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Aug 19, 2008 4:46 PM CSTWhen women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
kshorsetrainer
kshorsetrainerkshorsetrainerkansas city, Kansas, USA1 Threads 1 Polls 1 Posts

When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?(Vote Below)

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Money
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Personality
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When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
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Aug 19, 2008 4:46 PM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
kshorsetrainer
kshorsetrainerkshorsetrainerkansas city, Kansas USA1 Threads 1 Polls 1 Posts
When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
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Aug 19, 2008 4:49 PM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
kshorsetrainer: When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?


They sing, "You got the money Honey, I got the time"......dancing




uh oh





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Aug 19, 2008 4:50 PM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
Manolito
ManolitoManolitoa strfilled galaxy far faraway, Greater London, England UK19 Threads 1 Polls 1,611 Posts
dont really know,

but i heard here once that...


































size matters professor

rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 20, 2008 3:14 AM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
honestfred
honestfredhonestfredSwindon, Wiltshire, England UK1 Threads 1 Polls 93 Posts
a man with a fat wallet
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Aug 20, 2008 3:27 AM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
HondoLaneNJ
HondoLaneNJHondoLaneNJtoms river, New Jersey USA4 Threads 694 Posts
Manolito: dont really know,

but i heard here once that...

size matters


lol...size of what? Bank account? Privates? House? Car?

Help me out here!
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Aug 20, 2008 4:21 AM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
HJFinAZ: They sing, "You got the money Honey, I got the time"......



laugh rolling on the floor laughing wave
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Aug 20, 2008 4:23 AM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
kshorsetrainer: When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?


That it's someone with whom I can feel completely at ease/ talk for hours, and a man I absolutely adore.

Oh, and that the above qualities are preferably in the one personlaugh
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Aug 20, 2008 6:51 AM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
kshorsetrainer: When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?



That you don't ask me to marry you cause I'll say no!!!!!!!!!!!


professor roll eyes uh oh dunno laugh
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Aug 20, 2008 7:09 AM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
Just guessing mind you ,but I would think

the tensile strength of the net they are usingrolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 20, 2008 7:25 AM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
That we connect and are capable of having...

A relationship without drama, based on trust, respect and love. A relationship where your partner is your best friend, your lover.

A relationship where you work together supporting each other´s strengths and weakness´s in order to create a life together, to help each other achieve their goals.

A relationship that jealousy, ego and mistrust aren´t a part of.

A relationship in which you celebrate each other´s achievements and accomplishments without being threatened.

A relationship which is truly balanced with each person equally committed to making their partner happy.


(I posted this on another thread... it pretty much sums up what I´m looking for in a long term relationship)
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Aug 20, 2008 8:54 AM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
jbibiza: That we connect and are capable of having...

A relationship without drama, based on trust, respect and love. A relationship where your partner is your best friend, your lover.

A relationship where you work together supporting each other´s strengths and weakness´s in order to create a life together, to help each other achieve their goals.

A relationship that jealousy, ego and mistrust aren´t a part of.

A relationship in which you celebrate each other´s achievements and accomplishments without being threatened.

A relationship which is truly balanced with each person equally committed to making their partner happy.(I posted this on another thread... it pretty much sums up what I´m looking for in a long term relationship)


Fantastic answer! It seems to sum it up!!happy place
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Aug 20, 2008 8:57 AM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
kshorsetrainer: When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?


Love, friendship, compatibility, common goals and outlooks... the kind of stuff that helps a relationship last... IMO
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Aug 20, 2008 8:59 AM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland29 Threads 12 Polls 11,436 Posts
Aries01: Love, friendship, compatibility, common goals and outlooks... the kind of stuff that helps a relationship last... IMO


...so you mean MONEY then Aries? lol laugh
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Aug 20, 2008 10:01 AM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
It doesn't matter if it's marriage or date...for me it would be a very strong, good character and all which that implies...plus wit.
wave wave
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Aug 20, 2008 10:31 AM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
honestfred
honestfredhonestfredSwindon, Wiltshire, England UK1 Threads 1 Polls 93 Posts
is there any sugar mamma's out there
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Aug 20, 2008 10:33 AM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
honestfred: is there any sugar mamma's out there



No they all married the pool boy!!!!!!!!!


professor uh oh dunno laugh
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Aug 20, 2008 5:25 PM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
Money comes and goes, looks fade, but it's the personality that makes the man.
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Aug 20, 2008 5:39 PM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: That you don't ask me to marry you cause I'll say no!!!!!!!!!!!
moping innocent
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Aug 20, 2008 5:41 PM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
Personality and a sense of humor.
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Aug 20, 2008 5:43 PM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
vonney: Ye right, if its bigger than mine he can forget it
I guess I,m striking out every where tonight.moping innocent
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Aug 20, 2008 5:46 PM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
bob1959: I guess I,m striking out every where tonight.



confused
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Aug 20, 2008 6:48 PM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
WhatUwish4: It doesn't matter if it's marriage or date...for me it would be a very strong, good character and all which that implies...plus wit.


