Go figure! (15)
(Coming from my understanding of Tibetan Buddhism)
Whether people understand why I'm saying this or not, human rebirth and in deed, all rebirths sentient beings take,(beings that have mind and fear death) the answer is rebirth nature is suffering; bound up in time its nature is suffering.
Being employed in worldly pursuits will at best bring nothing other than temporary happiness.
Because our true nature is moving energy and death is certain, no martial wealth you accumulate other than, wisdom or beneficial understandings, or positive merit, in the end are worth more than a tinkers cuff.
Wasting your precious human rebirth in all time pursuing worldly pursuits trying accumulate wealth is actually a very silly thing to do with this rare opportunity...most rebirths don't come with the level of or same ability to reason that this short temporary human experience came with.
I am not telling you anything but i am trying to bounce back on you logic and reason why you might think deeply about the subject you raise.
A female rebirth is far more complicated than male rebirth, thinking a partner can bring lasting happiness is a complete delusion, one view i heard marriage is like jumping into a boiling pot...
Whether people understand why I'm saying this or not, human rebirth and in deed, all rebirths sentient beings take,(beings that have mind and fear death) the answer is rebirth nature is suffering; bound up in time its nature is suffering.
Being employed in worldly pursuits will at best bring nothing other than temporary happiness.
Because our true nature is moving energy and death is certain, no martial wealth you accumulate other than, wisdom or beneficial understandings, or positive merit, in the end are worth more than a tinkers cuff.
Wasting your precious human rebirth in all time pursuing worldly pursuits trying accumulate wealth is actually a very silly thing to do with this rare opportunity...most rebirths don't come with the level of or same ability to reason that this short temporary human experience came with.
I am not telling you anything but i am trying to bounce back on you logic and reason why you might think deeply about the subject you raise.
A female rebirth is far more complicated than male rebirth, thinking a partner can bring lasting happiness is a complete delusion, one view i heard marriage is like jumping into a boiling pot...
Lok_Simpson: Last night i had my thinking cap on , and was wondering why things go the way they do.
You see , when im not working , i find myself in good relationships with great people , im not a leech , have always paid my own way ( unless im bought stuff like a gift or whatever ) and things work out well.
But when im working , im either eternally single , or meet the wrong sort of people who seem to always be in some sort of situation and i have to bail them out.
I need to try break this cycle , ive been working solidly for 4 years now , own my house and have zero debt ( apart from house ) , even have a quid or 2 in the bank. So what gives? is the universe against me being solidly employed AND having a great partner , or is it telling me i cannot have the best of both worlds?
You see , when im not working , i find myself in good relationships with great people , im not a leech , have always paid my own way ( unless im bought stuff like a gift or whatever ) and things work out well.
But when im working , im either eternally single , or meet the wrong sort of people who seem to always be in some sort of situation and i have to bail them out.
I need to try break this cycle , ive been working solidly for 4 years now , own my house and have zero debt ( apart from house ) , even have a quid or 2 in the bank. So what gives? is the universe against me being solidly employed AND having a great partner , or is it telling me i cannot have the best of both worlds?
Might be your independance holding you back, it is that with me I do wonder myself sometimes and come back to the realization I am way too indepenant and believe really men don't like that and on a womans point of view well mine anyway I have noticed men that are too independant I steer clear of, not meaning it's a bad thing at all just too much indepenance I feel can kill chances of a real relationship JMO
Confusing at times 
Go Gigure 
Lok_Simpson: Last night i had my thinking cap on , and was wondering why things go the way they do.
You see , when im not working , i find myself in good relationships with great people , im not a leech , have always paid my own way ( unless im bought stuff like a gift or whatever ) and things work out well.
But when im working , im either eternally single , or meet the wrong sort of people who seem to always be in some sort of situation and i have to bail them out.
I need to try break this cycle , ive been working solidly for 4 years now , own my house and have zero debt ( apart from house ) , even have a quid or 2 in the bank. So what gives? is the universe against me being solidly employed AND having a great partner , or is it telling me i cannot have the best of both worlds?
You see , when im not working , i find myself in good relationships with great people , im not a leech , have always paid my own way ( unless im bought stuff like a gift or whatever ) and things work out well.
But when im working , im either eternally single , or meet the wrong sort of people who seem to always be in some sort of situation and i have to bail them out.
