Ken_19: I run into a lot of those who during quiet moments alone when I wish to stroke their hair get all upset. Too much money at the beauty parlor they often claim. I think they forget why they had it made up, to look attractive for their guy, nu? Besides, sometimes whose money paid for that? If it was your money, isn't it your say how long it should last?
Do you think perhaps it might be considered an invasion of personal space?
Perhaps it is a matter when you pay for something, it becomes a gift and no longer yours - so maybe you might want to touch the hairdresser because that is where the money went.
BerrySmoothie: ...that's a handy wee trick Tru. I'm impressed...
actually....i had an argument other day...went to the hairdressers...wash/cut....she said ..wanna blow cut..... said to her .just cut my hair....bloody cheek....and there were other customers in the shop too..... some woman are sooooo brazen.........
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
JeanKimberley: Do you think perhaps it might be considered an invasion of personal space?
Perhaps it is a matter when you pay for something, it becomes a gift and no longer yours - so maybe you might want to touch the hairdresser because that is where the money went.
Just my take on the thing.
If you're with someone who is special to you....it's a bonding experience, unless of course it causes pain/discomfort which Jac has pointed out.
If you're with someone you care deeply about, it shouldn't be about personal space being invaded. You(she) actually may enjoy it and for him it gives him pleasure to be able to run his fingers through her hair.
I think the whole thing is ludicrous, tbh. Laughable, in fact.
Ken_19: I run into a lot of those who during quiet moments alone when I wish to stroke their hair get all upset. Too much money at the beauty parlor they often claim. I think they forget why they had it made up, to look attractive for their guy, nu? Besides, sometimes whose money paid for that? If it was your money, isn't it your say how long it should last?
I like cuddling and if someone has his hands in my hair, it's actually nice.
I pay for it myself and even if it would be a shared household, I would't tell someone how to behave and wouldn't take it kindly in return.
Ken_19: I run into a lot of those who during quiet moments alone when I wish to stroke their hair get all upset. Too much money at the beauty parlor they often claim. I think they forget why they had it made up, to look attractive for their guy, nu? Besides, sometimes whose money paid for that? If it was your money, isn't it your say how long it should last?
If your partner doesn't allow to touch her hair only its okey.. but does she allow to touch other body part of her if yes. You can continue dating with her if not. You have to think how much time you have spent with her and you can ask her ....
Cochetaunknown, Western Cape South Africa2,021 posts
Lonely1: Call me sheltered, but I have never met a woman who goes ballistic when her hair is touched. But then again, this world has some strange birds.
They're out there, trust me. I know a few of those
Ken_19: I run into a lot of those who during quiet moments alone when I wish to stroke their hair get all upset. Too much money at the beauty parlor they often claim. I think they forget why they had it made up, to look attractive for their guy, nu? Besides, sometimes whose money paid for that? If it was your money, isn't it your say how long it should last?
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