My dearest darling Minerva, I'm so delighted you can participate. Your Wisdom Shines all through our world. Yes, caution is our best tool to avoid pitfalls, however, it's also what can make us miss some possibilities of the adventure we're so thrilled to find.
My dearest lovely and caring friend. Thanks, I wouldn't have made the effort but because you're such a very wonderful person, I've found my way to glue myself back here. Exciting and quite rare to find ourselves united for one great cause. To show our love and undying concern for those we love.
Simmo is our catalyst here and his experience would definitely touch us deeply. Make us learn from our trusting ways to be carved out a little and be more careful and aware.
Molly my dear friend, thanks for your thoughts. Confirmed but when the flow of the emotions got opened up, like a dam holding up the current of the water, it's unabashed. Perhaps there are some of us who can control and use reservation, it's not me.
Fly I'm a little confused why claim your not being welcomed here. You're Most Needed part of all of us and thanks for joining.
It's not a question of your being better or not. It's a question of cruelty and inhumanity inflicted to a very caring and loving person. Why? Beats the hell out of me.
There must be more than a thousand questions running through your mind now Simmo, perhaps some you'll find answers and some not, but the truth of the matter is that there's a lot of them pure evil out there lurking in our midst, grab every opportunity that opens up to serve their claim. They think from a separate norm. Maybe we'll never understand them. But maybe they don't even have reasons. Just pure cold and cruel intentions for their needs.
But we are meant to get past these hurts. We're STRONG. In reality she's reading this and if conscience doesn't dig up to her bones, you're one lucky man, to have survived this hurdle in life.
We're lucky to ever share your story. Laugh with you and cry with you as we're one true community of good people.
Thanks Simmo. We all love you and that person is one unlucky soul.
Ek, thanks so much for your participation. I'm sold on your principles and sound practice. There's no way you can get hurt there. However. I'd have to state that the most beautiful love I've had are both from here.
Nevertheless, I'm sure all of us have our own shield for protection that serves us right.
Fair enough Nam. I think we can only hope that when that feelings awake us, then we can either act on it right away to save us from so much prolonged sufferings.
Fear is also a factor. We love them so much and can't accept the lying they are leading us to.
I tend to disagree Nam. While it is probably a very easy way out, yet what about if our doubts sometimes are just unfounded? Could it be that we're too paranoid?
Are we always right? What about seeking for truth with whom we're involved with? Remember if we do love someone and deception is not quite apparent, would we just walk out?
Z, I believe it's what makes us so difficult to act on it right away because of that. We stand on a rather confusing line, so we tend to become doubters but more so on our perception rather than those that use and manipulate us.
Thanks for pointing it out Dedo, yes I agree it was not complete and I hope it is better now. I was more on the time frame of acceptance that we're taken yet not necessarily sure or even perhaps confused on our plight.
Go ahead Nam, how are you my friend. Sometimes controversial declarations are those that either make us twisted or learn most of life. So I dare you to spit it out, will you?
Hello Cat, betrayal, hmnnn a very dark part of humanity. The scheming ability of someone to destroy and harm those that are gullible and weak. A given and an easy prey, but what hurts most is when we become the victim specially at a time of our weakness, we, that otherwise, think smart enough and will always figure things before they hurt us. Now that is called trust. When we put our guards down believing that those we love most will provide us haven and security are the very ones that harm us, is a betrayal b that suits best our definition. Nothing hurts more than when we least expect to be victimized by them that we love the most.
In reality, this is how life is. Nothing much have changed specially when the need for survival is at stake. Through out history, leaders of countries have applied these schemes for survival and the same thing with individuals. All to be ahead and the need to win. The question is how do we avoid becoming a victim? I believe, to be aware, alert, and not too trusting. Question as much for clarification, and listen to our inner voice without being paranoid.
What a lesson we have to bear. I guess we just need to face the fact that somehow there are many who just want to hurt others.
Hello everyone, I am alive, just in case some are wondering where I have been. Not a lie, just been busy with my new life loving someone with whom I am grappling all the parts of truths that I have had no clue was coming out and which I had no hints were totally different from what I expected. Not a lie just a little twist of what I thought was real. But I can live with it.
