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Oct 1, 2008 4:26 PM CST Epitaph
kurzita
kurzitakurzitaXaghra, Gozo Malta9 Threads 1,019 Posts
I buried my mum yesterday afternoon.

She passed away peacefully in sleep Sunday night. She was 85, still fully lucid, still bossy as ever, still the mum I knew.

In life, she had the incredible capacity of rubbing me off the wrong way within half an hour of being in each others company, but she remained to the end, my mum.

And now that she is finally at peace with dad, as she always wanted to be, I can look back..........and it suddenly dawns on me.

My father passed away a couple of years back at 89. My mum, 85. Both of them enjoyed the gift of life to the very end. And with all the differences that may have evolved over the years, of one thing I am now sure.

My father gave me dignity. The balance of right and wrong.

My mum gave me pride. She thought me to hold my head high.

Together they gave me that which I am today. For which I am eternally grateful.

So in remembrance of their passing away, I raise my glass and propose a toast.......

Here's to life....with grateful thanks to both my parents.
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Oct 1, 2008 4:28 PM CST Epitaph
woody636
woody636woody636Elgin, Illinois USA3 Threads 1,267 Posts
Here's to you and the life they had together.wine
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Oct 1, 2008 4:29 PM CST Epitaph
bajanblue
bajanbluebajanblueSpeightstown, Saint Peter Barbados344 Threads 1 Polls 3,724 Posts
hug

here's to lifewine
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Oct 1, 2008 4:32 PM CST Epitaph
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
kurzita: I buried my mum yesterday afternoon.

She passed away peacefully in sleep Sunday night. She was 85, still fully lucid, still bossy as ever, still the mum I knew.

In life, she had the incredible capacity of rubbing me off the wrong way within half an hour of being in each others company, but she remained to the end, my mum.

And now that she is finally at peace with dad, as she always wanted to be, I can look back..........and it suddenly dawns on me.

My father passed away a couple of years back at 89. My mum, 85. Both of them enjoyed the gift of life to the very end. And with all the differences that may have evolved over the years, of one thing I am now sure.

My father gave me dignity. The balance of right and wrong.

My mum gave me pride. She thought me to hold my head high.

Together they gave me that which I am today. For which I am eternally grateful.

So in remembrance of their passing away, I raise my glass and propose a toast.......

Here's to life....with grateful thanks to both my parents.



Here Here....wine


hug teddybear hug bouquet
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Oct 1, 2008 4:35 PM CST Epitaph
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
wine What a lovely tribute.
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Oct 1, 2008 4:39 PM CST Epitaph
Dusty45
Dusty45Dusty45Louisville, Kentucky USA54 Threads 2,642 Posts
I'm glad you shared with us. Thank you.rose
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Oct 1, 2008 4:39 PM CST Epitaph
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
Beautiful remembrance, my sympathy is with you. wine Here's to your mum and dad, and to the wonderful person they made you.
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Oct 1, 2008 4:42 PM CST Epitaph
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
Here's to life....sorry to hear about your loss. sad flower
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Oct 1, 2008 4:42 PM CST Epitaph
cherokeemoon2
cherokeemoon2cherokeemoon2grove, Oklahoma USA15 Threads 545 Posts
kurzita: I buried my mum yesterday afternoon.

She passed away peacefully in sleep Sunday night. She was 85, still fully lucid, still bossy as ever, still the mum I knew.

In life, she had the incredible capacity of rubbing me off the wrong way within half an hour of being in each others company, but she remained to the end, my mum.

And now that she is finally at peace with dad, as she always wanted to be, I can look back..........and it suddenly dawns on me.

My father passed away a couple of years back at 89. My mum, 85. Both of them enjoyed the gift of life to the very end. And with all the differences that may have evolved over the years, of one thing I am now sure.

My father gave me dignity. The balance of right and wrong.

My mum gave me pride. She thought me to hold my head high.

Together they gave me that which I am today. For which I am eternally grateful.

So in remembrance of their passing away, I raise my glass and propose a toast.......

Here's to life....with grateful thanks to both my parents.
I am so sorry to hear that.My thoughts and prayers are with u.comfort
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Oct 1, 2008 4:48 PM CST Epitaph
jampet
jampetjampetwexford, Wexford Ireland28 Threads 1 Polls 2,549 Posts
I'm sorry for your losscomfort

How wonderful that you can see them in yourself and the gifts they gave youbouquet
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Oct 1, 2008 4:49 PM CST Epitaph
kurzita
kurzitakurzitaXaghra, Gozo Malta9 Threads 1,019 Posts
Thank you all......

you are what makes CS what it is.....

real people.

I bid you all......

good night.

wine
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Oct 1, 2008 4:50 PM CST Epitaph
kurzita: I buried my mum yesterday afternoon.

She passed away peacefully in sleep Sunday night. She was 85, still fully lucid, still bossy as ever, still the mum I knew.

In life, she had the incredible capacity of rubbing me off the wrong way within half an hour of being in each others company, but she remained to the end, my mum.

And now that she is finally at peace with dad, as she always wanted to be, I can look back..........and it suddenly dawns on me.

My father passed away a couple of years back at 89. My mum, 85. Both of them enjoyed the gift of life to the very end. And with all the differences that may have evolved over the years, of one thing I am now sure.

My father gave me dignity. The balance of right and wrong.

My mum gave me pride. She thought me to hold my head high.

Together they gave me that which I am today. For which I am eternally grateful.

So in remembrance of their passing away, I raise my glass and propose a toast.......

Here's to life....with grateful thanks to both my parents.
My heartfelt Condolences.sigh
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Oct 1, 2008 4:53 PM CST Epitaph
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Thanks for sharing kurzita and sorry to hear about your loss...and I am glad that you can look back and see the good that your parents provided for you.wine
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Oct 1, 2008 4:55 PM CST Epitaph
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
hug bouquet cheers Here's to life, Kurzita...and the wonderful gifts your parents have given you just by being them.

Namaste.
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Oct 1, 2008 4:57 PM CST Epitaph
phaedellis
phaedellisphaedellisBrisbane, Queensland Australia9 Threads 653 Posts
My deepest condolences to you and your family, beautifull words for a no doubt beautiful woman. wine wine
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Oct 1, 2008 5:37 PM CST Epitaph
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
My condolences for your loss...handshake
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Oct 1, 2008 5:45 PM CST Epitaph
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
To Mon and Dad.wine
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Oct 2, 2008 1:47 AM CST Epitaph
kcjane
kcjanekcjanePeachgrove, Georgia USA2 Threads 195 Posts
kurzita: Thank you all......

you are what makes CS what it is.....

real people.

I bid you all......

good night.
My thoghts are with you and it is obvious they did a good job you went through realizing how you have been blessed instead of loneliness and griefangel
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Oct 2, 2008 2:01 AM CST Epitaph
Marathon
MarathonMarathonOklahoma, USA3 Threads 363 Posts
To your Mumwine and her memory living on in your heart.
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Oct 3, 2008 7:45 AM CST Epitaph
Jackson
JacksonJacksonPowell, Tennessee USA31 Threads 680 Posts
Much sympathy in your loss. How lovely to remember your parents for who they were and what they gave to you. They obviously taught you respect and grace: traits which you have shared here.

So, in memory of K's "mum" and "Dad," allow me to raise my glass.

To life, to beauty, and to love wine .

-J teddybear
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