I need to try break this cycle , ive been working solidly for 4 years now , own my house and have zero debt ( apart from house ) , even have a quid or 2 in the bank. So what gives? is the universe against me being solidly employed AND having a great partner , or is it telling me i cannot have the best of both worlds?
From memory arnet you the one who wing’s about 5 bucks when your daughter asks for it? And now you are telling us you are in a great financial position.
When you leave this planet you cannot take money nor love with you. So share a little of both with the ones that truly matter and you just might receive what you are looking for.
AgentAjax: From memory arnet you the one who wing’s about 5 bucks when your daughter asks for it? And now you are telling us you are in a great financial position.
When you leave this planet you cannot take money nor love with you. So share a little of both with the ones that truly matter and you just might receive what you are looking for.
When you leave this planet you cannot take money nor love with you. So share a little of both with the ones that truly matter and you just might receive what you are looking for.
My daughter expects handouts , she wasnt willing to clean her room or do dishes , or any form of housework/chores/jobs , So me not just opening my wallet to her was a show of resilience towards her expecting a handout everytime she asked. If i give her what she wants all the time , then she will expect it all the time. I see it lots in friends of mine. If i wanted something when i was growing up , i had to work for it , mow the lawn , that was $2 , wash the car , $2 ,this bought me fuel for my motorbike to go riding on weekends. My parents never just "handed" me money , i had to do something for it. And before you jump the gun on saying i winged about giving her a measly $5 , her school organised a ski trip , $2000 was the cost , i told her as long as her grades are a C average , she can go , but alas , socializing and smoking was more important than a reward for being in school.
I am also aware i cannot take my wealth with me , but i would like to leave something for my daughter (when she is old enough to appreciate it , and not waste it on smokes and grog and become an ipswich bogan kid ) just as my parent will do for me. I dont count on getting anything , it really doesnt bother me as i have paved my own way in this world.
If she needed money for something constructive , or did a job like washing the car , then she received some money , but i wouldnt hand her cash to waste , you might be a parent that does that to your kids , but im not one of those parents. I work for what i have and ask for no handouts!
Lok_Simpson: My daughter expects handouts , she wasnt willing to clean her room or do dishes , or any form of housework/chores/jobs , So me not just opening my wallet to her was a show of resilience towards her expecting a handout everytime she asked. If i give her what she wants all the time , then she will expect it all the time. I see it lots in friends of mine. If i wanted something when i was growing up , i had to work for it , mow the lawn , that was $2 , wash the car , $2 ,this bought me fuel for my motorbike to go riding on weekends. My parents never just "handed" me money , i had to do something for it. And before you jump the gun on saying i winged about giving her a measly $5 , her school organised a ski trip , $2000 was the cost , i told her as long as her grades are a C average , she can go , but alas , socializing and smoking was more important than a reward for being in school.
I am also aware i cannot take my wealth with me , but i would like to leave something for my daughter (when she is old enough to appreciate it , and not waste it on smokes and grog and become an ipswich bogan kid ) just as my parent will do for me. I dont count on getting anything , it really doesnt bother me as i have paved my own way in this world.
If she needed money for something constructive , or did a job like washing the car , then she received some money , but i wouldnt hand her cash to waste , you might be a parent that does that to your kids , but im not one of those parents. I work for what i have and ask for no handouts!
I am also aware i cannot take my wealth with me , but i would like to leave something for my daughter (when she is old enough to appreciate it , and not waste it on smokes and grog and become an ipswich bogan kid ) just as my parent will do for me. I dont count on getting anything , it really doesnt bother me as i have paved my own way in this world.
If she needed money for something constructive , or did a job like washing the car , then she received some money , but i wouldnt hand her cash to waste , you might be a parent that does that to your kids , but im not one of those parents. I work for what i have and ask for no handouts!
I was just stirring things up mate.
That’s what I like about you Lok, a real genuine person and what one might call a great father figure. Who lives and teaches by example a very rewarding lesson, that it takes effort to get ahead in life.
You are also right I am one of those people who rewards no effort, but what can I do since Im not the primary parent in his life.
Got no idea Lok, don't see why being in a comfortable position financially and having a good partner in your life can't go hand in hand 
Maybe you are giving off vibes that you have worked hard for what you have got and you are not up for sharing it?? Just a thought?
Maybe you are giving off vibes that you have worked hard for what you have got and you are not up for sharing it?? Just a thought?
Money is basically just energy, nothing more, and in that sense it ebbs and flows as energy does.
