If you are single would you date a married person ( Archived) (28)

Jul 30, 2012 6:37 AM CSTIf you are single would you date a married person
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim, Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts

If you are single would you date a married person(Vote Below)

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Yes
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No
94
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Total Votes
126
Well would you..conversing
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Jul 30, 2012 6:50 AM CST If you are single would you date a married person
anniebaby
anniebabyanniebabydonegal, Donegal Ireland181 Threads 3 Polls 5,281 Posts
Phoenix: If I'm single, my attitude is simple. Single, married or waiting for a divorce cuts no ice with me. If shes a woman thats good enough for me.


Really?
I wouldn't touch someone who was married in every sense of the word........been cheated on and no way in the world would I put some other woman in that situation blues
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Jul 30, 2012 7:54 AM CST If you are single would you date a married person
gleneagle
gleneaglegleneagleNew York City, New York USA36 Threads 3 Polls 1,147 Posts
I'm single and I've had relationships with woman of differing status. I avoid women who are still emotionally involved with their partners/ husbands. I avoid attention seekers and drama queens. Though I would prefer women to be single, I have found those ones in their late thirties early forties without children to suffer more from neurotic behaviour = torture
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Jul 30, 2012 8:35 AM CST If you are single would you date a married person
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
I am looking for an openhearted and loving relationship so a married man would be out for me. I wouldn't be able to be bear being his dirty little secret and I have known too many women hurt by cheating to want to go there. To me it would be a lose/lose situation...a no brainer. Maybe it would be different for people not looking for commitment of any kind dunno
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Jul 30, 2012 8:42 AM CST If you are single would you date a married person
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
I wouldn't go near someone in a relationship, married or not. If someone isn't happy in their relationship, end it and move on. I don't believe in this crap, oh I don't get enough love, he/she doesn't understand me...
Then there's the point of what you wouldn't want to have done to yourself, don't do to somebody else.
So even if I would be interested in NSA, which I'm not btw, I wouldn't do it with anyone attached.
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Jul 30, 2012 8:43 AM CST If you are single would you date a married person
sharmini
sharminisharminidublin, Dublin Ireland83 Threads 1 Polls 2,918 Posts
LadyBlackAdder: I am looking for an openhearted and loving relationship so a married man would be out for me. I wouldn't be able to be bear being his dirty little secret and I have known too many women hurt by cheating to want to go there. To me it would be a lose/lose situation...a no brainer. Maybe it would be different for people not looking for commitment of any kind



Years ago, I met a guy who said he was a young widower.....yeh You guessed it! His wife was very much alive and pregnant! I found out by accident...tho looking back now the signs were there....moping
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Jul 30, 2012 8:47 AM CST If you are single would you date a married person
Phoenix: Well would you..

Short answer, No. It would prevent me marrying her down the line... And there's no point in me wasting time on her at this stage.
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Jul 30, 2012 8:47 AM CST If you are single would you date a married person
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
sharmini: Years ago, I met a guy who said he was a young widower.....yeh You guessed it! His wife was very much alive and pregnant! I found out by accident...tho looking back now the signs were there....


We have little or no protection against liars, Shar. We would drive ourselves mad if we tried to find proof for everything we are told and there has to be a certain amount of trust. However, we are vulnerable to those who are happy to bend the truth for their own purposes hug
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Jul 30, 2012 9:40 AM CST If you are single would you date a married person
I take it your joking,who wants the husband beating the door down ffs! No of us Are that desperate
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Jul 31, 2012 6:20 PM CST If you are single would you date a married person
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Phoenix: Well would you..


I am sure the op sees going on a date as having #@*, but going out for coffee is also a date. I have been on this site long enough to see threads like the following:

1. What is a "date"?
2. Can a man and a woman (or for that matter a man and a man, a woman and a woman, etc. laugh) be friends? In other words can a man and a woman be friends without #@* if they are married?
3. Woe be unto married couples. Be afraid. Be very afraid: Once you get hitched you can no longer have anything to do with anyone else but your spouse!confused
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Jul 31, 2012 6:35 PM CST If you are single would you date a married person
Born_in_69
Born_in_69Born_in_69Waterford, Ireland7 Posts
gleneagle: I'm single and I've had relationships with woman of differing status. I avoid women who are still emotionally involved with their partners/ husbands. I avoid attention seekers and drama queens. Though I would prefer women to be single, I have found those ones in their late thirties early forties without children to suffer more from neurotic behaviour = torture
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Jul 31, 2012 6:37 PM CST If you are single would you date a married person
Born_in_69
Born_in_69Born_in_69Waterford, Ireland7 Posts
Thanks were not all like that laugh
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Aug 1, 2012 10:56 AM CST If you are single would you date a married person
TooSmart
TooSmartTooSmartDenver, Colorado USA3 Threads 3 Polls 15 Posts
I wouldn't want to come in second place or be a home-wrecker. Why waste your time when there are plenty of fish in the sea?

dunno
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Aug 1, 2012 11:06 AM CST If you are single would you date a married person
baldydude
baldydudebaldydudefermoy, Cork Ireland164 Threads 4,643 Posts
TooSmart: I wouldn't want to come in second place or be a home-wrecker. Why waste your time when there are plenty of fish in the sea?
i have unknowingly dated a married woman for a few weeks, needless to say when i found out she was not as single as she claimed to be, it was bye bye doh
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Aug 1, 2012 12:00 PM CST If you are single would you date a married person
whitepaws
whitepawswhitepawsDock of the bay, Galway Ireland24 Threads 4 Polls 459 Posts
one night stand yes

date No
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Aug 1, 2012 12:53 PM CST If you are single would you date a married person
MermaidDreams
MermaidDreamsMermaidDreamsOffaly, Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 800 Posts
Phoenix: Well would you..


