Need your advise my friends! ( Archived) (44)

I have clicked with a gentleman that is so up my alley in conversation, life and humor. We have been talking on the phone and he text messages me everyday on set hours. He keeps telling me that he wants to build a foundation as a friend and then proceed. LOL- The guy is a character and for some reason tells me about how many women want him and I am lucky he is not playing me like those girls.

I honestly think he is married or committed to someone because we have not met at all and its going on one month!

I know what I have to do...just want to hear your input!!!

If he lives near you, google his phone number for his address and drive by. And yes, if he lives near you and you haven't met, and everything is at set times, I'd certainly be suspicious. Though he could just be one of those who has to have a set schedule. (That would be enough for me to end it, lol!)

Good luck.

Good idea.

Be careful...you should have met by now...something seems a little off...

Yes, he lives 10 minutes away, I have his last name, I know where he works etc.

I just think he is just playing around with peoples feelings. He always keeps telling me he is a ugly guy,and I thought that maybe he was insecure, but you know what...If he doesnt want to meet..then something is wrong and I am not waiting.

Thanks!!

Yes I know!! Thanks

If he were that insecure and felt he was that ugly, he wouldn't have contacted you in the first place 'cuz he would've considered you out of his league, so to speak. I agree with Ken, something's off.

See...HJ's not insecure at all! And he's a good catch!

Hi, HJ!

If he is not married he is with someone. and don't call him a gentleman yet. Do you have a phone #...make an unschdule call ....and meet him in a resturant but make it clear its just a cup of coffee. Ask him about his wife. and don't feel uncomfortable about it.
Being up front is important before your heart get the message that you might care. GOOD LUCK.

hjf----I LIKE THE NEW PIC......HOPE YOUR DOING WELL

In business, I have found as others have...the more a person tells you how honest they are the less you should trust them. I would believe the same in this case if I were you.

When it comes to this sort of thing, trust your gut. It's usually right.

you said he was calling you. Are you close by each other? What kind of guy tells a lady that so many other women want him. You know the answer.

Sounds a bit odd..... Why would anyone say that there are other interested people....

Go with your gut feelings..... I'd personally steer well clear

JMHO

I would not like this remark and next he tells you he is ugly?
Something is off here.
Another one who needs his ego boosted?
I would be suspisious.
Check him out, I could be wrong, as you say you know where he lives and works.

Indeed. Conversely, I'd be more than a tad skeptical about a woman telling me how many guys want her and that I'm lucky. Eek. Then again, maybe it's a So Cal thing.