The "Affluenza Teen"
Good morning everyone.I am not here to bring bad news but trust me on this one, it is for all of us to learn. Both as parents and the (In)Justice applied in the case.
The title of the news is: "Will the Affluenza Teen's Mom be charged Now That Her Son is Detained in Mexico"?
Anyone who has been following on the story would know that first of all, it was wrong to create a term like Affluenza just to make an excuse of the accountability of killing four people. Second, that being rich and think wealth can make you get away with all the wrong things done, don't always work.
I would love to hear everyone's opinion on this one.
Affluenza: "a psychological malaise supposedly affecting wealthy young people, symptoms of which include a lack of motivation, feelings of guilt, and a sense of isolation" from Dictionary.
Thank you all for your reads and comments.
Note: I absolutely believe that there was a great injustice done to humanity on this one.
Comments (44)
there are no price on another person's life but he will not live to get out anyway ,he ended four lives that day what about those died?
I can't believe how this case was ever handled.
A big yes to your opinion. How could have the judge be so callous to have handled it the way she did.
We can learn on this one Georgie. We as parents should and must be responsible in the acts of our children.
there are kids without a mom or a dad a brother without his sister or his brother or a sister without his brother etc at least he will be alive in prison.
those who died didnt get a chance .
rich or poor no one life is more valuable than another .
If we all treat our children and abate them the responsibility of their actions, they will never learn. He could have gone to prison and deal with it.
You are right, we protect our children from all the evils of this world and we do our best to teach them what is right and how to avoid making mistakes. The way the judgment went, no remorse, no accountability. Plain wrong.
the mother should get sentence at least 10 years because she didnt kill those people but with her actions she may as well be driving .
supporting such an action by violating the boy's probation .
they are selfish people only thinking about themselves.
what about those death? dont thay have no remorse ?
Anyways, our society is sick Ito and the justice system is even more sick for this kind of judgment. How unfair to let people be free of responsibility when they owe that much to the society.
Specifically those people that got killed. How would have they felt? It is unbelievable that things like these happen.
I would not only recommend 10 years for the mother, but more for the son, subject him to strict rehabilitation and his actions would have been focused on teaching others not to do the same.
What happened is manipulation of wealth. Make it an excuse to not know what his responsibilities were because he is rich? What kind of a teaching is that?
I would not shield my son from the law if he committed such terrible crime. For him to be a better man and have a better future, he needs to respect himself, others and the law...and have to accept the consequences of his action.
As a parent, I will be the first to teach him how to do good and be away from bad influences...if he doesn't listen, I will be the first to punish him
I agree with you, the 'lawyer made-up' Affluenza excuse is a joke. Just as when lawyers say their client was Insane at the time of the crime, and that should be their excuse.
The crime was committed, people got hurt or killed. Someone is to blame or it wouldn't have happened.
By the way, I knew this lady that was soo very very pretty, I would let her get away with just about anything, because she was so pretty.. and one day, one day.. she did get away. She got away from me. DARN IT! I hate when that happens.
Have a nice day.
This is a story of injustice born of wealth manipulation. It is very apparent that these are arrogant, selfish and irresponsible parents. Can we learn from them? I dearly hope so.
But on your love one, why didn't you go run away with her?
That is why, the law on the intoxication is very serious because it does create an imbalance in our capacity to function under normal condition. There is no direct planning involved in getting someone killed and that is why it is called accident. But you are right when a person is drunk and go on driving and kill someone, that should, in effect a murder.
when I went to visit a friend, a decade ago...Yazan was just few months old. Some teenagers threw peebles and small stones at my friend's gate, some hit the window close to where Yazan was sleeping. I chased the ring leader all the way to his home, entered their home while his family were having tea. I was very angry and his parents gently asked me what happened, I told them what their son did, his father kicked the door in his room where he was hiding, dragged him out and beat him. That teenager was about 14 years old. The family apologized to me, went with me to the house of my friend and checked for any damages and heartily apologized to my friend and told us to let them know if we ever see their son hanging out with his others friends there again...that was the last time those teenager hanged out by my friend's street
well thats my views anyway ,
its just so sad when another person life is cut short by another especially so carelessly.
but scold him and let him pay for his bad deeds in some ways because it begins right there.
later on that little stone throwing can become something else.
a seed doesnt stay a seed forever and a tree doesnt stay small forever eitehr.
Bravo ading, I know you would be the one to do like that and if all of us would do the same, then we raise good and responsible kids. Punish them for the things they have done and praise them for the goods they do.
One this is certain, I never had any cable on my house and they never watched any bad stuff on television. I think this is one way of filtering bad things that are otherwise influence their mind to do wrong.
But honest to goodness, this is how I disciplined my children, whenever they did something wrong or bad, they give an equivalent of jumping and or sit ups and push ups. It worked. They were very careful to not make any mistakes because of that. Time out to them was not standing on the corner, but work hard to atone what they have done.
Ading, my kudos to your courage and strength in reaching out for those parents and sometimes we parents, are not aware of what these young children do. it is therefore imperative that we reach our fellow parents and let them know what these children have done.
Thank you ading.
The Children that have lived with me,has the opinion,that I'm hard,but have a good heart....last Summer my Grandson had to face the same thing and even he is now 12 years old,he did with me a very big turnaround in his life....when I drive him to the Airport,when he was on the way back to Finland,he was questioning abut when he could have a chance to visit me again and I answered him,"why you want to come back,when I have been so hard with you"to what I got his answer,"I like that you was hard to me".
To my two Children,that have succeed extremely well,I told them already when they was 6-7 years old,that the only thing I give them in material way,is the money support for whatever education they want,but after that,they are on their own and when I die,the rest of my wealth are going to charity.....it was working perfectly,the other one has 3 different degrees,with 7 different languages and the other has 5 different degrees.
I never gave my Children a load of gifts and when other people came with them,I always took most of them and put them in storage.
My opinion is,that Children have to get Wings and they have to learn as small as possible to make their own decisions and take responsibility for their life,we parents has to be advisers,feeding them more with mental stuff,than with material and of course they have to feel,that we really Love them.....and real Love is not to give them all what they want,real Love is,to prepare them for the life by them self and to get them to understand,that Life is never easy.....that is what my Grandson realize last summer too,when he was here and he said to me,"so I have to learn,that life is not only nice things,that it is more about responsibility and hard".
When my youngest daughter was 17 16 years old, she rebelled and fought me as hell to not live with my rules. She left for and it took her 6 months to realize that she would rather live in my world than out there. She turned out to be the smartest and most loving person there is in this world and she is not only the teacher of the two sisters and my son but the glue that makes them all together and love life.
Thank you Semsu.
Great post! I just hope that justice prevails in this case!
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Political language... is designed to make lies sound truthful and murder respectable, and to give an appearance of solidity to pure wind.
~George Orwell~
Sounds like an excuse..."Affluenza"...like a cold or flu...any excuse will do...