i ask this because i,ve been told this many times, and most of them won,t or refuse to elaborate,i just think we have a right to know, so as we can have a chance to improve ourselfs so as we won,t have to hear such hurtful words, and believe me it hurts when you don,t know why thier really leaving, i,ve been single for a number of years because i can,t hear that anymore. call me mister sensitive i might not have a lot of money, but i know how to treat a person, faults or not, most people forget what attracted them to that person in the first place. peace and love to all and to all a good day..
I have never been told that to my face, but friends have told me that certain girls have said wouldn't date me because I was to nice. (boring?) I guess I need to be a bit wilder..
p1259: i ask this because i,ve been told this many times, and most of them won,t or refuse to elaborate,i just think we have a right to know, so as we can have a chance to improve ourselfs so as we won,t have to hear such hurtful words, and believe me it hurts when you don,t know why thier really leaving, i,ve been single for a number of years because i can,t hear that anymore. call me mister sensitive i might not have a lot of money, but i know how to treat a person, faults or not, most people forget what attracted them to that person in the first place. peace and love to all and to all a good day..
no everyone who doesn't like me has always been more than happy to elaborate.... just my luck, eh?
p1259: i ask this because i,ve been told this many times, and most of them won,t or refuse to elaborate,i just think we have a right to know, so as we can have a chance to improve ourselfs so as we won,t have to hear such hurtful words, and believe me it hurts when you don,t know why thier really leaving, i,ve been single for a number of years because i can,t hear that anymore. call me mister sensitive i might not have a lot of money, but i know how to treat a person, faults or not, most people forget what attracted them to that person in the first place. peace and love to all and to all a good day..
Attraction.... same as love..... comes and goes I don`t really wanna know why , when, how , and I don`t want to explain if my feelings are gone ....
please don,t try to change me i love my sensitive part. and to btw thanks for the imformation i,ll try to remember that in the future.peace be on the right of you.
p1259: i ask this because i,ve been told this many times, and most of them won,t or refuse to elaborate,i just think we have a right to know, so as we can have a chance to improve ourselfs so as we won,t have to hear such hurtful words, and believe me it hurts when you don,t know why thier really leaving, i,ve been single for a number of years because i can,t hear that anymore. call me mister sensitive i might not have a lot of money, but i know how to treat a person, faults or not, most people forget what attracted them to that person in the first place. peace and love to all and to all a good day..
Nope! Who cares? I don't need to know all the reasons someone doesn't like me enough to date me. I'm not gonna change so as to try to get one date. I'm me, and I like me. Take me as I am, or leave me as you found me.
felixis99: ya, life is rough all over, but some of these guys - whew, I mean they wear me out.
They think I can't hear, and wanna spell it all out - like I am not already perfectly well aware of my faults........................................ (the one or two I have, that is... )
C'mon, Felix!! You and I both know that we need a couple of faults to balance out our perfections. It wouldn't be fair to the other women otherwise...
LadyPhoenix1965: C'mon, Felix!! You and I both know that we need a couple of faults to balance out our perfections. It wouldn't be fair to the other women otherwise...
true, true, but I wish my men wouldn't be so ..........so noticing!
My advice when someone tells you that you are nice....WALK this is the best advice i could give anyone. I have been in that situation quite a few times and personally i find it as being a nice way of saying take a hike.
But Honestly i would prefer not being seen as merely nice and i would rather be seen as blunt or honest.( This is just me though)
p1259: i ask this because i,ve been told this many times, and most of them won,t or refuse to elaborate,i just think we have a right to know, so as we can have a chance to improve ourselfs so as we won,t have to hear such hurtful words, and believe me it hurts when you don,t know why thier really leaving, i,ve been single for a number of years because i can,t hear that anymore. call me mister sensitive i might not have a lot of money, but i know how to treat a person, faults or not, most people forget what attracted them to that person in the first place. peace and love to all and to all a good day..
No, its usually tell the truth or say nothing at all and I never hear from them again. Generally though, I think its a mutual thing that just seems to fizz out interest in each other.
I've had one guy I was crazy about and he just vanished .... now him I do wonder about and why the sudden change as everything seemed to be going very well.
I tend to handle the rejection much better now ...... I was fine before I met them and I'll be fine after wards. I'd rather focus on finding someone who'll be crazy about me then to waste time lamenting over someone who really doesn't care - I robbed myself of too much time doing that years ago. I'm not going down that path anymore.
p1259: i ask this because i,ve been told this many times, and most of them won,t or refuse to elaborate,i just think we have a right to know, so as we can have a chance to improve ourselfs so as we won,t have to hear such hurtful words, and believe me it hurts when you don,t know why thier really leaving, i,ve been single for a number of years because i can,t hear that anymore. call me mister sensitive i might not have a lot of money, but i know how to treat a person, faults or not, most people forget what attracted them to that person in the first place. peace and love to all and to all a good day..
Hell no, I can honestly say no-one has ever said that to me. If they did, I'd probably give them a round of "f's" or crack them one
Or do you mean online? Most of the messages I get and posts I read directed at me go in one ear and out the other within 2 seconds so I dunno if anyone ever said it to me or not
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has anyone said to you, your nice but theirs somthings i don,t like about you,and then refuse to ela(Vote Below)