I see, she wants a body builder...grin
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Aug 20, 2008 6:49 PM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
somechick: Personality and a sense of humor.


Be specific, what kind of personality???devil
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Aug 20, 2008 6:51 PM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
HJFinAZ: I see, she wants a body builder...


confused confused
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Aug 20, 2008 6:53 PM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
You said a strong character...tongue
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Aug 20, 2008 6:55 PM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
Other - the sense of responsibility..
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Aug 20, 2008 6:57 PM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
HJFinAZ: You said a strong character...


doh doh doh
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Aug 20, 2008 6:57 PM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
iamsimply
iamsimplyiamsimplyHolland Landing, Ontario Canada15 Threads 6 Polls 166 Posts
There's not a man or woman on dating sites that doesn't prequalify a person with age, then looks, then what they have in common and then money because they may not be able to keep up with your lifestyle and expectations!

Standard entries in profiles: Fine dining (at $150 or more a pop) and theater ( Les Miserables-Ticket + Dinner from, in London £52.50) (Elgin Theater in Toronto to see Avenue Q -- one ticket $320) and you say you like travel and cruises (now were talking thousands) ... and your not worried about money!

There's a doctor on the site that makes over $150K and she's 50 odd years old. Most guys with great personalities don't have a hope in hell of keeping up with her lifestyle if your lucky you might get to date her until she sees you can't afford her~

If those things don't meet your dating / marriage criteria then you click on the next person because, not like the old days. there's always someone better on the net or in an ad in the paper! Mobility and advertising gives us all to many choices!

If it were just personality then certainly most of us would be married and not in the forums! Personality counts if you get by all the other stuff including tooth decay, bad breath, stinky feet and the wart on their nose never mind the money!!

Lets get to the punchline, "Ya! all I look for in a woman is her personality!" Ask a 300 lb woman how many dates and marriage proposals she gets because she has a great personality!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing drinking beer I'm not trying to be nasty, just stating facts! The first choice is looks unless you have limited choices!

Then there's that tune .. "If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, get an ugly man / woman to be your husband / wife"!
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Aug 20, 2008 7:02 PM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
pyaremohan: naaa.not all of it


There is a GENERALIZED thread of truth running through this distortion - but only a sliver of truth. A person with this kind of attitude probably does have a problem with relationships.
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Aug 20, 2008 7:05 PM CST When women are looking for a man to marry , Not date . What matters most ?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
iamsimply: There's not a man or woman on dating sites that doesn't prequalify a person with age, then looks, then what they have in common and then money because they may not be able to keep up with your lifestyle and expectations!

Standard entries in profiles: Fine dining (at $150 or more a pop) and theater ( Les Miserables-Ticket + Dinner from, in London £52.50) (Elgin Theater in Toronto to see Avenue Q -- one ticket $320) and you say you like travel and cruises (now were talking thousands) ... and your not worried about money!

There's a doctor on the site that makes over $150K and she's 50 odd years old. Most guys with great personalities don't have a hope in hell of keeping up with her lifestyle if your lucky you might get to date her until she sees you can't afford her~

If those things don't meet your dating / marriage criteria then you click on the next person because, not like the old days. there's always someone better on the net or in an ad in the paper! Mobility and advertising gives us all to many choices!

If it were just personality then certainly most of us would be married and not in the forums! Personality counts if you get by all the other stuff including tooth decay, bad breath, stinky feet and the wart on their nose never mind the money!!

Lets get to the punchline, "Ya! all I look for in a woman is her personality!" Ask a 300 lb woman how many dates and marriage proposals she gets because she has a great personality! I'm not trying to be nasty, just stating facts! The first choice is looks unless you have limited choices!

Then there's that tune .. "If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, get an ugly man / woman to be your husband / wife"!



I think this is BS.....I don't care what someone does...as long as I am happy with what I do...that's the main thing....and I have my own money so I don't have to qualify anyone like I am a credit card company....So I guess that leaves attraction and personality....I also know plenty of bigger women who get dates based on their personality...there are plenty of men out there who like to date bigger women...so that puts a dent in your theory...wine
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