tainogirl Forum Posts (3,777)

RE: What Do you Think of This?

Here's the thing. They are parents now. They are going to make mistakes with their kids. No one is perfect. I've seen kids have their parents divorce and then they end up divorcing themselves. Only then do they TRULY understand exactly what their parents went through. I just hope it doesn't take those kinds of harsh lessons to turn your kids around.

RE: What Do you Think of This?

I know you've tried but you cannot control how people think. These are adults. You can give people all the information about something and they will still come to their own conclusions. Have you told them how this behaviour makes you feel? If you have then you've done all that you can. I just hope that for their sakes they do not wake up when it is too late.

RE: What Do you Think of This?

Your kids are adults now. They may feel some resentment because the family broke up but you had legitimate reasons for ending it. When we grow up we have to look at the decisions our parents make with adult eyes. A child may not be able to see the big picture in a situation but an adult should do better. If you have explained the situation to them,then you have done your best. Still keep the lines of communication open and hopefully one day they will come to understand. Keep on fostering your relationship with your grandkids.

A STICKY SITUATION

Certainly if he wished to experience a taste of hell on earth he could try that solution.

A STICKY SITUATION

I agree with this. I don't want a man marrying me out of courtesy. I want him marrying me because he loved me and that's what he wanted to do. It is painful yes to hear but even more painful later on if he starts looking for love elsewhere because it was never there to begin with and he now resents me. I can't think of anything worse than being with a man that does not love me.

RE: How often do you Update your Photos?

Hi Mindful

RE: How often do you Update your Photos?

I like to update mine. I get bored seeing the same thing over and over. I think it keeps things fresh and interesting. Anyway what you see is what you get.

A STICKY SITUATION

On my way to work, I was listening to some gentlemen on an Indian radio station here discussing a very sticky situation. Apparently one of the men had a good friend who was supposed to be getting married to this young lady(I am not sure if this was supposed to be an arranged marriage). Things were going well,he had met the girl's parents and they were supposed to be in the process of making arrangements for the wedding. One problem. The guy had now fallen in love with the girl's sister. The guys on the station were now debating what was the right thing to do in this situation. The man's friend was saying that he should come clean to the girl and tell her that he had feelings for her sister. The other man was saying that he had already made a committment to the girl and that if he had been intimate with her, then he should go ahead and try and make it work. The friend said that he should be honest with the girl before the wedding, since how would the girl feel knowing he was always thinking about her sister. There was also the issue of having to tell the parents after having met them (and there being the understanding that he was marrying one sister), that he was now in love with the other sister. What do you think should be done?

RE: Are you... jealous????

'Head space issues' I like how you put that Virgo. But what if it isn't just a guy having some mental issue what if its a culturally taught belief that a man owns a woman? That his 'invested interest' is never to leave him to go to another man, no matter how abusive the relationship has become or because the woman just no longer wishes to be in it. Each year there are a few cases here of men letting their jealousy drive them to murder then suicide. There are always the exceptions to the rule but from what I have seen women will call each other out, cat fight, insult each other, burn a guy's clothes etc...but to think to stoop to murdering someone - from what I've observed, that's just not where many women's headspace will go. But I've seen a whole lot of men go there and not just think it but do it as well. I've just seen this way too often. Tell me again how women are more jealous than men?

RE: Decoding women talk

Here's another one that you left out:

(10) Go to hell: Usually means just that. I wouldn't stick around if I were a man.

RE: I’m starting a company and am employing here on CS

What size is your butt, I have an assortment of paddles to choose from and I want to find the right one for you.

RE: I’m starting a company and am employing here on CS

Good help is hard to find so here goes:

Will I be making lots of money? (cause I like to own lots of nice expensive things).

Will I be working with a nice cozy veiw of the sea? (Because I live on an island and would like to take a dip in the sea every now and again okay)

Does this job come with a young hot man toy? Why do I want one? Well DUH.....

Will I get lots of vacation time? (because you know all work and not enough holidays makes Taino a dull girl)

Don't take too long sendimg me my acceptance letter now.

RE: Are you... jealous????

Yes they are wise alright in that they soon come to realise that THEY are the problem, and thankfully they eliminate themselves.

RE: Are you... jealous????

