Why are men so cruel? (110)

Jan 29, 2015 8:16 AM CST Why are men so cruel?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
stanley8m: Could I take it, that we both would consider actions resulting in a young man having a large hard boot colliding with his nether regions.


You could indeed, amongst other things laugh
Jan 29, 2015 8:25 AM CST Why are men so cruel?
unlaoised: I did read a story about a couple who went to buy a car (?) advertised on it....and disappeared


They got killed...Horrible.
Jan 29, 2015 8:45 AM CST Why are men so cruel?
postneoludite
postneoluditepostneoluditeWest Vancouver, British Columbia Canada39 Threads 22 Polls 890 Posts
JAMIEXxxxxxx: About why fellas get nasty in relationships.

I don't know how to answer your question, which is not surprising since I'm still trying to sort out what want to be if I grow up, but I found this image to be very inspirational.
Take heart1. Things always get better. hug

Embedded image from another site
Jan 29, 2015 9:19 AM CST Why are men so cruel?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
JAMIEXxxxxxx: About why fellas get nasty in relationships.


Deeply unhappy within himself and thinking he can get away with mistreating you. The working class, especially the men, are ruined and riddled with head problems these days and it all comes from having no pride anymore. It wouldn't surprise me if he wants to kill himself or at least says that.

And I wouldn't say your relationship is the rule on a council estate, but it's getting there. Long-suffering girlfriends abound at the bottom and this switches to the long-suffering boyfriend as you go up the ladder.
Jan 29, 2015 10:13 AM CST Why are men so cruel?
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
JAMIEXxxxxxx: About why fellas get nasty in relationships.
goes both ways,dear.
Jan 29, 2015 10:15 AM CST Why are men so cruel?
GUZMAN1
GUZMAN1GUZMAN1Barcelona, Catalonia Spain65 Threads 44 Polls 5,101 Posts
reb56: goes both ways,dear.


thumbs up laugh
Jan 29, 2015 10:47 AM CST Why are men so cruel?
JAMIEXxxxxxx
JAMIEXxxxxxxJAMIEXxxxxxxkerry, Kerry Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 23 Posts
reb56: goes both ways,dear.

I know it does but i am a woman have to blame the men.
Jan 29, 2015 2:28 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
JAMIEXxxxxxx
JAMIEXxxxxxxJAMIEXxxxxxxkerry, Kerry Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 23 Posts
woofwoofgrowl: Not all men. Just seems that way because the cruel ones tend to be louder.

Ya men can be abusive do and cruel.
Jan 29, 2015 2:37 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
JAMIEXxxxxxx: Ya men can be abusive do and cruel.


Choose ones that aren't handshake
Jan 29, 2015 2:47 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
JAMIEXxxxxxx: Ya men can be abusive do and cruel.


Did you call your Mum? conversing
Jan 29, 2015 3:08 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
unlaoised: Oooh, guy! I'll take that kiss, thanks See? I'm not so bad, really

I just wish others posters would actually read the thread before posting. The headline gives a different impression


Thanks for accepting it.
Yes I know you are not bad person.. I just come here to judge people by their comment...so my fav pass time.

Yes you are right. I will keep that in mind.
Jan 29, 2015 3:10 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Obstinance_Works: Deeply unhappy within himself and thinking he can get away with mistreating you. The working class, especially the men, are ruined and riddled with head problems these days and it all comes from having no pride anymore. It wouldn't surprise me if he wants to kill himself or at least says that.

And I wouldn't say your relationship is the rule on a council estate, but it's getting there. Long-suffering girlfriends abound at the bottom and this switches to the long-suffering boyfriend as you go up the ladder.



Stick to the bottom of the ladder so OB! grin
Jan 29, 2015 3:11 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
guysimple: Thanks for accepting it.
Yes I know you are not bad person.. I just come here to judge people by their comment...so my fav pass time.

Yes you are right. I will keep that in mind.


Don't we all? wink

What's with this message limit on CS? frustrated
Jan 29, 2015 3:15 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
unlaoised: Don't we all?

What's with this message limit on CS?


Don't we all? - No.
What's with this message limit on CS?- I dont understand what u r asking. sorry
Jan 29, 2015 3:31 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
guysimple: I m agree with you. In India working class has lower divorce rate than other classes.


Yep, no surprise there thumbs up
Jan 29, 2015 3:35 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
guysimple: Don't we all? - No.
What's with this message limit on CS?- I dont understand what u r asking. sorry


Oh, don't worry. CS puts a limit on private messages you can send in 12 hours. It's very frustrating frustrated
Jan 29, 2015 3:45 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Soulwonder: Mostly men like hard moves instead of girls who like being spontaneous.


