Is this Church Legalism? ( Archived) (54)

Feb 16, 2009 1:09 PM CST Is this Church Legalism?
rolltideroll
rolltiderollrolltiderollKillen, Alabama USA27 Threads 17 Polls 172 Posts
Here are some new rules that some local churches have come up with.

The first time you miss a service you recieve a card in the mail.

The second time you miss a service you recieve a phone call.

The thrid time you miss a service you recieve a visit from someone on the church staff.

The fourth time you miss a service their is a report written up and you have to explain your absence to the church leadership.



This is something new that has come up with the smaller churches in my area. So far all it has done is created the start of a split with in the church members are leaving the elderly are complaining that this is not the way to reach out to those that we are trying to witness to.
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Feb 16, 2009 1:13 PM CST Is this Church Legalism?
Da10th
Da10thDa10thThree Springs, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,744 Posts
I don't see anything illegal about it, but yeah, I can see where that would drive division in the church. Definately a bad way to reach out to the community as a welcoming congregation.
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Feb 16, 2009 1:19 PM CST Is this Church Legalism?
DazzleYou
DazzleYouDazzleYouSeattle, WA, Washington USA39 Threads 1 Polls 836 Posts
I see the first things as an opportunity to make sure people still feel connected. The 4th one though is a mistake and encourages confrontation.
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Feb 16, 2009 1:21 PM CST Is this Church Legalism?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
the terminology you are choosing is correct

it is legalism

way to measure
is it in gods word?

nope


so there ya go-its optional
its an adopted practice
its not scriptural

by definition it is legalism
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Feb 16, 2009 1:25 PM CST Is this Church Legalism?
rolltideroll
rolltiderollrolltiderollKillen, Alabama USA27 Threads 17 Polls 172 Posts
We have a lot of people in our church that have jobs that sometimes require us to miss a service and to know that my church has decided to start kicking people out because they are trying to provide for their families I take offense.


Chuch was created as a way to encourge people to come and worship together as a celebration of God's never ending love and the promise he made to us when we live for him. This just goes against so many chirstian values of ministry that promote love and support.
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Feb 16, 2009 1:36 PM CST Is this Church Legalism?
rolltideroll: Here are some new rules that some local churches have come up with.

The first time you miss a service you recieve a card in the mail.

The second time you miss a service you recieve a phone call.

The thrid time you miss a service you recieve a visit from someone on the church staff.

The fourth time you miss a service their is a report written up and you have to explain your absence to the church leadership.
This is something new that has come up with the smaller churches in my area. So far all it has done is created the start of a split with in the church members are leaving the elderly are complaining that this is not the way to reach out to those that we are trying to witness to.
Well,I'd probably leave them with a quote from Götz von Berlichingen.laugh

(Goethe)
Copy/Paste to get the proper Site,then check the Caption under the Picture!rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 16, 2009 2:03 PM CST Is this Church Legalism?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Rolltideroll, does this church serve quality coffee and donuts after the service?
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Feb 16, 2009 2:53 PM CST Is this Church Legalism?
sambhava
sambhavasambhavaVasteras, Vastmanland Sweden3 Threads 1 Polls 584 Posts
May I humbly suggest that you go to the church leadership and tell them to stuff their church up their arseholes! (Absolutely no offence intended)
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Feb 16, 2009 3:09 PM CST Is this Church Legalism?
rolltideroll
rolltiderollrolltiderollKillen, Alabama USA27 Threads 17 Polls 172 Posts
They dont serve Coffee and donuts.


Many members from the church have already tried to question the leadership of the church especially our older members and they were told that if they did not like it they could leave.


The leadership is saying they are folowing God's rules.


