to be honest. looking at the threds of late........makes me wonder. how long this site .will remain....?????...at least 4/5 nice people that where on here , have gone.....recent.
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
truheart1941: to be honest. looking at the threds of late........makes me wonder. how long this site .will remain....?????...at least 4/5 nice people that where on here , have gone.....recent.
Yes, I have noticed a trend.
Sometimes people come and go for a bit.
Personally, I haven't been on here long enough, but do notice the turnover of the threads can be annoyingly slow, at times. I think the people are still about....maybe just not so willing to partake? I dunno.
Though I have not chose to "vote" it seems you have so far had more men participate then women. Not sure what that really means but maybe it has something to do with the "Spirituality" you spoke of earlier........ uhhh, good luck..I guess...
I came back here just to make mention about something that might be of interest. I remember the last time that I was self-conscious, I was in my 27th year. Such a tremendous burden to deal with having self-consciousness. There's so much freedom on many levels without it.
CuddlingSoul: I came back here just to make mention about something that might be of interest. I remember the last time that I was self-conscious, I was in my 27th year. Such a tremendous burden to deal with having self-consciousness. There's so much freedom on many levels without it.
Have you been stoned since your 27th year? Spaced out? How many years do you have now? Do you remember?
CuddlingSoul: I came back here just to make mention about something that might be of interest. I remember the last time that I was self-conscious, I was in my 27th year. Such a tremendous burden to deal with having self-consciousness. There's so much freedom on many levels without it.
please read over all the comments, I do not have low self-estemm, and I don't find myself unattractive
Its not the apparence that counts ( I'm not saying its not important. IT IS ) but mostly its what's in your head . I can have that body in three/four months of budybuilding ( did it before ).
Korey2hall: I literally have no fear, what ever people say is their own opinion, and as spiritual as I am, I love to hear others opinions, experiences, etc. It helps me know more about the human race and what drives people.
If you were truly spiritually aware, you would not be so concerned about how your appearance is judged by others...nor would you judge others by their appearance. This is ego ruling the roost and running amok...and that is what drives most people.
Korey2hall: see this is exactly why I posted this, to learn, now my question is, first you say I'm unattractive cause you assumed that I found myself unattractive and lacked confidence, but then you went on to say you actually don't find me unattractive physically, so when you first see my picture which was your first impression? To me it seemed like it was misinterpreted.
I'm way out of your target demographic, but if my daughter sent me those photos to say she'd met you, I would immediately think you were the type to be self-centered. The way you interacted with her and her family would change or reinforce that impression.
You could include photos of you laughing, or not staring with such fascination at the camera, to dilute that first impression.
truheart1941: to be honest. looking at the threds of late........makes me wonder. how long this site .will remain....?????...at least 4/5 nice people that where on here , have gone.....recent.
bodleing2: If you were truly spiritually aware, you would not be so concerned about how your appearance is judged by others...nor would you judge others by their appearance. This is ego ruling the roost and running amok...and that is what drives most people.
Bodleing did you ever read about''the dark night of the soul'' by st john of the cross written in the 14 century?
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