Women more jealous than men? Are they? I'd like to ask that of the many women(and sometimes their children) out here who are now lying six feet under ground because some man could not handle that fact that they wanted to get out of the relationship and find someone else. I have yet to hear many stories where I come from, of some woman chopping up a man to death or hacking off a limb because of jealousy. However I have seen MEN being the main ones doing it. And when they can't handle the consequences of their actions the cowards then drink poison or hang themselves. I've heard of women doing bad things from jealousy but men will quite easily kill over a woman.

RE: Is it that Bad?

Hey you guys could come sun your buns with us for a while, just make sure and turn over every once in a while.

THE HOUSE HUBBY

If you can still shake your bacon, I think you'll get lucky.

THE HOUSE HUBBY

Maybe some men did but a lot didn't they jus saw it as well the natural order of things, I think it deserved the same respect as the man going out to make the bacon.

RE: Ladies

Sorry I don't want no man I gotta break a few nails and get a busted lip for.

THE HOUSE HUBBY

Yes ,yes one of those for sure.

THE HOUSE HUBBY

It is all about finding balance in a relationship. To try not to loose the connection between the two people and let other things crowd it out. It is always a hard balancing act.

THE HOUSE HUBBY

Want that dirty baby's bottom cleaned, baby fed and burped, those clothes washed and ironed, that whole house dusted and floors mopped - Pick him! Pick him!

THE HOUSE HUBBY

Well for a longtime women were never given respect for the awesome job they did in the home. I think a lot of men did not understand that this too was a JOB. A job that did not end for some ladies until way into the night, getting kids off to bed, sorting our clothes for the next day. Many women tumbled into bed tired long after hubby went to bed. We know it is a job. So if a man can't work for whatever reason and wants to take on the task why not? He is still making a valuable contribution. Sure he may not do things the way we may do it - he might even find better ways to do it. Once our home is happy, bills paid and kids fed what more could you want? Times have changed and I have no problem supporting a man if he's lost his job(once he's not given up and is still trying to find a job), disabled(but is willing to help)once there is CONTRIBUTION on both sides.

THE HOUSE HUBBY

The ICE AGE? Well all that ice has done wonders for your skin, you look so young and well preserved after all that time.

THE HOUSE HUBBY

Ladies what would happen if you met a guy who told you he would be quite content to stay at home while you went out to work. He'd pick up the kids after school, stay home with the baby, cook the food, do the laundry, clean the house etc... You could go out and make the bacon and he would fry it up. How would you feel about supporting the family while he kept things together at home. Would he get more or less respect from you? Would you prefer he be out there in the working world with you bringing in an income or just appreciate the job he does at home.

I know in a lot of societies the man is expected to be the main breadwinner. How many men would be willing to do this? Do you think it is beneath your manhood to do all this(let the lady take care of the home and kids) and would prefer to be a contributing breadwinner if not the sole breadwinner? Looking forward to hearing from both men and women.

RE: Why when you say the truth

Just a spider trying to catch a fly, lets hope he does not get caught in his own web.

RE: Why when you say the truth

Well that's the best one I heard this morning. You really want to know why no one is taking on a MARRIED MAN. A lot of women on here have been through divorces or are single and looking and all a married man represents is unesscessary complications. Keep at it and you might find one who will take you on for what she can get, perhaps you won't mind that. Good luck with that.

RE: Question

Oh don't pretend now.

RE: YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED

Well for what its worth here's my two cents. I'm all for courtesy and all but when you get a bagfull of scammers writing cattlecrap to you in the guise of nice pleasantries -its irrratating! Oh yes I do answer and I'm the picture of sweetness (in a go suck on an exhaust pipe scammer crap) sort of way. I just don't get it - they never write back. . I learnt long ago on this site to develop a thick, thick, skin. I correspond with people who I believe are genuine and try not to take the idiots too seriously. If I wrote someone and they did not respond I try not to take it too personally, they might simply not be interested and hey no one wants someone who isn't interested anyway.

RE: Question

You're kinda sharp for an old senile guy.

RE: Question

Well unless you plan to tell these women that your mother is sick and you need them to send you plane fare money to fly to Nigeria for her surgery, I'd say its all good.