DARK EMOTIONS RISING UP IN OUR CORNER

Go ahead Nam, how are you my friend. Sometimes controversial declarations are those that either make us twisted or learn most of life. So I dare you to spit it out, will you?

Thanks for pointing it out Dedo, yes I agree it was not complete and I hope it is better now. I was more on the time frame of acceptance that we're taken yet not necessarily sure or even perhaps confused on our plight.

Z, I believe it's what makes us so difficult to act on it right away because of that. We stand on a rather confusing line, so we tend to become doubters but more so on our perception rather than those that use and manipulate us.

I tend to disagree Nam. While it is probably a very easy way out, yet what about if our doubts sometimes are just unfounded? Could it be that we're too paranoid?

Are we always right? What about seeking for truth with whom we're involved with? Remember if we do love someone and deception is not quite apparent, would we just walk out?

Fair enough Nam. I think we can only hope that when that feelings awake us, then we can either act on it right away to save us from so much prolonged sufferings.

Fear is also a factor. We love them so much and can't accept the lying they are leading us to.

Ek, thanks so much for your participation. I'm sold on your principles and sound practice. There's no way you can get hurt there. However. I'd have to state that the most beautiful love I've had are both from here.

Nevertheless, I'm sure all of us have our own shield for protection that serves us right.

Simmo, I'll get back soon, had a dinner date with my love and wrapping it up.

Thanks Guys

There must be more than a thousand questions running through your mind now Simmo, perhaps some you'll find answers and some not, but the truth of the matter is that there's a lot of them pure evil out there lurking in our midst, grab every opportunity that opens up to serve their claim. They think from a separate norm. Maybe we'll never understand them. But maybe they don't even have reasons. Just pure cold and cruel intentions for their needs.

But we are meant to get past these hurts. We're STRONG. In reality she's reading this and if conscience doesn't dig up to her bones, you're one lucky man, to have survived this hurdle in life.

We're lucky to ever share your story. Laugh with you and cry with you as we're one true community of good people.

Thanks Simmo. We all love you and that person is one unlucky soul.

Take care.

Fly I'm a little confused why claim your not being welcomed here. You're Most Needed part of all of us and thanks for joining.

It's not a question of your being better or not. It's a question of cruelty and inhumanity inflicted to a very caring and loving person. Why? Beats the hell out of me.

lind
Glad to hear from you...what an awful thing to happen...but we are all vulnerable...we all take chances and some decisions are bad ones but if we don't try...then we may never meet or become good friends...so although there may have been some red flags...we do need to try and trust as well...it is in the spirit of good things to come...

Molly my dear friend, thanks for your thoughts. Confirmed but when the flow of the emotions got opened up, like a dam holding up the current of the water, it's unabashed. Perhaps there are some of us who can control and use reservation, it's not me.

When I love, I give it all.

No holds barred.

My dearest lovely and caring friend. Thanks, I wouldn't have made the effort but because you're such a very wonderful person, I've found my way to glue myself back here. Exciting and quite rare to find ourselves united for one great cause. To show our love and undying concern for those we love.

Simmo is our catalyst here and his experience would definitely touch us deeply. Make us learn from our trusting ways to be carved out a little and be more careful and aware.

Love you all my friends.

My dearest darling Minerva, I'm so delighted you can participate. Your Wisdom Shines all through our world. Yes, caution is our best tool to avoid pitfalls, however, it's also what can make us miss some possibilities of the adventure we're so thrilled to find.

G my friend how is Germany? I'm on my way to Europe. Sorry for all of us being fooled in believing a lie.

Love you can easily say that and seems fit walking on egg shells but the truth is, there's enough tolerance we can all bear to find love and comfort even among the pile of rubbish, you know?

Then change happen and road to recovery for trust and joy abounds.

Yes love how was your last encounter?

Obs, I like that. There's thrill and euphoria from finding the truth. Livable and correctable depends on how enraptured we are indeed. But what about when we choose to accept the inconsistencies of what is truth?

No problem G. I can very well manage on my own.

Be careful love, when you sense that it's more of a difficult and miserable encounter then, just back off.

Take care

Johnny thanks for such a great experience, insight and explanation. Clear and simple relationship are often very boring. So shall the adventure within that situation. What do we do? Complicate and deliberately try to raise the bar of challenges we have to hurdle if only to measure the depths of our strength.

While not always the case, sometimes circumstances do shape themselves up because of who we are. Our differences and intricately complex make up driven by our cultural differences, beliefs, environment and values lead us to a very frayed understanding of our situations.

This is just part of our learning that can lead us to change, adjust and eventually adapt.

But the truth of the matter is, we do have the obligation to be observant and sharp and or simply be more keen when we're new.

In a situation where the old and conservative ways of getting on a relationship from someone who had known us forever us much easier. The new and revolutionary wave afforded us by the Web is, a totally different ballgames that requires more of meticulously and in depths if only to find out who we're dealing with.

Lying is a built-in technique for most of these people to serve their interest.

Now yes, valuing your experience as to how it gave you a different perspective and adventure is grossly understate if games of pure destruction is not employed.

But being calculating, cold and purely being used and apply deceit is cruel. Period.

It mutilated us, cripple our belief and poison our soul.

Yes, we do need to rise above and heal. Charge it to our experience.

When thieving of one's IDENTITY is involved, then that is a heavy crime meted for federal punishment.

Truth, Johnny is that there are many EVIL PEOPLE out there so we just have to be careful.

Thanks