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I have written some thing based on things I have heard or read through out the years. It is as follows:
The current of recognition that flows between two people, when their eyes make contact at first sight.
Transcending beyond the physical of their bodies, to their Spirits within.
This is true Love.
Yet, it is greater than the Summation of parts,(the two people), combined.
It is vastly more powerful.
It is a Force connecting them to a Greater Love, and a Higher Purpose.
Thereby, creating one Soul with two Hearts.
The tying of the two through True Love, it is Unconditional and Infinite, with there being nothing to ever diminish it.
Nothing - not Illness, Hardship nor Death, for Eternity.
I was Blessed to have this with my Late Husband, before he destroyed himself and us with Drugs and Alcohol.
I know many here say that it was only lust. I say in my defense, I was far, far too naive for that and it is true.
The things, John and I felt were far too powerful. I remember meeting his eyes, on the first day of Rifle Team meeting @ College.
The shock of recognition was like a flash of Lightning, as in it is an atmospheric discharge of electricity, which typically occurs during thunderstorms, and sometimes during volcanic eruptions or dust storms.
It was so sudden and very overwhelming. Like being struck by a freight train. I remember thinking to myself, How can this BE? I don't know him, yet, I KNOW him.
Time stilled around us. A warm light encircled us. A deep warmth also caressed our hearts and souls. There was a voice in our minds telling us: This is your Mate". It seemed as if beautiful music came out of nowhere.
We were in such shock, that we were stilled. Our team mates called Coach over because they thought we were going to fall to the ground.
None of them could get our attention because we were frozen to the spot and our eyes were elsewhwere, like we were in a physical shock, is the only way to describe it, we were told.
Coach had to call us and lightly shake our arms. When we came out of it, we said what was that?
When we were told what happpened, we were kind of stunned. When we were asked what happened we said we did not know.
Coach then introduced us to each other. We shook hands and there was a very electric shock when our hands touched. The shock was so strong, it caused us to once again go trance like. Again Coach talked to us and lightly rubbed our arms until we came out of it.
Coach Lewis, told us on our Wedding Day, that what happened to us the day we met was the first time he had ever seen Love @ first sight. He had heard of it but never experienced it. He said he heard the sound of electricity when we shook hands, then when we went still, he was stunned.
He and Mrs. Lewis told us that when he told her what happened and they figurd it out, they were a little envious of us, yet because of how it effected us, they were glad they never experienced it.
I do beleive in Love at First Sight, as I experienced it. I do not expect to find it again. I don't know that I will be so Blessed more than once.
Yet, I could be wrong. I know others whom HAVE been so blessed. So I hope that, whatever Powers that be, I would be blessed this way again.
So, yes, if i meet the right man for my Mate, I would marry again.
But it would also depend on the absent parent. Why they went absent. If they are not a threat to the child they should have a relationship.
If they cannot get over the Custody parent nor how they feel 'cheated' It should be supervised visitation, even if the visits take place @ the Police Station.
abbiye: he did drugs when he was much younger,and was honest about it.as long as hes doesnt take them anymore,so what.a lot of politicians take drug substances,is it because you dont know.it was a mistake he made in the past,people make mistakes thats why we are human.so let it remain where its suppose to be IN THE PAST.people tend to look at the negative sides of other people,that aint right let his present actions speak for him not his past. JMO.
Oh comon, Clinton and others did drugs. I nfact, MOST of that agegroup did do drugs. As long ha it is past forget it.
As to your response, I don't approve of killing. Yet, once someone has paid his/her dues to society, that SHOULD be it.
I have written some thing based on things I have heard or read through out the years. It is as follows:
The current of recognition that flows between two people, when their eyes make contact at first sight.
Transcending beyond the physical of their bodies, to their Spirits within.
This is true Love.
Yet, it is greater than the Summation of parts,(the two people), combined.
It is vastly more powerful.
It is a Force connecting them to a Greater Love, and a Higher Purpose.
