I am sorry you feel down. But maybe when your son has left you should give yourself a sort of a gift? A new hobby maybe? Make yourself do things and don't let anything be too hard. I too live alone, but I have found peace inside myself and I am a quite happy lady now. I take my walks in the forest (now that is an idea), I read my books I borrow from the library and I see my grandkids now and then... I think life is what you self make of it and if you like it to be good, fight for this feeling. What you send out, you get back. Bright Blessings to you Val.
Morning to you, young man, and welcome to the blogs on CS. A blog is what you make it. You will soon see there is some blogs about this and that... and in my eyes there is no rules. Just write, be polite and nice and you will have a lot of fun here.
I always try to be who I am, no need to try be someone else, because sooner or later they will see that and use it against me. I hope your Wednesday is a good one and you too keep on smiling.
Hmm... not sure if I understand what this words of you does mean... It is a long word we don't have in Norway, but wait a minute I can google it... AHA. Kvalm in Norwegian. He,he.
Peonyjenny... I always put myself first and I have been thinking like a guy for many years... that is why I am still single on my 11th year and enjoying it too.
But Smarta, you know, from young age we women are much more mature then any men... so no wonder this guy is not mature... he is not old enough to get the point here I think.
Morning from Norway Smarta. Yes, you are right, it is better to think a little then to be to hasty. When I was younger I had a ill temper, but I have outgrown that, so much calmer now and I like myself much better, age do that for you. But I do also agree in what you say in your blog, we are mature people, so act like one, be one, please. Enjoy your Wednesday, sweetie.
Zeurich, wow, I am happy for you sister, and I hope all works out good for you. Take it one day at the time, week after week and all will end up good I hope.
James, good to have you back from the rocket, it could have ended with a bang if you had lifted off. No need to proclaim you are going to live us... No need. Enjoy to be a horse whisperer, it looks very nice in the film by the same name...
Is it the 17th in Australia now? He just told us his birthday was on the 17th of June. But I join you, since Australia is before us here in time... HAPPY BIRTHDAY, HANS... enjoy your day...
Zeuricxh.. you didn't did ya? You have now two horses, 2 rabbits who multiply in a minute, 2 cats and a German Shepard? Wow, that's something to start living in a new house with. I wish you all the best of luck. Is the dog a she or a he?
Mimi, don't be so greedy. I want a little piece of cake too with my tea, please? Not much, just a little bit, due to my diabetes, okay? Thank you Smarta,the tea is good.
Sara, I wish you good luck with the move and hope all goes well. I also want to wish you good days in you new life. Life does start at 40 for us women, no doubt. So enjoy and I hope you new home will be a good one!
Ooooh, that is so sweet, you two look so good together. I am so sorry for your loss! But that is how life is and I think you are dealing with this life of yours in a very good way and you come out as a strong and independent woman who can free her own way. I am proud of you, and happy to call you my friend. May his soul rest in peace, and you too.
Hi Zeurich, sounds like you were married to a very stupid man, who treated you the way he did. I am so happy you came out of this as the person I get to know, that happy lady who is strong and independent. I am proud of what you have gotten and I wish you good luck in getting this home for yourself. You go girl, you won that battle now enjoy Victory!
Hi Catfoot, I do not envy you the move and to have to sort out what to keep and what to get rid of. Sad about the dogs and the cat, it will be very hard for them, but sounds like you have found a good home for them. But most important, take care of you, my friend.
Sorry, I got so happy for you sweetie, that my eyes got filled with tears. I hope that you get your baby back... I pray this is what you have been waiting for. To get your baby back must be the most and bestest thing in the world and I do really feel happy for you. Yes, off cause it will take some time so the little one can adjust. Finally!!! I am so, so happy for you Smarta.
RE: the pain in my heart!!!
I am sorry you feel down. But maybe when your son has left you should give yourself a sort of a gift? A new hobby maybe? Make yourself do things and don't let anything be too hard. I too live alone, but I have found peace inside myself and I am a quite happy lady now. I take my walks in the forest (now that is an idea), I read my books I borrow from the library and I see my grandkids now and then... I think life is what you self make of it and if you like it to be good, fight for this feeling. What you send out, you get back. Bright Blessings to you Val.