The "Affluenza Teen"

Good morning everyone.wave

I am not here to bring bad news but trust me on this one, it is for all of us to learn. Both as parents and the (In)Justice applied in the case.

The title of the news is: "Will the Affluenza Teen's Mom be charged Now That Her Son is Detained in Mexico"?

Anyone who has been following on the story would know that first of all, it was wrong to create a term like Affluenza just to make an excuse of the accountability of killing four people. Second, that being rich and think wealth can make you get away with all the wrong things done, don't always work.

I would love to hear everyone's opinion on this one.

Affluenza: "a psychological malaise supposedly affecting wealthy young people, symptoms of which include a lack of motivation, feelings of guilt, and a sense of isolation" from Dictionary.

Thank you all for your reads and comments.

Note: I absolutely believe that there was a great injustice done to humanity on this one.
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this is why they say " money talk and bulls-it walks this guy deserve the full length of the law . just google the story and all the mother are responsible for is aiding and abetting a criminal she should be charged for helping him , but for killing those people 15 years for each death and another 10 for driving under the influence .

there are no price on another person's life but he will not live to get out anyway ,he ended four lives that day what about those died?
Georgie, thank you so much.

I can't believe how this case was ever handled.

A big yes to your opinion. How could have the judge be so callous to have handled it the way she did.

We can learn on this one Georgie. We as parents should and must be responsible in the acts of our children.sad flower
a good parent will let the child pay for his or her sins , i am a mother myself and i do love my kids but i put myself in those other parents and families shoes and its a sad one i will not protect my kids for such a wrong i will protect them with my life if in other danger that they didnt create .

there are kids without a mom or a dad a brother without his sister or his brother or a sister without his brother etc at least he will be alive in prison.
those who died didnt get a chance .
yes we must and because the kids know daddy or mommy will stand and protect they they think they are untouchable especially when they have a large bank account.

rich or poor no one life is more valuable than another .
Yes. What gets me so much is the fact that the mother took it upon herself to shield her son with the first wrong he did, then take him somewhere and without guilt, do the same thing over and over again. Otherwise why did he fail to abide by the rules? His probation terms?

If we all treat our children and abate them the responsibility of their actions, they will never learn. He could have gone to prison and deal with it.

You are right, we protect our children from all the evils of this world and we do our best to teach them what is right and how to avoid making mistakes. The way the judgment went, no remorse, no accountability. Plain wrong.
Imagine the shortened lives of those four people. If I were the parents of those people killed, I definitely would have made my son, paid the price so that our society is not burdened with these preventable mistakes.sad flower
exactly.

the mother should get sentence at least 10 years because she didnt kill those people but with her actions she may as well be driving .
supporting such an action by violating the boy's probation .
they are selfish people only thinking about themselves.
what about those death? dont thay have no remorse ?
1to how are you? Nice of you to be here every now and then. I am always praying for you when I don't see you, that everything is alright.

Anyways, our society is sick Ito and the justice system is even more sick for this kind of judgment. How unfair to let people be free of responsibility when they owe that much to the society.

Specifically those people that got killed. How would have they felt? It is unbelievable that things like these happen. sad flower sad flower
Georgie, I understand we all make mistake, but with an error like this, it was wrong to just let him go unaccounted for.

I would not only recommend 10 years for the mother, but more for the son, subject him to strict rehabilitation and his actions would have been focused on teaching others not to do the same.

What happened is manipulation of wealth. Make it an excuse to not know what his responsibilities were because he is rich? What kind of a teaching is that?sad flower
I think the parents should be punished too...

I would not shield my son from the law if he committed such terrible crime. For him to be a better man and have a better future, he needs to respect himself, others and the law...and have to accept the consequences of his action.

As a parent, I will be the first to teach him how to do good and be away from bad influences...if he doesn't listen, I will be the first to punish himmumbling
Hi Lindsy,

I agree with you, the 'lawyer made-up' Affluenza excuse is a joke. Just as when lawyers say their client was Insane at the time of the crime, and that should be their excuse. doh

The crime was committed, people got hurt or killed. Someone is to blame or it wouldn't have happened.