Thereby, creating one Soul with two Hearts.
The tying of the two through True Love, it is Unconditional and Infinite, with there being nothing to ever diminish it.
Nothing - not Illness, Hardship nor Death, for Eternity.
I was Blessed to have this with my Late Husband, before he destroyed himself and us with Drugs and Alcohol.
I know many here say that it was only lust. I say in my defense, I was far, far too naive for that and it is true.
The things, John and I felt were far too powerful. I remember meeting his eyes, on the first day of Rifle Team meeting @ College.
The shock of recognition was like a flash of Lightning, as in it is an atmospheric discharge of electricity, which typically occurs during thunderstorms, and sometimes during volcanic eruptions or dust storms.
It was so sudden and very overwhelming. Like being struck by a freight train. I remember thinking to myself, How can this BE? I don't know him, yet, I KNOW him.
Time stilled around us. A warm light encircled us. A deep warmth also caressed our hearts and souls. There was a voice in our minds telling us: This is your Mate". It seemed as if beautiful music came out of nowhere.
We were in such shock, that we were stilled. Our team mates called Coach over because they thought we were going to fall to the ground.
None of them could get our attention because we were frozen to the spot and our eyes were elsewhwere, like we were in a physical shock, is the only way to describe it, we were told.
Coach had to call us and lightly shake our arms. When we came out of it, we said what was that?
When we were told what happpened, we were kind of stunned. When we were asked what happened we said we did not know.
Coach then introduced us to each other. We shook hands and there was a very electric shock when our hands touched. The shock was so strong, it caused us to once again go trance like. Again Coach talked to us and lightly rubbed our arms until we came out of it.
Coach Lewis, told us on our Wedding Day, that what happened to us the day we met was the first time he had ever seen Love @ first sight. He had heard of it but never experienced it. He said he heard the sound of electricity when we shook hands, then when we went still, he was stunned.
He and Mrs. Lewis told us that when he told her what happened and they figurd it out, they were a little envious of us, yet because of how it effected us, they were glad they never experienced it.
I do beleive in Love at First Sight, as I experienced it. I do not expect to find it again. I don't know that I will be so Blessed more than once.
Yet, I could be wrong. I know others whom HAVE been so blessed. So I hope that, whatever Powers that be, I would be blessed this way again.
There is a big difference between giving fully of ourselves and expecting another to make things happen for us or to be our all.
I saw a phrase on time about Love, that wnet some thing like this:
Love and loving one another is a very big thing. Yet, it is part of a even bigger thing because it transends from a larger love far greater than eith of you. This is from infinity and beyond, which ties us to G-d.
Can't remember the precise words nor whom wrote it.
quote=pretzelman]Sharon and I are still "seeing" each other. Although she is in Fla and I am here in Las Vegas. She is spb185. We met before she joined CS. WE have been "dating" for over a year.
I am going back to Fla in February, and we will decide where it is going to go, either just be long distance friends or cement the relationship into something more permanent.
I enjoy reading the fantasy books about Vampires, Lycans and other werecreatures. I will even read the Harlequin Nocturne romance books and I am not a real fan of romance novels, just sci fi,technical,and mystries.
I don't mind the IM on. All you have to do is check first, using the menu on the left of your profile, Where it says my IM requests. Then see whom it is before you click yes or no.
Technically, I thought we were supposed to get a message sying whom, where , etc cet not a generic " A CS wants to IM you" message.
I too have had 3 to 5 IM's pop up and open w/o asking, while being in IM with someone. I found it very unsettling told the mods to make sure I get a yes/no accept menue for IM.
Sorry, email me, hope u know you can. Mine is still in India, for a family member's funeral. He does email me 1 -2 a week, and we did discuss it, that it would be much less frequent than here. It is still hard. We are going to meet face to face when he gets back.
RE: Warning! I heard some guy has misletoe hung on his pants zipper!