I have been searching online quite a bit today and every time I search God's law the Ten Commandments come up but nothing comes up about taking away memeber ship because you dont make it to every serverice/gathering.
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Feb 16, 2009 3:12 PM CST Is this Church Legalism?
rolltideroll: They dont serve Coffee and donuts. Many members from the church have already tried to question the leadership of the church especially our older members and they were told that if they did not like it they could leave. The leadership is saying they are folowing God's rules. I have been searching online quite a bit today and every time I search God's law the Ten Commandments come up but nothing comes up about taking away memeber ship because you dont make it to every serverice/gathering.
Well,God might severely shorten their Funds too.rolling on the floor laughing
Wouldn't be the first time that happens!professor grin
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Feb 19, 2009 1:50 AM CST Is this Church Legalism?
LILLYLADY
LILLYLADYLILLYLADYunknown, Ohio USA27 Threads 1,293 Posts
Seems like it would be better to take a poll in the congregation and ask them if they would like a fellowship of church members to come to members homes at a convenient time if they are unable to attend services or even televise the services for people who can't make services.
Church leaders need input from their congregants in today's world if their church is going to survive. Without the congregants, the funds dry up quickly. Leaders need creative ways to keep viable church membership, not find ways to lose membership. They should be looking at other churches to find out what they do that makes their congregational attendance and membership so successful.
God, religion and attendance at prayer services are a personal choice and should never be a forced choice.
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Feb 19, 2009 1:51 AM CST Is this Church Legalism?
jaynimble
jaynimblejaynimblehampton, Virginia USA25 Threads 7 Polls 237 Posts
well its a good way to stop people from going at all
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Feb 19, 2009 1:55 AM CST Is this Church Legalism?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
rolltideroll: Here are some new rules that some local churches have come up with.

The first time you miss a service you recieve a card in the mail.

The second time you miss a service you recieve a phone call.

The thrid time you miss a service you recieve a visit from someone on the church staff.

The fourth time you miss a service their is a report written up and you have to explain your absence to the church leadership.
This is something new that has come up with the smaller churches in my area. So far all it has done is created the start of a split with in the church members are leaving the elderly are complaining that this is not the way to reach out to those that we are trying to witness to.



Only in the USA.

It has to be. CHrist, people are adults, that is bloody blind obedience.

Cult would what I would describe that.
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Feb 19, 2009 1:58 AM CST Is this Church Legalism?
rusty_knight
rusty_knightrusty_knightGozo, Malta175 Threads 2 Polls 6,840 Posts
Sommerauer71: Only in the USA.

It has to be. CHrist, people are adults, that is bloody blind obedience.

Cult would what I would describe that.


Since many churches have replaced wine with coloured water faith has been diluted............ moping
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Feb 19, 2009 2:00 AM CST Is this Church Legalism?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
My church sent me a cease and desist order.............. and I haven't been back since ............roll eyes
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Feb 19, 2009 2:00 AM CST Is this Church Legalism?
rusty_knight
rusty_knightrusty_knightGozo, Malta175 Threads 2 Polls 6,840 Posts
rusty_knight: Since many churches have replaced wine with coloured water faith has been diluted............


Now if Christ had been born in Jamaica would rum have been the communion spirit thingy?
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Feb 19, 2009 2:00 AM CST Is this Church Legalism?
rusty_knight
rusty_knightrusty_knightGozo, Malta175 Threads 2 Polls 6,840 Posts
jvaski: My church sent me a cease and desist order.............. and I haven't been back since ............


So you ceased desisitng?
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Feb 19, 2009 2:01 AM CST Is this Church Legalism?
jaynimble
jaynimblejaynimblehampton, Virginia USA25 Threads 7 Polls 237 Posts
rusty_knight: Since many churches have replaced wine with coloured water faith has been diluted............


Colored water, they might as well use grape juice its closer to being wine, but a few years off
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Feb 19, 2009 2:07 AM CST Is this Church Legalism?
rusty_knight
rusty_knightrusty_knightGozo, Malta175 Threads 2 Polls 6,840 Posts
jaynimble: Colored water, they might as well use grape juice its closer to being wine, but a few years off


In biblical days wine was a good thing............. I am sure God created the grape for the purpose of making alcohol and that some misery guts decided that what God made for us to enjoy was a sin........ now these same people are saying bread is bad for you too! dunno

Heck in the good old bad old days people wanted to go to church for a good slurp of wine - that's why the priest held the wine so nobody got greedy and to ensure there was enough to go round.............. did you know that?
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Feb 19, 2009 2:08 AM CST Is this Church Legalism?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
rusty_knight: Since many churches have replaced wine with coloured water faith has been diluted............


Well, hopefully many people are not making rash judgements not to go to these places.

Religion is not about ordering and demanding, it is, I am led to believe when handled properly, about love, worship and honour.

That is lacking as we know in today;s soceity, but there is some hope, I have some faith in that.

But this is just crazy behaviour.
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