anxiety attack! (89)
pedalguy59: Just go and enjoy yourself, think of the ones who can't take
a Holiday in Spain for various reasons.
a Holiday in Spain for various reasons.
Do I detect some envy here Pedal ? But you have been invited!
truheart1941: tell you what..i.ll meet you, getting on the plane....then whack you on the head with a bit of 2x2 wood...you wont remember a thing...promice yer....
Oh, ta. I'm flying from
tomcatwarne: Remmber Karma my darling be careful'
But he's asking for it ...
Ok. I'll be careful.
deep breaths ...
Elegsabiff: Okay don't overdo it or I will wish I was coming to yours instead. Relative seems set on organizing every minute, there'll be little time for calm reflection and solitude.
I was getting all romantic about my wonderful life 
Elegsabiff: Oh, ta. I'm flying from Glascow Prestwick at, um, 05h00, yes, that's it. 05h00. Look forward to seeing you. Don't be late, okay?
can you pick me up.......
its only about 450 milesrebel2: I was getting all romantic about my wonderful life
Sheesh your mailbox will be bulging by tomorrow morning. You should be working for the tourist board
Minerva88: The reason why she's having a panic attack is because she's coming to see me.
I've offered her some weed as I've got some in the garden . But first she has to get here!
I've also warned her about all those Spanish men here ..and the stallions too!
So Pedal do you still think she's got no reason to panic ?
I've offered her some weed as I've got some in the garden . But first she has to get here!
I've also warned her about all those Spanish men here ..and the stallions too!
So Pedal do you still think she's got no reason to panic ?
You never mentioned the weed in the garden
forget our lunch date. We'll just sit in the garden and burn weeds.truheart1941: can you pick me up....... its only about 450 miles
Get a flight direct to Prestwick on Tuesday, you can sleep overnight in the waiting room and be bright and early for my flight. I'll return the favour for your trip, you know I will.
Elegsabiff: Get a flight direct to Prestwick on Tuesday, you can sleep overnight in the waiting room and be bright and early for my flight. I'll return the favour for your trip, you know I will.
i,m going to...S/A.....know it??????? truheart1941: i,m going to...S/A.....know it???????
I wondered - but it's only a 10 hour flight, it's a breeze. A doddle. You'll walk it
Flying during the day, or overnight? During the day's good, they feed you every couple of hours and you watch the Sahara unfold underneath you between meals. Enjoy!!! 
Elegsabiff: You never mentioned the weed in the garden forget our lunch date. We'll just sit in the garden and burn weeds.
I wanted to surprise you with our little joint venture !
Minerva88: I wanted to surprise you with our little joint venture !
Colour me surprised ...
Minerva88: Do I detect some envy here Pedal ? But you have been invited!
Maybe he's thinking 'First World problems'..
serene56: Hi Pete The term 'First World problems' is a tongue-in-cheek reference to the things that we in developed countries find concerning.
Delayed flights, cold lattes, slow internet connection etc.
Things that those in Third World countries will most likely never encounter as their concerns involve adequate shelter, food, clean water, medical attention, etc etc
right....Delayed flights, cold lattes, slow internet connection etc.
Things that those in Third World countries will most likely never encounter as their concerns involve adequate shelter, food, clean water, medical attention, etc etc
nice to see you back....haved missed you......
serene56: Maybe he's thinking 'First World problems'..
hello serene,,
Nice to see you back,,, blooming just like an Aussi springtime,,
serene56: Hi Pete The term 'First World problems' is a tongue-in-cheek reference to the things that we in developed countries find concerning.
Delayed flights, cold lattes, slow internet connection etc.
Things that those in Third World countries will most likely never encounter as their concerns involve adequate shelter, food, clean water, medical attention, etc etc
Delayed flights, cold lattes, slow internet connection etc.
Things that those in Third World countries will most likely never encounter as their concerns involve adequate shelter, food, clean water, medical attention, etc etc
Hi Serene you been off on some fantastic lust affair???? I'm not being nosey or anything, I won't tell anyone
girlonaswing: Maybe he(s a pratt?