By the way, I knew this lady that was soo very very pretty, I would let her get away with just about anything, because she was so pretty.. and one day, one day.. she did get away. She got away from me. DARN IT! frustrated I hate when that happens.

Have a nice day. tip hat
Thank you Georgie for supplying all the details.

This is a story of injustice born of wealth manipulation. It is very apparent that these are arrogant, selfish and irresponsible parents. Can we learn from them? I dearly hope so.

sad flower
well lindsyjones 4 death and 15 years each thats 60 and the 10 for driving under the influence thats 70 and he is what now ? he would dead before he comes out anyway and i should have added at hard labor too he should be made to work and not just sit and eat tax payers money, i think that would be discipline enough . i cant even begin to imagine those died and the love ones left behind .
Georgie, that added info, sure adds another twist, to an already twisted story, doh Thanks for the insight.
welcome 1to1to1bouquet
Yes Georgie, these are signs of trouble that was embedded in his family culture. I am now absolutely certain that the parents are the evil ones and the child was a victim of poor influence and lacking a responsible parenting. The first time these criminal tendencies were coming out, the parents should have attended classes to strengthen society values.sad flower
Exactly Georgie, these are parents that propelled their children to the commitment of these injustice to humanity and the judge. What a crook she is.
Robert, how are you my dear. That, too, insane during the commission of the crime. What a joke our justice is sometimes.

But on your love one, why didn't you go run away with her?sad flower
what i dont like is why when a person steal no matter how great or small u are a thief but when u kill someone using a gun or a knife they call it murder but manslaughter when u hit someone with a car? death is death no matter how it happens and should be sentence as such.
Georgie, I think the effort on how the crime is committed play a very big role on the use of the term. When an intent is used meaning planned and or premeditated, then that is called murder. It suffices the longer and more severe punishment. Whereas when an accident happens, in this case of the Couch, then there was no premeditated.

That is why, the law on the intoxication is very serious because it does create an imbalance in our capacity to function under normal condition. There is no direct planning involved in getting someone killed and that is why it is called accident. But you are right when a person is drunk and go on driving and kill someone, that should, in effect a murder.sad flower
Manang,

when I went to visit a friend, a decade ago...Yazan was just few months old. Some teenagers threw peebles and small stones at my friend's gate, some hit the window close to where Yazan was sleeping. I chased the ring leader all the way to his home, entered their home while his family were having tea. I was very angry and his parents gently asked me what happened, I told them what their son did, his father kicked the door in his room where he was hiding, dragged him out and beat him. That teenager was about 14 years old. The family apologized to me, went with me to the house of my friend and checked for any damages and heartily apologized to my friend and told us to let them know if we ever see their son hanging out with his others friends there again...that was the last time those teenager hanged out by my friend's streetlaugh
yes i know but taking a life no matter the effort is the same to me each one of us deserve to live as long as we wee permitted by our creator and even though it was an accident i think its still murder.

well thats my views anyway ,
its just so sad when another person life is cut short by another especially so carelessly.
crazy heart thats good parenting on both sides i would have done the same never take up for a child when he or she is wrong.
but scold him and let him pay for his bad deeds in some ways because it begins right there.
later on that little stone throwing can become something else.
a seed doesnt stay a seed forever and a tree doesnt stay small forever eitehr.
Yes Ito, it is very wrong to do what the parents did and even more so for the judge.sad flower
Now ading that is the very right thing to do. And the parents of the kid did the right thing too. This is a case of a minor child's innocent lack of good judgment but the way you acted and the way the parents responded is a classic example on the good manners and right conduct that we learn in school and more so from our parents.

Bravo ading, I know you would be the one to do like that and if all of us would do the same, then we raise good and responsible kids. Punish them for the things they have done and praise them for the goods they do.
One thing remain constant and can't be altered Georgie is of course, the lost of lives. No matter how it happened, we know for a fact that the sorrows and grief from the families of these poor victims remain the same. Deep and difficult.sad flower sad flower
I remember so many things that we have done to make our children be accountable for all the things they do. My mother of course was the best teacher and never failed to show love and kindness to my children. I remember my fellow parents begging me to let my daughters go and sleep in their friends house as they can see the great positive influence my children have done to theirs.

