Phoenix: If I'm single, my attitude is simple. Single, married or waiting for a divorce cuts no ice with me. If shes a woman thats good enough for me.
Really? I wouldn't touch someone who was married in every sense of the word........been cheated on and no way in the world would I put some other woman in that situation
I'm single and I've had relationships with woman of differing status. I avoid women who are still emotionally involved with their partners/ husbands. I avoid attention seekers and drama queens. Though I would prefer women to be single, I have found those ones in their late thirties early forties without children to suffer more from neurotic behaviour = torture
I am looking for an openhearted and loving relationship so a married man would be out for me. I wouldn't be able to be bear being his dirty little secret and I have known too many women hurt by cheating to want to go there. To me it would be a lose/lose situation...a no brainer. Maybe it would be different for people not looking for commitment of any kind
I wouldn't go near someone in a relationship, married or not. If someone isn't happy in their relationship, end it and move on. I don't believe in this crap, oh I don't get enough love, he/she doesn't understand me... Then there's the point of what you wouldn't want to have done to yourself, don't do to somebody else. So even if I would be interested in NSA, which I'm not btw, I wouldn't do it with anyone attached.
LadyBlackAdder: I am looking for an openhearted and loving relationship so a married man would be out for me. I wouldn't be able to be bear being his dirty little secret and I have known too many women hurt by cheating to want to go there. To me it would be a lose/lose situation...a no brainer. Maybe it would be different for people not looking for commitment of any kind
Years ago, I met a guy who said he was a young widower.....yeh You guessed it! His wife was very much alive and pregnant! I found out by accident...tho looking back now the signs were there....
sharmini: Years ago, I met a guy who said he was a young widower.....yeh You guessed it! His wife was very much alive and pregnant! I found out by accident...tho looking back now the signs were there....
We have little or no protection against liars, Shar. We would drive ourselves mad if we tried to find proof for everything we are told and there has to be a certain amount of trust. However, we are vulnerable to those who are happy to bend the truth for their own purposes
I am sure the op sees going on a date as having #@*, but going out for coffee is also a date. I have been on this site long enough to see threads like the following:
1. What is a "date"? 2. Can a man and a woman (or for that matter a man and a man, a woman and a woman, etc. ) be friends? In other words can a man and a woman be friends without #@* if they are married? 3. Woe be unto married couples. Be afraid. Be very afraid: Once you get hitched you can no longer have anything to do with anyone else but your spouse!
gleneagle: I'm single and I've had relationships with woman of differing status. I avoid women who are still emotionally involved with their partners/ husbands. I avoid attention seekers and drama queens. Though I would prefer women to be single, I have found those ones in their late thirties early forties without children to suffer more from neurotic behaviour = torture
KNenagh: I wouldn't go near someone in a relationship, married or not. If someone isn't happy in their relationship, end it and move on. I don't believe in this crap, oh I don't get enough love, he/she doesn't understand me... Then there's the point of what you wouldn't want to have done to yourself, don't do to somebody else. So even if I would be interested in NSA, which I'm not btw, I wouldn't do it with anyone attached.
KNenagh: I wouldn't go near someone in a relationship, married or not. If someone isn't happy in their relationship, end it and move on. I don't believe in this crap, oh I don't get enough love, he/she doesn't understand me... Then there's the point of what you wouldn't want to have done to yourself, don't do to somebody else. So even if I would be interested in NSA, which I'm not btw, I wouldn't do it with anyone attached.
Phoenix: I link up twice a week with a married woman and I believe her. Some people stay for lots of reasons (I personally think it's stupid to stay in a loveless relationship) kids, joint mortgage etc..keeping up apperances..
Would you drop her if you met someone else who is not in a relationship, or would you continue with your twice weekly hook up with the married woman, and hope the new woman in your life would not find out?
70Libra: Would you drop her if you met someone else who is not in a relationship, or would you continue with your twice weekly hook up with the married woman, and hope the new woman in your life would not find out?
I'd cut her down to once a week and buy her a knitting kit.
70Libra: Would you drop her if you met someone else who is not in a relationship, or would you continue with your twice weekly hook up with the married woman, and hope the new woman in your life would not find out?
Short answer is yes, I'd stop my twice weekly hook up.
Easy for someone not living here do to say that. Divorce does not come quickly here. I'm separated nearly 8+half years and the paper hasn't even been inserted into the printer yet!
70Libra: Easy for someone not living here do to say that. Divorce does not come quickly here. I'm separated nearly 8+half years and the paper hasn't even been inserted into the printer yet!
Give a judge a brown envelope stuffed full of euros and your divorce will sorted before you know it.
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