Hello Simmo,
First of all, I am so sorry about your bad experience. My deep sympathy for such a vile act specially to a man whom I have had high regard of being so truthful and so real. But on the one hand, allow me to congratulate you because it seems you are way past those grudging moments when you can't make up your mind as to whether is it all real? And if not, am I going to rationalize how I have been used? And being so out of this world in living with them while they were laughing at my back thinking how stupid I have become?
Second, it is not your fault. Your emotions were your shield yet they used it as a weapon against you. And this is what hurts you the most because it is out and through love that you have been fooled. It took time for you to realize, but it is over now. You have graduated from an innocent victim to a very rational human being who can laugh and cry at the same time because you know you have grown taller, much taller from when you started this affair.
Of course you are bitter, and why shouldn't you. The time and effort you put into it is valuable as to the building of a great future framed in your mind. It collapsed, and it is not even because it is due to collapse, but it did because the foundation was only good on your part. And this will make you feel better, because, deep inside of you, you were never completely conquered to be a victim. You found out before it is too late. And this will make you the victor.
Now what bothers me most is the next victim, and your story is a great lesson for everyone and thank you so much for sharing. I have never experience such a deceit yet, I know how you feel.
I am offering you my hand, in any way I can to make you feel better. For the most part, you are now an advocate of finding an easy way, to find out the truth for yourself or those that inclines to believe too easily.
Take care and I know in no time, you will smile and say, I have survive.
Well Cat, I'm confident that if it hurts or there are more damage than improvement, our laws in my country will step in by passing a referendum or simply included in the election process.
Now on the emotional side, only those that have physically undergone can attest as to the result of their end.
But then perhaps they can restore it back if they are not happy or experience more hideous feelings as they did this to change their emotional state of confusion in the first place.
I wish we can hear from someone who has done it Cat, then it will definitely enlighten us.
Always consider the ups and downs on anything we do, Cat, and I do agree with you to some extent. But there are many successful and quite normal results came out of these experiments.
But I do agree with you although, science and its powerful effect in our lives will not end there. And for whoever would want to do it, there is not a law that would sanction it yet.
Now when the errors outnumbers the good ones, perhaps there will be a control imposed by our laws, for right now, it is an open play for anyone, Cat. That is just the way it is.
Progress can't be stopped and these medical fields are by far the gross takers of revenues as a result of these inane and borderline crazy undertakings.
I wouldn't want to see failures, rather I want to exercise options should it benefit man.
On the medical side, billions of dollars are being hacked by the specialist on these operations. I have a friend whose hips had been so damaged and worn out due to wrestling and the doctor promised him to not only being able to do the things he had done without limitations but that it can make him even better. Now that is the upside of our high tech procedures Cat. And if a person has a lot of money to change every now and then, why not?
I would not have any doubt that most people who can afford would do it more than the hesitation of not changing it, even for mere experimentation.
I would wish to be involved with one only with natural endowments and sure of who they are, then again, I don't hold my breath on it.
Would it just be a mere feeling you think? So when one desires to alter themselves physically, like you said, the hormones, should it follow that they will have that fixed too? I am so interested to know, too, Cat and I will research. I am going to the gym for the next two hours and will get back with you.
And on you question will I marry him? Maybe not right away, as I always do, timing and adjustment take a lot of my effort and energy and growing so I will do the same, but falling in love? I will never question what my heart wants if I do feel deep within me, the burning sensation of being loved. I would, without hesitation but perhaps would be more cautious about being sure of who he has become..
KN I'm so like you my friend, although born from the pangs of poverty I was so lucky to have experienced all there is in having everything, more than we basically need and what a difference and learning it gives us to feel for the have nots. I'm happy for you my friend and let's try to do what can help others.
KN I'm so like you my friend, although born from the pangs of poverty I was so lucky to have experienced all there is in having everything, more than we basically need and what a difference and learning it gives us to feel for the have nots. I'm happy for you my friend and let's try to do what can help others.
Calleis, you've nailed it exactly as I've had in mind. I was so privileged to grasp the idea as as objective to share our blessings to the underprivileged and would have retired about 4 years ago had my plans didn't change.
My happiness would have truly been materialized but sometimes our fate change in a blink of an eye.
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G my friend how is Germany? I'm on my way to Europe. Sorry for all of us being fooled in believing a lie.