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Oct 17, 2008 11:46 PM CST Need your advise my friends!
ASMILE4U
ASMILE4UASMILE4UWALNUT, California USA1 Threads 4 Posts
I have clicked with a gentleman that is so up my alley in conversation, life and humor. We have been talking on the phone and he text messages me everyday on set hours. He keeps telling me that he wants to build a foundation as a friend and then proceed. LOL- The guy is a character and for some reason tells me about how many women want him and I am lucky he is not playing me like those girls.

I honestly think he is married or committed to someone because we have not met at all and its going on one month!

I know what I have to do...just want to hear your input!!!
help
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Oct 17, 2008 11:56 PM CST Need your advise my friends!
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA99 Threads 20,283 Posts
If he lives near you, google his phone number for his address and drive by. And yes, if he lives near you and you haven't met, and everything is at set times, I'd certainly be suspicious. Though he could just be one of those who has to have a set schedule. dunno (That would be enough for me to end it, lol!)

Good luck.
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Oct 18, 2008 12:03 AM CST Need your advise my friends!
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA78 Threads 7 Polls 21,350 Posts
druidess6308: If he lives near you, google his phone number for his address and drive by. And yes, if he lives near you and you haven't met, and everything is at set times, I'd certainly be suspicious. Though he could just be one of those who has to have a set schedule. (That would be enough for me to end it, lol!)

Good luck.


Good idea.thumbs up

Be careful...you should have met by now...something seems a little off...
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Oct 18, 2008 12:05 AM CST Need your advise my friends!
ASMILE4U
ASMILE4UASMILE4UWALNUT, California USA1 Threads 4 Posts
Yes, he lives 10 minutes away, I have his last name, I know where he works etc.

I just think he is just playing around with peoples feelings. He always keeps telling me he is a ugly guy,and I thought that maybe he was insecure, but you know what...If he doesnt want to meet..then something is wrong and I am not waiting.

Thanks!!
druidess6308: If he lives near you, google his phone number for his address and drive by. And yes, if he lives near you and you haven't met, and everything is at set times, I'd certainly be suspicious. Though he could just be one of those who has to have a set schedule. (That would be enough for me to end it, lol!)

Good luck.
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Oct 18, 2008 12:06 AM CST Need your advise my friends!
ASMILE4U
ASMILE4UASMILE4UWALNUT, California USA1 Threads 4 Posts
Yes I know!! Thanks
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Oct 18, 2008 12:06 AM CST Need your advise my friends!
ASMILE4U: I have clicked with a gentleman that is so up my alley in conversation, life and humor. We have been talking on the phone and he text messages me everyday on set hours. He keeps telling me that he wants to build a foundation as a friend and then proceed. LOL- The guy is a character and for some reason tells me about how many women want him and I am lucky he is not playing me like those girls.

I honestly think he is married or committed to someone because we have not met at all and its going on one month!

I know what I have to do...just want to hear your input!!!


Move to Arizona, quickly!!!grin



devil
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Oct 18, 2008 12:09 AM CST Need your advise my friends!
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA99 Threads 20,283 Posts
ASMILE4U: Yes, he lives 10 minutes away, I have his last name, I know where he works etc.

I just think he is just playing around with peoples feelings. He always keeps telling me he is a ugly guy,and I thought that maybe he was insecure, but you know what...If he doesnt want to meet..then something is wrong and I am not waiting.

Thanks!!


If he were that insecure and felt he was that ugly, he wouldn't have contacted you in the first place 'cuz he would've considered you out of his league, so to speak. I agree with Ken, something's off.
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Oct 18, 2008 12:09 AM CST Need your advise my friends!
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA99 Threads 20,283 Posts
HJFinAZ: Move to Arizona, quickly!!!


