If your really attracted to a person do you care if they are single/available? (65)
YouMeUsFrakes, Kentucky USA11 Threads 1 Polls 3,271 Posts2intrigued: Nah, it's the fortress I've built around me and it would take some very special man to break through it.
Where there's a will, there's a way. Just be ready to toss down the golden locks when that very special man comes a callin' 
YouMeUs: Where there's a will, there's a way. Just be ready to toss down the golden locks when that very special man comes a callin'
Will do and if he manages to climb to the top, he's a keeper for the sheer effort he's shown.
To be attracted to someone, I would have to Respect them as a person..would never respect a man who was not single and trying his luck with me..
DDawson59: I dated a married women and she used me for her own strength to get out of her bad marriage. She re-married and it was her lawyer...
Yes. I do care.
If I was strongly attracted to a man, he would have to be single and available emotionally and spiritually....unattached and not still dreaming of someone else.
I have to admit, I have been tempted in the past, but, thankfully, I never crossed the line. I couldn't. I walked away before any attachment was formed. I just don't go there.
Happygolucky4u: I myself do not believe in putting the cart before the horse. Those that do, I do not see as bad people. To be honest and I do not mean this in a bad way. I feel sorry for them. Both the married one and the one also cheating with the married one. The selfishness and selfcenteredness (<---not really a word) that it takes to participate in this is usually done by people who are not emotionally in a good place at that time. Happy well adjusted people do not do something like that for they think it through and knows where the majority of the time it leads. If I were to ever find someone for myself it would be someone I could respect and trust. And if he was married I would not respect or trust him. But I do know they say there is a nut for every screw. Some people like relationships that are more volatile. Did you learn from this what kind of relationships you wanted?
Oh, I like this...perfect.
BerrySmoothie: Yes. I do care.
If I was strongly attracted to a man, he would have to be single and available emotionally and spiritually....unattached and not still dreaming of someone else.
I have to admit, I have been tempted in the past, but, thankfully, I never crossed the line. I couldn't. I walked away before any attachment was formed. I just don't go there.
If I was strongly attracted to a man, he would have to be single and available emotionally and spiritually....unattached and not still dreaming of someone else.
I have to admit, I have been tempted in the past, but, thankfully, I never crossed the line. I couldn't. I walked away before any attachment was formed. I just don't go there.
for some a lesson learned. her husband was ost hurt, but the oger he was, he never got it anyways, and was freed to ,ive his meager life. Obviously she wanted in jer desires much more, in jer life and the life for er children.
serena123: To be attracted to someone, I would have to Respect them as a person..would never respect a man who was not single and trying his luck with me..
conquest is motivated by many different reasons. it does take two to tango.
is her perspective to climb the ladder she puts be for her. having the spirit of discontentment can motivate someone immensely. delusional self absorbed and accepts her own persona as a victim as she sees others prospering around her and her life is stagnant?
KremaP: I wouldn't touch a married man with ten foot pole...
certainly not with willfull knowledge , right
Ditto
CapNemo: Anybody with any Integrity and Morals doesn't mess around with a married person. In addition, it's a good way to get yourself killed.
I'm still alive
DDawson59: I dated a married women and she used me for her own strength to get out of her bad marriage. She re-married and it was her lawyer...
NOW ALL THIS BITTERNESS IS ALL MAKING SENSE TO ME!!!
It sounds to me you got EXACTLY what you deserved!!! KARMA IS A *ITCH!! Hopefully you learned your lesson. Didn't your parent's teach you anything - like morals??? It's not nice to take something that is obviously OFF LIMITS!!
DO to other's as you would like done to you.
Anyone for a grown-up relationship?
jac_the_gripper: Anyone for a grown-up relationship?
You took the words right out of my mouth
jac_the_gripper: Anyone for a grown-up relationship?
no ,.....sorry i.m only in the holding hands stage....anything other then that is dirty.......
jac_the_gripper: Anyone for a grown-up relationship?
Yes me Jac. I am just packing. I need sorting out. 
DDawson59: I dated a married women and she used me for her own strength to get out of her bad marriage. She re-married and it was her lawyer...
People don't use us. We allow ourselves to be used. It's a choice and a crapshoot. Next time, hedge your bets.
By the way; nice hat. 
Amen!
Ccincy: I wouldn't give a hounds tooth to how much attracted I was to someone.
They would have to be totally done with their past relationship.
They would have to be totally done with their past relationship.
THISand I want the results of the lie detector in triplicate
Ccincy: I wouldn't give a hounds tooth to how much attracted I was to someone.
They would have to be totally done with their past relationship.
They would have to be totally done with their past relationship.
AMEN
Thank you
Back then, who thought of being used, when she's hot and sharing the honey . Isn't that a females way thou - seduction to get what she wants with a man...
The real question is with women filing 70% of the divorces, why are they so discontented in their home life? Their chasing other men... And with so many women today in the work force, the co-workr is her closest next relationship. Yes we all know 'men listen' when she says she's a victim, and instinctsvely be the knight. Ahh, live and learn.
DDawson59: The real question is with women filing 70% of the divorces, why are they so discontented in their home life? Their chasing other men... And with so many women today in the work force, the co-workr is her closest next relationship. Yes we all know 'men listen' when she says she's a victim, and instinctsvely be the knight. Ahh, live and learn.
DDawson59: Back then, who thought of being used, when she's hot and sharing the honey . Isn't that a females way thou - seduction to get what she wants with a man...
So, you're saying that men are helpless victims in the face of women's seductive behaviours?
It's funny that, because I've never had any problems ignoring attempts at seduction by men whom I'm not interested in.
Willow3939: Thank you for the wise advice. I shall no longer feed the trolls.
Willow I don't know what I would call some people.
It is obvious that they are very angry people and have been treated very badly.
Maybe some are trolls.
Ccincy: Willow I don't know what I would call some people.
It is obvious that they are very angry people and have been treated very badly.
Maybe some are trolls.
..C/C i am neither angry/badly treated..troll........I just lust after your body.......It is obvious that they are very angry people and have been treated very badly.
Maybe some are trolls.
truheart1941: ..C/C i am neither angry/badly treated..troll........I just lust after your body.......
tru only you ,only you.
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