You may find that when the energy is at its peak, you are also energised and have the power (resources) to assist those who need help.
And if one follows that rhythm, they will most likely find that when they need help, the energy prevails and is there for them when they need it
As far as your thoughts re being financially comfortable, but single, it's been said that we spend so much time as single people keeping the wolves from the door, plus the myriad other things that most of us have to do for ourselves, that we have little time to spend in seeking that special someone.
So yeah, apparently it's about havin' the money hunny, alone, or being loved up and poor as
PS. I think a mortgage is a rather large DEBT!!
You may find that when the energy is at its peak, you are also energised and have the power (resources) to assist those who need help.
And if one follows that rhythm, they will most likely find that when they need help, the energy prevails and is there for them when they need it
As far as your thoughts re being financially comfortable, but single, it's been said that we spend so much time as single people keeping the wolves from the door, plus the myriad other things that most of us have to do for ourselves, that we have little time to spend in seeking that special someone.
So yeah, apparently it's about havin' the money hunny, alone, or being loved up and poor as
PS. I think a mortgage is a rather large DEBT!!
Lok_Simpson: My daughter expects handouts , she wasnt willing to clean her room or do dishes , or any form of housework/chores/jobs , So me not just opening my wallet to her was a show of resilience towards her expecting a handout everytime she asked. If i give her what she wants all the time , then she will expect it all the time. I see it lots in friends of mine. If i wanted something when i was growing up , i had to work for it , mow the lawn , that was $2 , wash the car , $2 ,this bought me fuel for my motorbike to go riding on weekends. My parents never just "handed" me money , i had to do something for it. And before you jump the gun on saying i winged about giving her a measly $5 , her school organised a ski trip , $2000 was the cost , i told her as long as her grades are a C average , she can go , but alas , socializing and smoking was more important than a reward for being in school.
I am also aware i cannot take my wealth with me , but i would like to leave something for my daughter (when she is old enough to appreciate it , and not waste it on smokes and grog and become an ipswich bogan kid ) just as my parent will do for me. I dont count on getting anything , it really doesnt bother me as i have paved my own way in this world.
If she needed money for something constructive , or did a job like washing the car , then she received some money , but i wouldnt hand her cash to waste , you might be a parent that does that to your kids , but im not one of those parents. I work for what i have and ask for no handouts!
I am also aware i cannot take my wealth with me , but i would like to leave something for my daughter (when she is old enough to appreciate it , and not waste it on smokes and grog and become an ipswich bogan kid ) just as my parent will do for me. I dont count on getting anything , it really doesnt bother me as i have paved my own way in this world.
If she needed money for something constructive , or did a job like washing the car , then she received some money , but i wouldnt hand her cash to waste , you might be a parent that does that to your kids , but im not one of those parents. I work for what i have and ask for no handouts!
Lok forget what "others" do to their kids your doing it right you know she will be a better person for it ,I do the same Ive a son in uni and he has to work ,I will not hand over money to him he comes home to help me mows the lawn , washes the car cleans the gutters things ide pay someone to dohe is a better young man for it he lves his mum,My daughter is 14 now she hates me on days but appriciates what she does get ...cheers
kizzy27: Lok forget what "others" do to their kids your doing it right you know she will be a better person for it ,I do the same Ive a son in uni and he has to work ,I will not hand over money to him he comes home to help me mows the lawn , washes the car cleans the gutters things ide pay someone to dohe is a better young man for it he lves his mum,My daughter is 14 now she hates me on days but appriciates what she does get ...cheers
Lok_Simpson: Last night i had my thinking cap on , and was wondering why things go the way they do.
You see , when im not working , i find myself in good relationships with great people , im not a leech , have always paid my own way ( unless im bought stuff like a gift or whatever ) and things work out well.
But when im working , im either eternally single , or meet the wrong sort of people who seem to always be in some sort of situation and i have to bail them out.
I need to try break this cycle , ive been working solidly for 4 years now , own my house and have zero debt ( apart from house ) , even have a quid or 2 in the bank. So what gives? is the universe against me being solidly employed AND having a great partner , or is it telling me i cannot have the best of both worlds?
You see , when im not working , i find myself in good relationships with great people , im not a leech , have always paid my own way ( unless im bought stuff like a gift or whatever ) and things work out well.
But when im working , im either eternally single , or meet the wrong sort of people who seem to always be in some sort of situation and i have to bail them out.