See...HJ's not insecure at all! And he's a good catch!

wave Hi, HJ!
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Oct 18, 2008 12:11 AM CST Need your advise my friends!
linsamraj
linsamrajlinsamrajState island, New York USA6 Threads 106 Posts
If he is not married he is with someone. and don't call him a gentleman yet. Do you have a phone #...make an unschdule call ....and meet him in a resturant but make it clear its just a cup of coffee. Ask him about his wife. and don't feel uncomfortable about it.handshake conversing
Being up front is important before your heart get the message that you might care. GOOD LUCK. angel
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Oct 18, 2008 12:14 AM CST Need your advise my friends!
linsamraj
linsamrajlinsamrajState island, New York USA6 Threads 106 Posts
hjf----I LIKE THE NEW PIC......HOPE YOUR DOING WELLlips blushing
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Oct 18, 2008 12:53 AM CST Need your advise my friends!
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA1,208 Threads 1 Polls 18,965 Posts
ASMILE4U: I have clicked with a gentleman that is so up my alley in conversation, life and humor. We have been talking on the phone and he text messages me everyday on set hours. He keeps telling me that he wants to build a foundation as a friend and then proceed. LOL- The guy is a character and for some reason tells me about how many women want him and I am lucky he is not playing me like those girls.

I honestly think he is married or committed to someone because we have not met at all and its going on one month!

I know what I have to do...just want to hear your input!!!



In business, I have found as others have...the more a person tells you how honest they are the less you should trust them. I would believe the same in this case if I were you.professor
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Oct 18, 2008 1:04 AM CST Need your advise my friends!
ModestlyAwesome
ModestlyAwesomeModestlyAwesomePhoenix, Arizona USA3 Threads 2 Polls 543 Posts
When it comes to this sort of thing, trust your gut. It's usually right.
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Oct 18, 2008 1:33 AM CST Need your advise my friends!
lint874
lint874lint874Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 577 Posts
Just say to him: "Let's meet up."

and see how he responds.
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Oct 18, 2008 1:40 AM CST Need your advise my friends!
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA35 Threads 4,332 Posts
you said he was calling you. Are you close by each other? What kind of guy tells a lady that so many other women want him. You know the answer.
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Oct 18, 2008 3:50 AM CST Need your advise my friends!
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain131 Threads 3 Polls 3,571 Posts
Sounds a bit odd..... Why would anyone say that there are other interested people....

Go with your gut feelings..... I'd personally steer well clear

JMHO
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Oct 18, 2008 3:59 AM CST Need your advise my friends!
Karma3
Karma3Karma3Somewhere, Tamil Nadu India121 Threads 826 Posts
10 minutes apart and still no 'face to face'?? Does that not strike you as odd?? confused
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Oct 18, 2008 4:04 AM CST Need your advise my friends!
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada711 Threads 6,072 Posts
ASMILE4U: I have clicked with a gentleman that is so up my alley in conversation, life and humor. We have been talking on the phone and he text messages me everyday on set hours. He keeps telling me that he wants to build a foundation as a friend and then proceed. LOL- The guy is a character and for some reason tells me about how many women want him and I am lucky he is not playing me like those girls.

I honestly think he is married or committed to someone because we have not met at all and its going on one month!

I know what I have to do...just want to hear your input!!!


I would not like this remark and next he tells you he is ugly?
Something is off here.
Another one who needs his ego boosted?
I would be suspisious.
Check him out, I could be wrong, as you say you know where he lives and works.
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Oct 18, 2008 10:36 AM CST Need your advise my friends!
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA21 Threads 11,127 Posts
shipoker58: you said he was calling you. Are you close by each other? What kind of guy tells a lady that so many other women want him. You know the answer.


Indeed. Conversely, I'd be more than a tad skeptical about a woman telling me how many guys want her and that I'm lucky. Eek. Then again, maybe it's a So Cal thing. smoking
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Oct 18, 2008 11:24 AM CST Need your advise my friends!
druidess6308: See...HJ's not insecure at all! And he's a good catch!

Hi, HJ!


wave NO, he is NOT a good catch....devil And he cannot be "caught", he no longer take the "bait"...grin
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Oct 18, 2008 11:26 AM CST Need your advise my friends!
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA230 Threads 9 Polls 27,698 Posts
ASMILE4U: I have clicked with a gentleman that is so up my alley in conversation, life and humor. We have been talking on the phone and he text messages me everyday on set hours. He keeps telling me that he wants to build a foundation as a friend and then proceed. LOL- The guy is a character and for some reason tells me about how many women want him and I am lucky he is not playing me like those girls.

I honestly think he is married or committed to someone because we have not met at all and its going on one month!

I know what I have to do...just want to hear your input!!!


You promised you wouldn't tell.scold
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