Hi Mark, thanks for your reply. I totally agree that the odds are 1 to 100 or close to that, but I'm hoping that someone can inspire me to believe otherwise
Is it possible and probable that two people who are equaly interested can sustain a relationship, and for how long, from far away, countries away? Does anyone have any interesting stories or opinions about that?
Love is lasting, attraction is temporary. You can be attracted to many, but whom do you love? Love is sacrificing, attraction is playful. Attraction can easily turn into disappointment when you find out the person is ugly in reality. Love is tender, attraction is raw. Love is spiritual, attraction physical. Ultimately, what you value more says a lot about your spiritual development as an individual. Are you operating on a physical level of existence, or are you more sublime?
I think I might be able to help. Obssessive love is actually not love If you are not able to take a step back and look at the situation objectively, then you are definitely obssessed, if logic says one thing and behavior another , you are obssessed. If it is destructive and it interrupts your life and happiness it is obssessive. To be madly in love is great. It feels great and it motivates you to be your very best and more. If it doesn't feel right and you are not happy please don't call it love my friend.
You are mistaken, to not only accept this kind of nonsense but to justify it? How come you weren't afraid of anything, or if you had some doubts, your love was much stronger to carry you to the light? Anyway, you deserve to have your affections validated and reciprocated. Just imagine yourself walking down the isle to marry this man who is doubting you or the future or himself is that the kind of man you will be able to respect and love in the long run?
A lack of commitment in a relationship to me points out a lack of true love. The other person's willingness to let it all go down the drain while watching and doing nothing to prevent it, tells me he didn't love you. Put it in the proper perspective and that should help you get over him.
If you don't like what it does to you or how you transform when you do drink, then, for me that would be enough of a reason to make a serious effort to live a happier life.
Il postino/ the postman The Amazing Mr.Ripley(Matt Damon, Jude Law and Gwen Paltrow) Cold Mountain Titanic Pursuit of Happiness Gladiator Good Fellas Scarface dances with wolves Anthony Quinn in this classic film where is traveling with the circus sound of music saturday night ..... J.Travolta
There are no rules in love. But should it happen the way you just mentioned, maybe what you felt for the pervious person was no longer love. If you still loved the other person, you wouldn't have given the new love a chance, or there wouldn't have been room in your heart for two? Could it be that you were unfullfilled with your old love?
You need to move or to send your roommate packing. I am Christian, specifically, Greek Orthodox, but I feel that a good person will first start by respecting you. As long as you respect each other as human beings, I feel that God would be proud of you both despite your differences. Jesus healed people from all walks of life. Even, this man who was possessed of bad spirits was not too lowly for him to take the time to cure? Isn't that love in its purest of forms, and why can't we all learn from it? Doctrine has nothing to do with God> Tell your friend that . Neither does dogmatic, chauvinistic thinking, which is what your "friend" is doing to you. What her faith has achieved is to brain wash her. In the end the bible says that we will all be judged by our own acts, so she should not be responsible for you, if you are not believing in Jesus, nor will she get banned out of heaven because she allows you to pray in her home under a different religion. You are two separate people and you are held accountable for yourself not others. Talk to her, but if she doesn't change, move on. You need to live life on your own terms, you don't need anybody's permission or blessing to be yourself.
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long distance relationships
without trust it's impossible