The American perspective is different from ours, but here its generally only a select few that do the white/black thing. Its a difficult thing to explain without being politically incorrect, but the kind of guy that chooses that life is perhaps looked down upon. The kind of lady choosing that life is possibly seen as trying to work her way up the social ladder.
Hey some guys choose a takeaway bride from Asia or Russia, and if that works for them and they're decent people no probs. But in general its not seen as an equal relationship.
serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa2,821 posts
African culture here is if a woman disobeys her husband he has the right to beat her And she taught from young that this is something she must accept It is changing a bit now though Sorry my fullstops and commas are not working
serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa2,821 posts
serena123: African culture here is if a woman disobeys her husband he has the right to beat her And she taught from young that this is something she must accept It is changing a bit now though Sorry my fullstops and commas are not working
If she cannot fall pregnant he can sleep with another woman Unless he has more than one wife Which he is also entitled to
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
serena123: African culture here is if a woman disobeys her husband he has the right to beat her And she taught from young that this is something she must accept It is changing a bit now though Sorry my fullstops and commas are not working
Quite right too, I assume that's all women from Africa
Dec 16, 2015 8:00 AM CST why do some women say black men make bad husbands?
georgie39linstead ,st catherine, Saint Catherine Jamaica1 Threads52 Posts
georgie39linstead ,st catherine, Saint Catherine Jamaica52 posts
its not the color of the person skin that make them good or bad or determine the kind of husband or wives they make , but the individual itself . everyone does have a heart and it depending what is in that heart that make that person who he or she is . we must also consider cultural differences black people are not only in Africa and so there are different cultures involve here where blacks are concern . there are blacks all over the world that have different cultures one cannot use the action of a few people to determine the fate or behavior of a group of people . also there are only two kind of people in this world no matter where u are from weather Asian or Chinese either u are black or white there are no in-between Black and white , the chinese are not white people and the Asians are not either but they are look upon differently .
personally speaking one should not look and determine the quality of love, care, respect honesty, sincerity communication , hard work and dedication a person will, would , can , put in his relationship.
but to cut this short your relationship depend only on the individual
pat8lanips: And how has it worked out for Batman. Oh, thats right, he lives in a cave with a younger guy.
That's where he parks his toys. I thought he lived in a mansion but not with the boy wonder, Robin? Didn't the censors break that up?
Regardless, only the Batman and Superman stand in the way of someone who can destroy the entire human race.... the son of Krypton Vs the Batman of Gotham city to begin the Justice League of America!
Thing is, you drive a car like Batmans, with Robyn making eyes at you like a baby cow being dropped off at the veal factory, well lets just say the hotties are more likely to ask you which curtains to get/if their fingernails look wonderful/can they have their clothes back please.
serena123: African culture here is if a woman disobeys her husband he has the right to beat her And she taught from young that this is something she must accept It is changing a bit now though Sorry my fullstops and commas are not working
thanks for letting me know the society.
Do women enjoy equal rights to men or less in Africa??
georgie39: its not the color of the person skin that make them good or bad or determine the kind of husband or wives they make , but the individual itself . everyone does have a heart and it depending what is in that heart that make that person who he or she is . we must also consider cultural differences black people are not only in Africa and so there are different cultures involve here where blacks are concern . there are blacks all over the world that have different cultures one cannot use the action of a few people to determine the fate or behavior of a group of people . also there are only two kind of people in this world no matter where u are from weather Asian or Chinese either u are black or white there are no in-between Black and white , the chinese are not white people and the Asians are not either but they are look upon differently . personally speaking one should not look and determine the quality of love, care, respect honesty, sincerity communication , hard work and dedication a person will, would , can , put in his relationship. but to cut this short your relationship depend only on the individual
TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1,107 posts
TheRedSquirrel87: What's happened there is that you've sophisticated yourself out of common sense. It should be unremarkable to point out that Black men are relatively promiscuous and unreliable to anyone with an eye on the this world.
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