I need to try break this cycle , ive been working solidly for 4 years now , own my house and have zero debt ( apart from house ) , even have a quid or 2 in the bank. So what gives? is the universe against me being solidly employed AND having a great partner , or is it telling me i cannot have the best of both worlds?
Hi Lok...
Its not the universe that is against you... Its yourself.
If you picture what you want, it usually comes.. Sounds like you are frightened of asking for what you really want. Is your own mind saying to you... Don't ask for more'n one thing at a time...??
So next time you shove your thinking cap on... start dreaming and picturing what you really really want... and then wait for it to come..
It usually does...
and dont limit yourself to only one thing... in your dreams, imagine more and more...
Only your own thoughts can limit... but if I were you... I'd not only dream, but expect lots to come...
Set yourself a standard that you want, and dont accept less, and be sure to project that clearly... succintly..... forcefully.... meaningfully....
Whooo hoooo go for it Lok.
Of course you can have a good partner and work also, especially if you ASK the universe for it :)
We all create our own life with our thoughts and beliefs, free your mind and your heart will follow.
We all create our own life with our thoughts and beliefs, free your mind and your heart will follow.
Bluefish22: Of course you can have a good partner and work also, especially if you ASK the universe for it :)
We all create our own life with our thoughts and beliefs, free your mind and your heart will follow.
We all create our own life with our thoughts and beliefs, free your mind and your heart will follow.
We can create our own lives and do what we want I'd like my cake and eat it too , just gotta find someone that will do as he is told
Yep still waiting Not asking much really someone like this would be surfice >>>
>> Princess Curly 
Maybee your daughter needs you now and thats why your not meeting anyone ...sometimes life works like that.
Lok_Simpson: Last night i had my thinking cap on , and was wondering why things go the way they do.
You see , when im not working , i find myself in good relationships with great people , im not a leech , have always paid my own way ( unless im bought stuff like a gift or whatever ) and things work out well.
But when im working , im either eternally single , or meet the wrong sort of people who seem to always be in some sort of situation and i have to bail them out.
I need to try break this cycle , ive been working solidly for 4 years now , own my house and have zero debt ( apart from house ) , even have a quid or 2 in the bank. So what gives? is the universe against me being solidly employed AND having a great partner , or is it telling me i cannot have the best of both worlds?
They say everything happens for a reason and always happens at the times we need it to happen. Times are sent to test us but at least we know we are alive. Don't give up Lok. You are a great guy and good things come to those that wait. It will happen when the time is right. You see , when im not working , i find myself in good relationships with great people , im not a leech , have always paid my own way ( unless im bought stuff like a gift or whatever ) and things work out well.
But when im working , im either eternally single , or meet the wrong sort of people who seem to always be in some sort of situation and i have to bail them out.
I need to try break this cycle , ive been working solidly for 4 years now , own my house and have zero debt ( apart from house ) , even have a quid or 2 in the bank. So what gives? is the universe against me being solidly employed AND having a great partner , or is it telling me i cannot have the best of both worlds?
More Threads
Who will be The Last Person To Post... VERSION FOUR
The weird and the random facts around the world
Gal / sdarlagg passed away on April 10, 2024
Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
The Real Stormy Story
Have it both ways!
Ladies
Kultur-multur
What happened to CS while i was away.. (Long time)
The GOP Representatives owned by Vladimir Putin
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
Stats for this Thread
1,096 Views
14 Comments
Created: Jul 2012
Last Viewed: just now
Last Commented: Jul 2012
0 Likes
Related Forums
- Who will be The Last Person To Post... VERSION FOUR
- The weird and the random facts around the world
- Gal / sdarlagg passed away on April 10, 2024
- Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
- The Real Stormy Story
- Have it both ways!
- Ladies
- Kultur-multur
- What happened to CS while i was away.. (Long time)
- The GOP Representatives owned by Vladimir Putin
You see , when im not working , i find myself in good relationships with great people , im not a leech , have always paid my own way ( unless im bought stuff like a gift or whatever ) and things work out well.
But when im working , im either eternally single , or meet the wrong sort of people who seem to always be in some sort of situation and i have to bail them out.
I need to try break this cycle , ive been working solidly for 4 years now , own my house and have zero debt ( apart from house ) , even have a quid or 2 in the bank. So what gives? is the universe against me being solidly employed AND having a great partner , or is it telling me i cannot have the best of both worlds?