He sounds like a pratt
welcome back He sounds like a pratt
Elegsabiff: in this particular case, going on a holiday I didn't want, with a relative who is counting on me, and the closer it gets the more panicky I get, and I don't know why.
Just wondered if anyone has had the same and what the outcome was.
It could equally apply to changing jobs, moving country, getting married, much more serious things ...
Just wondered if anyone has had the same and what the outcome was.
It could equally apply to changing jobs, moving country, getting married, much more serious things ...
tell her the truth...could be that she'd be equally relieved to not have your company
sometimes the anxiety we sense is actually bounced back onto us because there are tensions that are shared. You may not be the only one feeling it. Think of others too. You may be sensing what the other person feels.
Elegsabiff: When you KNOW the thing you are about to do is something you shouldn't do, but it will cost you money and upset someone close to you if you don't - what do you do?
In the unlikely event anyone does check back here - I SHOULD HAVE LISTENED TO MY INSTINCTS AND NOT GONE
Bloody horrible. Seriously. The social side was great but yikes the relative has chip on shoulder the size of the Empire State building and everything that ever went wrong in her life was my fault. Starting with me being born.
So next time I will know. Don't GO.
Elegsabiff: In the unlikely event anyone does check back here - I SHOULD HAVE LISTENED TO MY INSTINCTS AND NOT GONE
Bloody horrible. Seriously. The social side was great but yikes the relative has chip on shoulder the size of the Empire State building and everything that ever went wrong in her life was my fault. Starting with me being born.
So next time I will know. Don't GO.
Bloody horrible. Seriously. The social side was great but yikes the relative has chip on shoulder the size of the Empire State building and everything that ever went wrong in her life was my fault. Starting with me being born.
So next time I will know. Don't GO.
I did wonder how it went.
Never use or hide or fake 
your feelings Tell the world,!
your feelings Tell the world,!
Mycoy101: Never use or hide or fake your feelings Tell the world,!
Or at least tell someone
Elegsabiff: When you KNOW the thing you are about to do is something you shouldn't do, but it will cost you money and upset someone close to you if you don't - what do you do?
My late Wife also had occasional anxiety feelings concerning her work during
before she retired and said the massage I gave her always relieved it
MikeD12: My late Wife also had occasional anxiety feelings concerning her work during
before she retired and said the massage I gave her always relieved it
before she retired and said the massage I gave her always relieved it
Elegsabiff: In the unlikely event anyone does check back here - I SHOULD HAVE LISTENED TO MY INSTINCTS AND NOT GONE
Bloody horrible. Seriously. The social side was great but yikes the relative has chip on shoulder the size of the Empire State building and everything that ever went wrong in her life was my fault. Starting with me being born.
So next time I will know. Don't GO.
Bloody horrible. Seriously. The social side was great but yikes the relative has chip on shoulder the size of the Empire State building and everything that ever went wrong in her life was my fault. Starting with me being born.
So next time I will know. Don't GO.
Just shows you should take more notice of you instincts you get them for a reason
either or go or don't whatever makes you happiest. no reason to something voluntary if you do not want to.
If you want to go just go and remember that thousands of people fly in planes everyday
I agree with Jac, the issue of your anxiety goes deeper than going on a holiday. If you really want to get to the reasons you will have to address that and dig a little deeper,
If you want to go just go and remember that thousands of people fly in planes everyday
I agree with Jac, the issue of your anxiety goes deeper than going on a holiday. If you really want to get to the reasons you will have to address that and dig a little deeper,
danieljosh: Just shows you should take more notice of you instincts you get them for a reason
I agree with this also (and it's also wny I am usually against medicating such feelings). The anxiety could be a valuable message from your body or your psyche to listen to
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I have just finished my coffee on the terrace and it is 20 degrees, still and calm. I can see the moon reflecting on the calm sea.
Tomorrow I will stroll across to the café and have a coffee or two with a tostadas. Then a stroll down to the beach, a swim in the sea, followed by a tapas, just watching the local wildlife
What will I do in the afternoon? I do not know and it doesn't matter.
You will enjoy it, I know you will
Okay don't overdo it or I will wish I was coming to yours instead. Relative seems set on organizing every minute, there'll be little time for calm reflection and solitude.