I'm going to be buried in a colusium in Athens,. .... I don't know whether I want to be turned to ash and scattered off hook lighthouse where the pirates used to come,,,but don't think anyone be bothered doing that,,and the ashes would just blow back in their face.but the cemeteries are getting overloaded..think ill go with my ashes being scattered at the beach and someone go neck deep in the water and release them,. ..c"est la vie,,,,
hear people say you only live once enjoy y life l going scream lol not when y lose job year ago up neck in bills and debt and no holiday sit in most weekend l looking forward die lol
lreland12345: hear people say you only live once enjoy y life l going scream lol not when y lose job year ago up neck in bills and debt and no holiday sit in most weekend l looking forward die lol
You are not alone with that feeling tho there s lots ...it's not Easey being made unemployed.,..my contract finished in work after 5 great years working with the elderly,,,missed the social aspect of it was out and about every day on the bus along with my colleague the bus driver collecting them from their homes,,miss the Craic and banter with my workmates,miss the money ,,I just have to change my routine,,,I smoked more at home when finished in work ,then I gave them up....it's good to talk about it tho the way you feel now,,,feeling are just a bunch of feelings that change one second to the next,,,but if you find you don't feel like getting up out of bed and not wanting to talk to anyone and it lasts quite awhile try talk it through with someone..
peachmelba: You are not alone with that feeling tho there s lots ...it's not Easey being made unemployed.,..my contract finished in work after 5 great years working with the elderly,,,missed the social aspect of it was out and about every day on the bus along with my colleague the bus driver collecting them from their homes,,miss the Craic and banter with my workmates,miss the money ,,I just have to change my routine,,,I smoked more at home when finished in work ,then I gave them up....it's good to talk about it tho the way you feel now,,,feeling are just a bunch of feelings that change one second to the next,,,but if you find you don't feel like getting up out of bed and not wanting to talk to anyone and it lasts quite awhile try talk it through with someone..
Remember it's natural your feeling down at the moment you have had a big dramatic change to your life and circumstances have changed now,,,,try talk to someone you trust,,,remember the most important thing for yourself and that is be kind to yourself and think of the things you can do even if its just going for a walk,,,staying indoors alot will get you down even more,,mind yourself and yes it is okay to have feelings of feeling down in the dumps,,,but not when it lasting and preventing you from going out to even visit a friend or relative,,if your up to it you could try just helping a friend a neighbour ,charity work,,,evening class anything to try distract yourself from getting too much inside yourself to the point of isolation,that is not good,
Just take it Easey on yourself ,,try get good sleep eat as healthy as you can,,weekends can be bumers just say to yourself well I'm not missing anything and this feeling I have now will pass,,
Even chatting on here is good,,just don't bottle it inside ,it's good to talk you know.
. I'd get a big loan say farewell to all my family and don't cry for me be happy they had the chance of me in their lives,,,leave enough food in the fridge for my adult son and daughter,,,leave my ring to my sis,,,go off somewhere on my own like lionesses and dogs do when they know they dying...I wouldn't want anyone around me when I'm dying...then they can come and collect me when I'm dead and no way would I want my ashes in some churn ,,,on the mantlepiece.
Lonely1: No cremation for moi, just in case the significant other bumps me off. I don't want the evidence to be destroyed.
But you might ride from the ashes and come back and haunt your other half anyway so what's the difference,,,a good haunting be better than jail they get god meals in there and wacky backy and all.
But you might ride from the ashes and come back and haunt your other half anyway so what's the difference,,,a good haunting be better than jail they get god meals in there and wacky backy and all.[/quote.
Think my iPad wacky backy,lol,,....rise frm the ashes,,,Ryde,:.::laugh: .good meals..
Cremation here too I reckon. Though cremation can be fairly gnarly (80s word, showing my age). I've been to two cremations and what I wasnt prepared for the first time was that the bones dont get completely burnt to ash - there are rather large chunks left when it comes out of the crematorium, including large pieces of intact skull, which need to be further broken down. Yikes. What I wasnt prepared for the second time was how STRONG and resilient the bones of the 90 year old grandma who was cremated turned out to be. So many intact pieces to be broken up after the actual cremation. That's intense. (80s again, oops).
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