From all these comments,I start to feel to much of the independence....isn't it already overshadowing the importance of Love....if we have to bother so much about the freedom,have we then at all find the one,that is enough important for us?
To make it clear how I feel about to be in a relationship or not is, that in my Mind,it is much better to live alone,than to live together,but still feel like being alone.
you have to be a good guy and your Ex had almost sure problems to live up to your way of straight life....I have similar examples,where my ex was diving after the separation and I believe they was in a stress situation,when showing me good example,they where to weak to go on with it for longer and when our relationship broke down,they dived deeper than ever.....I think it has much to do with disappointment about them self and then they don't care so much anymore....
you are saying,"Actually I believe you only really learn a person when you break up!" ....that has happen to me exactly every single time,I have broke up with somebody.
WOOOOOOOOOW.....that was the time when singers was real singers,now days it is just so mechanical and fake,that you don't even know if it is the real voice....and,and,and,yes I have to say it,similar looks to has happen to the understanding of LOVE
In USA it is all about "Muslimfobia"....in Germany,Sweden and Finland it is again "We have a Dream Bubble".....the only Country,that handle things in full reality is Canada,thanks to their new PM Trudeau and his cabinet,that is filled with ministers of different ethnicity.
This Blog is good,but I don't think I can be telling about my self objectively,so I put here how my children and my grandchild was judging me with 5 different opinions, some years ago....I was first sitting in the same table with them,when they start to do it and I saw,that my Son,that is a legislator put in his paper,that I'm stubborn and I protested to him,that I'm not stubborn,I'm headstrong,to what he answered,"Don't come with your own opinion,when you ask us to honesty tell you how we feel about you,it is better that you leave".....and I left.
So his opinions was: Intelligent,stubborn,kind hearted,Jack of all trades and Spiritual.
My youngest Son: Strong willed,stubborn,handy,artistic,energetic.
My Daughter: Strong mentally family rock,intelligent,passionate,honest(even brutally),good listener and adviser.
My Grandson still a child: Rich,sweet and nice,intelligent,loves his wife no matter what happens,behaves himself.
Okay,I have still to put in little of my finger too,so next is an aphorism,how I feel and I did it first some months ago in Finnish and translated it now to English,so I can only hope,that my words are right and follow the Finnish meaning.
Secrecy is weakness, transparency is strength, the first one act in a bubble, the second one in the eye of a storm.
Humaneness is a construction from feelings, wisdom is a collection of experiences, the first one is directed by our self, the second one by timeless awareness.
To live alone is freedom, living together is fulfillness, the first one bother you with longing, the second with a level of demands.
About intimacy I'm not going to tell anything really,but if any Lady show up here in Antigua and to my House,then it is better,she has several lipsticks with her.
thank's for you intention to teach me separately,but I'm already far away from a beginner. I had a negative Kundalini 36 years ago and one year later I took some classes in Transcendent Meditation,that is founded by Maharishi Mahesh yogi and I'm sure you know who he is.
In my first meditation,with my Teacher,I moved half way out from my body and when my Teacher understood what had happened,he immediately wanted me to start as a student in Maharishis headquarter in Seelisberg Switzerland,where Maharishi by him self was in that time living....he try everything to convince me,he told about the life there and how you could even in the night go to Maharishi,because when he was sleeping,he could still communicate with you. In that time my life was in a situation,that I could not do it,but I followed for some years all the instruction I had got for meditation....but after that it was to simple meditation for me and I start step by step developing the meditation by my self.
Last 5 years,I have meditate less,but still every morning about 1 hour,before that I meditate every morning from 2-4 hours and I have meditate in last 35 years at least for 30 000 hours....a lot of my sleeping is connected to normal conscious and when I close my Eyes even in the day time,I'm seeing dream time immediately.
So I did not ask you any help,I only wanted you to be aware,that some People are very sensitive and if they don't get information,what could happen,if something open quickly,then they can be very scared.
I think you are doing a good work,but it is good still to take everything into consideration.
what you are advising here is of course a good help for Individuals to get an understanding how to start to open the third Eye,but you should also warn about what happen when it start suddenly for some Individuals to work heavily,because if you are coming scared in that moment when you start to see Spirits around you or you realize exactly the real in other People,that looks not so nice,then you easily block your self from it and it is very much harder to get it to work a second time. My Daughter experienced that situation very heavily,when she was in the collage in USA,she saw the burst of different colors from the face of her Teachers depending of what mood they had and in the night in her dark bedroom some Spirits was present,so she came so scared,that she blocked everything out and it took years for her to get it back. My older Son was about 15 years old,when everything was opening for him and when he told about the Spirits around him,then I ask him,if he was afraid,to what he answered very clearly,YES....but when I explain to him little more about it,then he calm down and whole the process was growing steadily and still expanding in all directions.
