E my friend, my response to your comment didn't go through. But at any rate as well expressed by Jim, yes if we do have the heart to forgive, which we should, then give them one chance and however it looks beneficial to both parties as well as the stake of the future..
I am at a point where I can live my life alone, but the thrill of having to love someone is far more enticing than anything else, and I have to admit, I have a lot of love to give to whom my heart beats and my mind feel secured with as well as my soul not harmed.
E. my friend, thanks, how are you and have you heard from our friend Non?
Thank you so much my friend Molly. You have no idea what this means to me. Your idea and thought is well appreciated. Believe me, sometimes, it is not even a choice, simply a full confidence that we do change. In many ways we do. By learning and this is the the thread that makes me stay because if then that life is but a series of missteps and mistakes but willing to get to the better end of learning, then we do have the obligation to correct what is perennially wrong that we do. I am giving a lot of weight on this since we reach a point where time is rather against us to give us many chances unduly recognize with its potential to be right.
Thanks again my dear friend Molly. I do love him and I do know he loves me...and time will tell..
Jim, I'm sorry it's not like truth handed down in a platter, in fact no lies a all, he never had an intention of tge omission, its more m fear of getting back to it.
The truth is that it is not easy for me to step in and out of any relationship as it takes a long time for me to weigh things before I do put my whole body, heart, mind and soul in.
Because when I LOVE, I GIVE IT ALL, MY WHOLE BODY, HEART, MIND AND SOUL. There is no other way.
Jim, would you believe I have considered that many times in my life? You see I do believe nothing is perfect Jim, yet I do know we can Learn, to Change so we can Adapt. A product of a very systematically thought of idea, which was conceived by many a philosophers like Rene Decartes...
And yes, I have halfway filled it Jim and it is not a very tough line because if I can find it in my heart to forgive his past provided it wouldn't resurface, I am in heaven. Learning on life took many a horizon of changing Jim and I am rich in that part. Just the trust that past is never coming back...Maybe..
Nam you are very right, but this is one heck of a ride, I have never been. The mountains being climbed are not easy but boy when I am there looking at it from the top, it is nothing but pure joy and bliss.
The problem is, if we keep running away and at least don't go deeper into the abyss, wouldn't have we found the gold? The spark that is buried deep within the trench?
I know I sound silly, but that is what love does to you Nam. You cloud any remnants of reason you might have because it is the emotion that counts. The investment of a future you both laid out is packed with good stuff, but letting go of a past should be the key. The truth is fear is looming due to the fact that what makes me think it wont come back?
I thought I was there Red. Believe me, when my ex bought another marriage license three years after the divorce, I thought peace was within my realms but my health changed all that and went ballistic to feel life after told I would live forever after all..
Hmmnn Red, couldn't have been simpler? If we just put on our cloak and be an hermit?
Don't know Red, I do love, love and somehow it always come crazier than we ever know..
Red thank you so much. After a long and great marriage, and decidedly wanted to go solo, but love keeps knocking at your door, it is like, you feel 35 years younger and being so silly in love. But expectations are so high when you've been there and done all that you know?
Don't know Red. Life is so twisted sometimes and wring our hearts and mind and poke you so hard, even your bone aches, you know?
Second my deep appreciation for the learning I so gained with your unique and broad insight on matters you contributed on. But most of all, your comments on some of my writes and your friendship is most valued.
I'll miss you, but you have to do what you must. Thanks again Dela.
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