I was just in Pennsyvania last week, went on a vacation to NY and went into Penns to meet up with a friend from high school. A little town in the Pokanos(sp) Hawley PA very beautiful. I would consider moving to that part of country and maybe Australia. But probably no other part of world.
druidess6308: Kid, my friend, that would be hard to do.
No, I wouldn't, at least right now. I won't even move from my area until my sons are full grown and have their own lives. Four or five years from now, perhaps...and only if it's warm.
druidess6308: Kid, my friend, that would be hard to do.
No, I wouldn't, at least right now. I won't even move from my area until my sons are full grown and have their own lives. Four or five years from now, perhaps...and only if it's warm.
I'm in the same boat Dru, so need to suppress that dream for some time yet.
But can I take you out for dinner in about 8 years time .....
tainogirl: Based on some of what I've seen since I've been here maybe the site should be called Connecting Right Next Door/Down the Road Singles. Not a whole lot of people want to or can move.
I think there are probably a few people here who would change their minds if they were actually in the position of being in love with someone from another country (or a faraway state for those in the US. Love has a funny habit of making us see things differently.
I knew a guy lived in a foreign country for 7 months. he met and fell in love with a woman who told him the first day they met that she was born there and she would die there and would never leave it.
Eventually he had to return home to the UK for work. It was not practical for him to live there because of the language barrier and work situation. He told her he would not push her and he would respect whatever decision she came to about the future. One and a half years later they were married and she is now living in the UK.
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
lakelander: I think there are probably a few people here who would change their minds if they were actually in the position of being in love with someone from another country (or a faraway state for those in the US. Love has a funny habit of making us see things differently.
I knew a guy lived in a foreign country for 7 months. he met and fell in love with a woman who told him the first day they met that she was born there and she would die there and would never leave it.
Eventually he had to return home to the UK for work. It was not practical for him to live there because of the language barrier and work situation. He told her he would not push her and he would respect whatever decision she came to about the future. One and a half years later they were married and she is now living in the UK.
RoeDeVinna: just wondering would u pack up an leave ur life for love
I did that in 99. Now I'm kinda stuck here, but stuck in a good way watching my kids grow up. Me and the kids mother split up in 04, and I'm still here...in Sweden...yay.
I was born and raised in California. The only countries I will ever live in is in Sweden or America. I will never pack up for another country again.
I think there are probably a few people here who would change their minds if they were actually in the position of being in love with someone from another country (or a faraway state for those in the US. Love has a funny habit of making us see things differently.
I knew a guy lived in a foreign country for 7 months. he met and fell in love with a woman who told him the first day they met that she was born there and she would die there and would never leave it.
Eventually he had to return home to the UK for work. It was not practical for him to live there because of the language barrier and work situation. He told her he would not push her and he would respect whatever decision she came to about the future. One and a half years later they were married and she is now living in the UK.
I was single mom for more than 12 years and than i met my prince (at least so i was thinking) ..i had a nice carrier in my home place so i didn't want to move to him..more than 2 years - phones, e-mails, short trips or vacations together in both of our places..finally decision- ok i will marry you and i accepoted to marry him and move...BUT - living together was something different than only dating him so our relationship didn't worked. He was not the man i falled in love with, so we get divorced.. Now i live in another country and i have to restart from zero- once again!!!! My carrier is finnished and i blame the crisis for not finding yet my way. I like to live in my new home place..My question is- what shall i do in the future? People say : who did it once will do the second time too..Shall I or shall I not?
Dreaming2: Indeed, i have kids and they made my decission very difficult, but at least i am happy that they are still happy and that makes me to not give up..
scousedonLiverpool, Cheshire, England UK1,643 posts
goodfriend: How fantastic lakelander,they say love changes everything,ill wait and see if that happens,Scotland is the place to be and folks real nice here..
Yes very weloming indeed, they even have a special Glasgow kiss awaiting to greet ya. Goodfriend will explain
Steve u put the finger on the painly place. Don't forget how can be if u also don't speak the local language ..this complicate your life thousand times more and soon love will be gone and replaced by worries for the next day and others and others..
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