Afraid Of Commitment?
Yes, I am
Well, it’s a scary word. For so many reasons, most of us are afraid to commit in a relationship. It would take a load of craps, guts and courage to commit…only those who are courageously in love will give a relationship their best shot – commitment.
Those who feel vulnerable, those who seek for something better, those who dwell in the past, those who have unrealistic expectations will always have difficulty in committing themselves in a relationship even if they found that “perfect partner”…the same people who will more likely end up as lonely bitter old men/women.
No-string attached relationships works for many. Most of us have temporarily fixes for our loneliness: jobs, ONS, LDR, alcohol drugs, “dating”, chatting, flirting, playing – they’re just that…temporary!
There’ll come a time when one realizes that they have simply wasted those precious time and opportunity to be happier and the opportunity to live a more fulfilling life till the end.
How long have you been blogging here? How many have you met online and in real life but didn’t take that chance to start a good relationship ?
? I bet my bums it’s not because they’re not good enough for us…it’s because we have other options…better ones…or so we thought!
Most of us regular bloggers here are simply bullshitting…we’re not here to look for a love or for a life partner…we’re too “smart” for that.
Sadly, CS became a hunting ground for scammers , wankers and players. 
Many here profess their expertise when it comes to life , love, sex and relationships…
but how fulfilling is your love life ? How far would you go for love ? Would you commit ?...or cut and run before you could get hurt again?
Comments (78)
Want to commit = clingy
Not intrested = mysterious
Still waiting on my video,
Yes, they do that
A man's got to do what a man's got to do
then we will be blogging here for life..
they said if you really really want something...or someone...give them your best shot...can you do that?
as for the video...what's app???
Sensible...sensible choice
what app is my video on
Some aren't even looking, just enjoying the social side, or would rather not meet and spoil the cyber-flirtation, thanks anyway.
I think commit is a scary word, and really it is more about compromise, fine tuning a promising start until it either falters and grinds to a halt, or settles into an enduring pattern, and the little engine that could is prepared to take on some hills and blind corners and see just how long this road is
are you giving yourself a good talking to by giving out to us
I'm not afraid of commitment
but i am of men
that simply means ...you're commited
all you need to do is find a nutty one too
sounds like you're already committed....to the blogs!
yes, you can commit and she will commit...just book a flight and meet her halfway...
as for the video...I will send you one soon...
I think it's much easier for the "older" and matured ones to commit...those who know exactly what they want...but find it harder to find what they're looking for...can't be that picky anymore...
those who play around...easily get satisfied by some quick easy fix need to mature and think hard...life could get lonely...very lonely one day if we don't mend our ways...
Afraid of men...sounds the same to me...when we commit there's always that fear that we could get hurt along the way but we give it a go...we give it our best shot and try to make it work...to make it last...at least for many good years if not forever...the we could say " at least I tried and did what I had to do"
they're obviously nutters...ignore them, no sense in wasting your time...
commit to that special...very special person only...really worthy of your respect and commitment...
A blogger I haven't seen in a while - where is BC? - used to give each spammer the last spammer's email address. Inspired.
But by the sounds of it
your giving it a go?
yes,alot of here in CS!!
BC, if you are reading this...we miss you, please come back
just play the game....
what exactly are you going to do?
Sometimes when things are good in the now,change can sometimes spoil such things
I guess different people have a different idea of what commitment is.
For some, it is the whole marriage (maybe even babies) thing.
For others it is living together as a couple.
Yet others, are committed once they are together, seeing each other regularly and are monogamous.
While others see an exclusive LDR as being in a committed relationship.
Maybe we should define what committed means to us as individuals, and then we mightn't see it as such a scary thing,
I don't hate being alone more than I would hate being with the wrong person.
hold it right there....I'll get back to you shortly...let me finish my pizza here
Rolf
Yes, commitment doesn't mean marriage...it has many shape and forms...but I do know it means exclusiveness, respect, love...and a lot more... a big thing really
as for settling for second best...No!
make the most of what we have...of what we can have...work on it and make it great...is all