My younger Son again was about 11 when it happened to him and in that moment he lie on the top of the back part of our sofa....suddenly he lost his conscious,fell on the floor in the back of the sofa and I was first little in a chock,about what had happen to him,but then he open his eyes and he start to talk with an Mans voice,that first explained what had happen,from where he was coming and then giving information's to our questions,like that there are more Universes that is connected to our own Universe,like in a flower formation....in that time about 25 years ago,the Astronomical scientist had not yet tough,that it could be the case,the first time they came up with it was about 2 years ago,when they told,that they believe,there are more Universes existing....that same voice visited several time more and gave a lot of information,but the very good thing was,that my younger Son took it very calmly,even he was so young.
It is possible to move the energy over to an other Person and open the ability and I can do it when the other Person are calm down and sitting with Eyes close in front of me and then I keep the Person in Both hands....it take first some minutes,but then the energy start to flow and the other Person can clearly feel it....I have done it to 2 outsiders from my Family and both of them can heal and can see into the Human body as also see the Spirits around....these 2 Persons have good hearts and that is why I did it,because these abilities are not meant for making money,they are for to help Humanity and if you use them in a egoistic way,your development is going to vanish....
So when we tell the way how to open the third Eye,we have to also give the protecting information,what could happen,because for some People it could be like a big burst and then a scary experience,that can make a very traumatic situation.
yes,you are right that there are many enlightened People in the West too and I have some friend too like that,but if you take the whole Population in the West,then we still talk about a very low per cent of enlightened and the heavy storm is still on the place....there is a Lady in Finland,that looks to have very effective healing hands,but it took very long time before she open her self about it to me and then she told me,that she do her healing only to very close People and that only very few people know over all,that she has that ability....the funny thing is,that what ever subject you come up with,that is not in the normal standard,there is going to be a storm and the most hard hits are coming from People,that have no real experience about the subject and hardly know anything about it,but they still show up like as experts....that's why most enlightened talents just stay underground,what is of course pity,because many of them could give so much to the Humanity.
you go and distribute it and you get a heavy storm against you,so let the Doctors make the job....you are from India and I believe,that you know very well,What I'm talking about,because I have been in the past several time to India and I have met many Spiritually talented People there...here in West it was only Jesus that was able to heal and when you tell,that you have the ability,you are in seconds made an impostor.....
There where Priests in the Village's of Inuits,that was raping a lot of Girls too.....so the past is not anything nice at all,but fortunately it looks now that the new Canadian Government are going work with it and bring out the Truth.
tank's for your wishes....yes,he is very much him self now and 4 days ago,when I talk with him for 2 hours,he said to me,that he don't want ever to be that Person again,that he was before he came to Antigua....I told him in the Summer,that when you are honestly your self,most People can feel it and they accept you better....all children like him now in his School and the Teachers tell just positive things about him.....he was even elected as Children's representative for his grade in the School,what in fact was a big surprise for himself.
You have never hurt me and I don't think I have hurt you ether....the only thing I think you did not like,was that I left 10 months ago,but honestly,it is still possible to follow the Blogs,even you are not a member and did that sometimes an I never forgot your lively attitude and your way of helping people in trouble.
There are so few people,that has a real good Heart,but your Blog here is telling me,that you are definitely one of them.
I hope,that you next year is the best ever year for you
I don't know about that case,but I have my own opinion about being a Parent and I think it was little more hard too,because I was a single Parent,with almost no support from their Mothers.
The Children that have lived with me,has the opinion,that I'm hard,but have a good heart....last Summer my Grandson had to face the same thing and even he is now 12 years old,he did with me a very big turnaround in his life....when I drive him to the Airport,when he was on the way back to Finland,he was questioning abut when he could have a chance to visit me again and I answered him,"why you want to come back,when I have been so hard with you"to what I got his answer,"I like that you was hard to me".
To my two Children,that have succeed extremely well,I told them already when they was 6-7 years old,that the only thing I give them in material way,is the money support for whatever education they want,but after that,they are on their own and when I die,the rest of my wealth are going to charity.....it was working perfectly,the other one has 3 different degrees,with 7 different languages and the other has 5 different degrees.
I never gave my Children a load of gifts and when other people came with them,I always took most of them and put them in storage.
My opinion is,that Children have to get Wings and they have to learn as small as possible to make their own decisions and take responsibility for their life,we parents has to be advisers,feeding them more with mental stuff,than with material and of course they have to feel,that we really Love them.....and real Love is not to give them all what they want,real Love is,to prepare them for the life by them self and to get them to understand,that Life is never easy.....that is what my Grandson realize last summer too,when he was here and he said to me,"so I have to learn,that life is not only nice things,that it is more about responsibility and hard".
You said in a comment on one Blog,something in the way,that an enemy can change to a friend and that part of your opinion I really like and that's why you have my comment on your blog.
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....that has happen to me exactly every single time,I have broke up with somebody.
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From all these comments,I start to feel to much of the independence....isn't it already overshadowing the importance of Love....if we have to bother so much about the freedom,have we then at all find the one,that is enough important for us?