Absolutely no way.
A man who is in a relationship is off limits as far as I'm concerned.
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Aug 1, 2012 1:23 PM CST If you are single would you date a married person
dee048
dee048dee048Cork, Ireland45 Posts
KNenagh: I wouldn't go near someone in a relationship, married or not. If someone isn't happy in their relationship, end it and move on. I don't believe in this crap, oh I don't get enough love, he/she doesn't understand me...
Then there's the point of what you wouldn't want to have done to yourself, don't do to somebody else.
So even if I would be interested in NSA, which I'm not btw, I wouldn't do it with anyone attached.


I second that KNenagh!
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Aug 1, 2012 1:36 PM CST If you are single would you date a married person
Taureanmale
TaureanmaleTaureanmaleRoscommon, Ireland86 Threads 5 Polls 1,672 Posts
Now thats a line I would not cross, even single, and if I was with someone the question would nt even arise
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Aug 1, 2012 1:43 PM CST If you are single would you date a married person
Legs14
Legs14Legs14Kildare, Ireland15 Posts
KNenagh: I wouldn't go near someone in a relationship, married or not. If someone isn't happy in their relationship, end it and move on. I don't believe in this crap, oh I don't get enough love, he/she doesn't understand me...
Then there's the point of what you wouldn't want to have done to yourself, don't do to somebody else.
So even if I would be interested in NSA, which I'm not btw, I wouldn't do it with anyone attached.



thumbs up
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Aug 1, 2012 4:10 PM CST If you are single would you date a married person
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
Phoenix: I link up twice a week with a married woman and I believe her. Some people stay for lots of reasons (I personally think it's stupid to stay in a loveless relationship) kids, joint mortgage etc..keeping up apperances..

Would you drop her if you met someone else who is not in a relationship, or would you continue with your twice weekly hook up with the married woman, and hope the new woman in your life would not find out?
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Aug 1, 2012 7:30 PM CST If you are single would you date a married person
facetowardsfront
facetowardsfrontfacetowardsfrontCork, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 2,921 Posts
70Libra: Would you drop her if you met someone else who is not in a relationship, or would you continue with your twice weekly hook up with the married woman, and hope the new woman in your life would not find out?


I'd cut her down to once a week and buy her a knitting kit.
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Aug 1, 2012 8:08 PM CST If you are single would you date a married person
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
Phoenix: Well would you..


No. I'm too selfish. I want to be my man's one and only, not the other woman.
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Aug 2, 2012 5:54 AM CST If you are single would you date a married person
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
70Libra: Would you drop her if you met someone else who is not in a relationship, or would you continue with your twice weekly hook up with the married woman, and hope the new woman in your life would not find out?


Short answer is yes, I'd stop my twice weekly hook up.
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Aug 2, 2012 3:18 PM CST If you are single would you date a married person
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
Phoenix: Well would you..


When the ink is dry on the divorce papers
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Aug 2, 2012 3:32 PM CST If you are single would you date a married person
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
Jillll: When the ink is dry on the divorce papers

Easy for someone not living here do to say that. Divorce does not come quickly here. I'm separated nearly 8+half years and the paper hasn't even been inserted into the printer yet!laugh
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Aug 2, 2012 3:41 PM CST If you are single would you date a married person
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
Jillll: When the ink is dry on the divorce papers


I don't worry about things like that (thats not my problem)..I'm single and all women are fair game.
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Aug 2, 2012 3:42 PM CST If you are single would you date a married person
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
70Libra: Easy for someone not living here do to say that. Divorce does not come quickly here. I'm separated nearly 8+half years and the paper hasn't even been inserted into the printer yet!


Give a judge a brown envelope stuffed full of euros and your divorce will sorted before you know it.
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Aug 2, 2012 3:42 PM CST If you are single would you date a married person
salanky
salankysalankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Posts
MermaidDreams: Absolutely no way.
A man who is in a relationship is off limits as far as I'm concerned.
same here, if someone is looking for something outside of their current relationship then they need to get out of it first
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Aug 2, 2012 4:17 PM CST If you are single would you date a married person
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
MermaidDreams: “Absolutely no way.
A man who is in a relationship is off limits as far as I'm concerned.”


salanky: same here, if someone is looking for something outside of their current relationship then they need to get out of it first


Fair enough comment ladies. Guess I have different morals.
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