Eh? confused
Jan 29, 2015 3:47 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
unlaoised: Oh, don't worry. CS puts a limit on private messages you can send in 12 hours. It's very frustrating


Haha. I wont get affected if CS puts a limit on Private messages because I am blocked by almost people my country play important role in itrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 29, 2015 3:47 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
some people are brought up to be on their quard so to speak,to a point where they distrust everything and every one.such a sad life.....as adults...you become a recluse.....bitter and twisted.........and see the good in no one......jmo.
Jan 29, 2015 3:49 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
tremmel73
tremmel73tremmel73olathe, Kansas USA4 Posts
My 2 cents. I don't think men are so cruel, but we are men. Perhaps it's frustration that leads to sounding cruel. I have been on here for about a month now and have only met one person that was real, but have gotten over a dozen emails. There are too many scams on here that make it very frustrating to find someone. I'm not cruel, but I would say that I have gone from being hopeful to feeling like this is a waste of time. I don't know how much longer I will continue to be on here, for my hopes of finding someone on this site are fading quick. I guess this is the price you pay for being on a totally free site.
Jan 29, 2015 3:57 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
tremmel73: My 2 cents. I don't think men are so cruel, but we are men. Perhaps it's frustration that leads to sounding cruel. I have been on here for about a month now and have only met one person that was real, but have gotten over a dozen emails. There are too many scams on here that make it very frustrating to find someone. I'm not cruel, but I would say that I have gone from being hopeful to feeling like this is a waste of time. I don't know how much longer I will continue to be on here, for my hopes of finding someone on this site are fading quick. I guess this is the price you pay for being on a totally free site.



Nothing comes for free.
we waste your time here and time is money so its not free directly.
There is no surety about any place you will get your partner.

cheers
Jan 29, 2015 4:01 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
guysimple: Haha. I wont get affected if CS puts a limit on Private messages because I am blocked by almost people my country play important role in it



comfort Chat to people in your area?
Jan 29, 2015 4:09 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
unlaoised: Chat to people in your area?



Lolzz..
Then what does it mean to be in International site..laugh
Jan 29, 2015 4:13 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
tremmel73
tremmel73tremmel73olathe, Kansas USA4 Posts
guysimple: Nothing comes for free.
we waste your time here and time is money so its not free directly.
There is no surety about any place you will get your partner.


Yah, I know nothing comes for free. I'm referring to a pay site verses a free site. And as stated in my profile, I'm not sure who and where I might meet my match. I'm just saying, maybe with a pay site people are more dedicated to actually meeting and it filters out the scammers.

How long have you been a member? Your success rate? According to your profile you're not specific on what you're looking for. Does that work for you?
Jan 29, 2015 4:19 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
tremmel73: Yah, I know nothing comes for free. I'm referring to a pay site verses a free site. And as stated in my profile, I'm not sure who and where I might meet my match. I'm just saying, maybe with a pay site people are more dedicated to actually meeting and it filters out the scammers.

How long have you been a member? Your success rate? According to your profile you're not specific on what you're looking for. Does that work for you?


It has been 2+ years. I met some nice people here. What I wrote in my profile is true because I am not looking for relationship but friends and good people.

Yes you are right pay sites might work well I never been there so i have no idea but I am sure that sites would work better.
Jan 29, 2015 6:29 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
BlueSkyJ
BlueSkyJBlueSkyJWoodland Hil(near Los Angeles), California USA2 Threads 229 Posts
Women can be cruel too...they're especially famous for sending guys 'mixed messages'

guy just tell women what they want to hear....until they don't care anymore...then their 'true selves' come out and it can get 'ug-ly"
Jan 29, 2015 6:51 PM CST Why are men so cruel?
Latingirlbj48
Latingirlbj48Latingirlbj48salem, Oregon USA1 Posts
Yup he right you know those girls are out there selling thier selfs for phone cards money .
Jan 30, 2015 12:28 AM CST Why are men so cruel?
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
thumbs up
unlaoised: Do it today, Jamie...don't wait. Talk to someone who can help
Jan 30, 2015 4:10 AM CST Why are men so cruel?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
guysimple: Lolzz..
Then what does it mean to be in International site..


Ya see, guy...the women you can't contact, don't want to be contacted by your area.
It may be an international site but there are choices to be made
Jan 30, 2015 4:17 AM CST Why are men so cruel?
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
The men or women who threaten suicide are selfish, weak and sick individuals.

My sister had a boyfriend just like this. He was a co-dependent alcoholic. When my sister finally had the courage to get out he threatened it once again. She lived next door to me and she was visiting me one day when he showed up drunk knocking at my door, my sister answered the door and I heard her say "Then go ahead and do it!" She was so fed up with him. He left, and went home and DID IT!
He had just moved into an apartment with a roommate he recently met through an ad he responded to, seeking a roommate. He had only lived there for one week. The roommate came home to find "Ken" naked on the floor with beer cans and an empty bottle of prescription pills. It was too late, he was gone.

Very sad and unfortunate scenario for everyone involved. It was horrible. My sister had a very difficult road ahead. The guilt, regret and sadness of losing a loved one was overbearing. Needless to say it took a lot of therapy sessions to help her understand that it wasn't her fault. She will be forever affected by this.

JAMIEX, please get out before it's too late. sad flower
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