I have the same problem. It says clearly in my profile what kind of man im NOT interested in. But they are the once that write me the most. Then they can't take it if I tell them im not interested.
I read your profile - it's full of joined up thinking and reasonableness.
I suggest you split it up into smaller paragraphs and put the bit about facial fuzz at the top in caps. The very top.
Many men and women don't read profiles and if they do not much further than the 1st few lines - it's a dating site thing. So bung the big dislike at the top maybe?
p.s. Could you tell your friend she has a fabulous tongue and that I have fallen in love with it?
I think with some filter settings you can solve the problem.
The penentrating men here are either very opininionated and don´t bother about a woman´s ideas, or they are opportunists, who are just looking for anybody online.
My problem, if it is at all, as I usally don´t bother, is first-contacts that even don´t read your mail or read your mail and check your profile, but find no words to explain their denial.
tiredofwebsites: Many men(women too) look only at the pictures.
So why do people look at my faceless profile and yours too I'm sure?
I think a profile is not often taken too seriously. If preferences are stated they are ignored in most cases, and this is not such a bad thing because our preferences are simply that, and may be swayed, so I guess people take a chance armed with that knowledge.
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Why is when i put i don't like beards or moustaches in my profile these people still mail me??(Vote Below)