One this is certain, I never had any cable on my house and they never watched any bad stuff on television. I think this is one way of filtering bad things that are otherwise influence their mind to do wrong.sad flower
Ading, scolding is a good way of disciplining children. But I talk to them nicely in front of others and be firm that what they did is wrong and deemed for apology. I am not in favor of hitting children or anyone and my children never do it with their children either.

But honest to goodness, this is how I disciplined my children, whenever they did something wrong or bad, they give an equivalent of jumping and or sit ups and push ups. It worked. They were very careful to not make any mistakes because of that. Time out to them was not standing on the corner, but work hard to atone what they have done.

Ading, my kudos to your courage and strength in reaching out for those parents and sometimes we parents, are not aware of what these young children do. it is therefore imperative that we reach our fellow parents and let them know what these children have done.

Thank you ading.bouquet bouquet teddybear teddybear
good blog.....just wanted to say hi to you...i will be back..later for commenting...cheers hug teddybear teddybear
I don't know about that case,but I have my own opinion about being a Parent and I think it was little more hard too,because I was a single Parent,with almost no support from their Mothers.

The Children that have lived with me,has the opinion,that I'm hard,but have a good heart....last Summer my Grandson had to face the same thing and even he is now 12 years old,he did with me a very big turnaround in his life....when I drive him to the Airport,when he was on the way back to Finland,he was questioning abut when he could have a chance to visit me again and I answered him,"why you want to come back,when I have been so hard with you"to what I got his answer,"I like that you was hard to me".

To my two Children,that have succeed extremely well,I told them already when they was 6-7 years old,that the only thing I give them in material way,is the money support for whatever education they want,but after that,they are on their own and when I die,the rest of my wealth are going to charity.....it was working perfectly,the other one has 3 different degrees,with 7 different languages and the other has 5 different degrees.

I never gave my Children a load of gifts and when other people came with them,I always took most of them and put them in storage.

My opinion is,that Children have to get Wings and they have to learn as small as possible to make their own decisions and take responsibility for their life,we parents has to be advisers,feeding them more with mental stuff,than with material and of course they have to feel,that we really Love them.....and real Love is not to give them all what they want,real Love is,to prepare them for the life by them self and to get them to understand,that Life is never easy.....that is what my Grandson realize last summer too,when he was here and he said to me,"so I have to learn,that life is not only nice things,that it is more about responsibility and hard".
Teena, thanks my dear and I hope all is well with you.teddybear bouquet
Semsu, you have nailed it bulls eye. I mean everything that you said, are but the true and proper ways of raising children. Of course, non of us are perfect and even after teaching our children all the good stuff, they go on their own and experience life. Sometimes they take it upon themselves to take the living on their own, but trust that those words of wisdom and good example will do them good.

When my youngest daughter was 17 16 years old, she rebelled and fought me as hell to not live with my rules. She left for and it took her 6 months to realize that she would rather live in my world than out there. She turned out to be the smartest and most loving person there is in this world and she is not only the teacher of the two sisters and my son but the glue that makes them all together and love life.

Thank you Semsu.wine bouquet
Phyllis,

Great post! I just hope that justice prevails in this case!

Good seeing you!hug
Thanks Jim
lind

Lou thank you so much for this info.

How are you?

I hope you had a wonderful holiday.

Happy New Years Lou.teddybear teddybear bouquet bouquet
lind
I was working but cest la vie...lol...laugh

Hope your holidays were good...and have a great New Year!!

wine hug
I had one of the most memorable season of my life Lou. My friend of 35 years whom I love so dearly and the one who introduced me here almost 5 years ago bought me a 10 day cruise at the Caribbean. We were going to Barcelona and all the Mediterrenean but the schedule was messed up. And a round trip ticket for Hawaii from my children. Couldn't ask for more Lou. health wise I am in good shape and so are my children.

Thanks. Stay as beautiful as you are, will you?bouquet teddybear teddybear
"Affluenza,"

Political language... is designed to make lies sound truthful and murder respectable, and to give an appearance of solidity to pure wind.
~George Orwell~
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Sounds like an excuse..."Affluenza"...like a cold or flu...any excuse will do...sigh
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