULD BE ASHAMED NOT YOU!!!.
I just never thought I would be in a situation like I was few months ago. Today is another day and I know things will be better.
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StressFree: I let it go. I understood the situation and why I was cheated on. However, said cheating was a kiss and some planning that went on behind my back...I forgave her and then a month later she left me for the same guy... But I understood. He promised her kids...something I could not...
She still should have been honest with you and let you know before she got involved with someone else!!!
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Ennaille,
Leopards don't change their spots! Trust me! It is no reflection of who you are - his loss! Be patient because you will meet someone who is deserving of you!~
Leopards don't change their spots! Trust me! It is no reflection of who you are - his loss! Be patient because you will meet someone who is deserving of you!~
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CjTenorSax: Ouch!!! I had a friend who came home and caught her husband in bed w/someone else When she was 7 mos along with their 5th. They were so into it they did not even hear her cross the room to his gun cabinet and get his shotgun out. Only became aware when she put it up to his family jewels and said finish what you started and . . . She told the girl you're lucky I'm going to let you get dressed b4 you leave cause I feel like making you leave w/o any clothes.
He forgot that he never kept any guns loaded. He kept the bullets in a Safe in the wall behind the headboard of the bed. But she said it was worth it to see his face.
They worked through things. Stayed together to have 3 more children. Eventually divorced but he never again cheated on her. They each remarried and had 3-5 more children with their new spouses. They and their new spouses got along so well the four of them became best buddies and took vactions together and both new spouses know what he did.
I personally don't believe I could do any of that, but to each his own, live and let live.
He forgot that he never kept any guns loaded. He kept the bullets in a Safe in the wall behind the headboard of the bed. But she said it was worth it to see his face.
They worked through things. Stayed together to have 3 more children. Eventually divorced but he never again cheated on her. They each remarried and had 3-5 more children with their new spouses. They and their new spouses got along so well the four of them became best buddies and took vactions together and both new spouses know what he did.
I personally don't believe I could do any of that, but to each his own, live and let live.
Ouch is right.......SHE WAS great in bed,but still,I couldn't stay with her.
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Ennaille: If people cheat becouse something is missing in the current relationship then why 85% of cheaters beg for forgiveness and want to get back to the person they were in the first place. If was THAT bad I believe they would end it isnt it?
the grass may be greener but the truth is, its only greener if you have the option to feed from both sides of the fence.
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Ennaille: Thanks for the advice. I will be taken time off in a week. I am off to New Hampshire to stay with some friends. I believe it is the best thing I can do and mostly important I just need to forget all thats happened and moving on.
I'm glad you're going to have a break. Very important to look after yourself, and get a whole lot of nurturing while you heal.
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luckily i think i have terrified mine into never doing that
he may not be perfect but he knows how to 'stay'
and roll over when hes asked
he may not be perfect but he knows how to 'stay'
and roll over when hes asked
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mindfful: luckily i think i have terrified mine into never doing that
he may not be perfect but he knows how to 'stay'
and roll over when hes asked
he may not be perfect but he knows how to 'stay'
and roll over when hes asked
Unfortunately, not all men, (or women for that matter), are born with the
"canine" gene, which allows them to easily learn how to stay and roll over,lol
I think I read somewhere that scientists in Greenland are close to extracting this very gene from their illegal, underground DNA experiments. It seems, however, they may be using rats as subjects (not sure if they are the 2-legged variety, they did not specify) They are therefore unsure how the results might transfer to humans
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Posted a page past now, the guy is an abusive bully, thats why he blames you, said before best thing for you to do is get away for a few days and have some me time
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