why are men so afraid to commit ? (90)
emz19: Men lol.
Maybe like some of us women maybe they've been stomped on too many times.
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emz19: Men lol.
Fear 
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It all depends on who or what they are trying to commit to
Many men tried to commit and lost their mind
Still trying to regain sanity but cannot find
Some who seem to be committing are technically blind
While others are mature, responsible, loving and kind
Not every woman can interpret the many warnings and the signs
As they are being subdued by greeting cards, flowers and romantic lines!
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Many men tried to commit and lost their mind
Still trying to regain sanity but cannot find
Some who seem to be committing are technically blind
While others are mature, responsible, loving and kind
Not every woman can interpret the many warnings and the signs
As they are being subdued by greeting cards, flowers and romantic lines!
Potarick
to...http://galleries.ferronetwork.com/fhg/backdoorlesbians/video/593_1/s_fhg_backdoorlesbians_g593_clip.flv
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emz19: Men lol.
Most men are afraid to commit because our governments here in the U.S.A. tax-penalize marriage and our illustrious president/santa obama hasn't yet ordered the federal and state governments to pay for the weddings and honeymoons yet, or guaranteed food stamps for the new wage earning or retired now couples. Eh, what do I know.....
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Perhaps those who are afraid to commit are the ones who know that making a committment is isn't a joke. They take committing seriously so they hold off so that they don't hurt someone. That's how I look at it.
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Some men are afraid to commit because someone better might come along. 
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Why settle for someone that you don't find as a soulmate? No one's perfect but I can't blame anyone for wanting to search the world over for someone who they can connect with on all levels instead of only one or two.
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2intrigued: Some men are afraid to commit because someone better might come along.
Really!
I think we, men around my age, are just afraid of a potential fiscal cliff ahead. Not me though. I'm looking for a woman who, among other things, is smart, beautiful, athletic, and very very generous. 
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I don't think it's us who are affraid to commit. Men are by nature the aggressors. We can tell if things aren't right. Do u really want to commit to this guy is the question. That mean leaving the 5 other guys behind. No more back up dates. No more "well I'm not into him, I know he likes me but he buys me things." He's gone. No more guy friends period... Nothing that would make him jealous. He is the only person you will ever need. Then show him that continually. Stop comparing him to reality tv shows. Look within yourself for validation, not him. Try standing in a mirror for 15 seconds without turning away. It's all on u sweetie. It always has been.
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galrads: Really! I think we, men around my age, are just afraid of a potential fiscal cliff ahead. Not me though. I'm looking for a woman who, among other things, is smart, beautiful, athletic, and very very generous.
Oh darn, good luck with that.
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emz19: Men lol.
And women as well, when you been stood on too may times your very cautious, which to me is the sensible way to be.
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quote=2intrigued]Oh darn, good luck with that.
Well! I guess your just not the very very generous type then! 
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galrads: quote=2intrigued]Oh darn, good luck with that.
Well! I guess your just not the very very generous type then!
Well! I guess your just not the very very generous type then!
Sorry dollface, I pulled out my pockets and all I found was lint.
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2intrigued: Sorry dollface, I pulled out my pockets and all I found was lint.
K.....
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2intrigued: Sorry dollface, I pulled out my pockets and all I found was lint.
I reach in my pocket when I'm feeling mighty cockey 
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galrads: K.....
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DaytonaDude: I reach in my pocket when I'm feeling mighty cockey
What's in your pocket...is it a rocket launcher.
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So just for the hell of it, I Googled "Why are men afraid to commit?"
I seriously do not have the YEARS required to read everything I found! And to be honest, it is all over the map! So many different reasons, hypothesis, guesses, rants, psychoanalitical postulations, Oprahisms, Dr. Philisms, he said/she said's,...and the list goes on.
I could try and get all philosophical and/or witty here, but I won't. I will simply say this,...not all men are afraid of committment. I know that I am not.
Granted, I really did want to escape the last time I was comitted, but I eventually realized that if I just "behaved" the hospital staff would eventually remove the straight jacket and once again let me walk the streets!
I seriously do not have the YEARS required to read everything I found! And to be honest, it is all over the map! So many different reasons, hypothesis, guesses, rants, psychoanalitical postulations, Oprahisms, Dr. Philisms, he said/she said's,...and the list goes on.I could try and get all philosophical and/or witty here, but I won't. I will simply say this,...not all men are afraid of committment. I know that I am not.
Granted, I really did want to escape the last time I was comitted, but I eventually realized that if I just "behaved" the hospital staff would eventually remove the straight jacket and once again let me walk the streets!
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Men commit to mortgages, to vehicles, their jobs, favorite sports teams....so perhaps the question is what they're committing to.
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cause they want mr right, not mr right now
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cherriebabe: cause they want mr right, not mr right now
Te question is ... Why are men so afraid to commit....
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Well said.
montemonte: Perhaps those who are afraid to commit are the ones who know that making a committment is isn't a joke. They take committing seriously so they hold off so that they don't hurt someone. That's how I look at it.
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depends on how much baggage you are carrying, no man wants to be simply a porter
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montemonte: Perhaps those who are afraid to commit are the ones who know that making a committment is isn't a joke. They take committing seriously so they hold off so that they don't hurt someone. That's how I look at it.
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I simply can't figure out why men won't commit to me.
I look after their needs so well...by calling and texting them dozens of times a day just to say "How are you going?". I look after their health by cooking them nothing but tofu and lima beans. I make them watch "Feel Good" chick flicks and gardening shows so they don't have stress in their lives from silly 'ol sports shows. I'm all about conservation and therefore shower only once a month, which saves so much money...
I'm quite a Catch and I simply don't know why all of my dates go running and screaming in the other direction.
I look after their needs so well...by calling and texting them dozens of times a day just to say "How are you going?". I look after their health by cooking them nothing but tofu and lima beans. I make them watch "Feel Good" chick flicks and gardening shows so they don't have stress in their lives from silly 'ol sports shows. I'm all about conservation and therefore shower only once a month, which saves so much money...
I'm quite a Catch and I simply don't know why all of my dates go running and screaming in the other direction.
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Apathy
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